Do you find the term "homo" offensive?
brianlux
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This is a sincere request to find out how people younger than myself (which most of you are) respond to the term "homo". My generation finds it offensive. Maybe yours doesn't. I'd like to know. I will make the poll anonymous so you can choose to reveal your feelings about the word as you please.
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Do you find the term "homo" offensive? 27 votes
I find the term "homo" offensive and indicative of homophobia
55%
15 votes
I do not find the term "homo" to be offensive.
25%
7 votes
I honestly don't know if the term "homo" is offensive.
3%
1 vote
Other (please explain).
14%
4 votes
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Depends on how it is used....it certainly can be if used in a certain way. (And it can be used in a way that I find funny as well.)
Words live within the context they are used, I feel.
Most people who use words like homo and debate PC do so with the intent to be antagonistic. They want to be offensive because they are bitter and grumpy.
I say that as someone who is prone to bitterness and grumpiness.
Do you have any male, gay, friends? Listen to how harsh they can be. Homo is on the tame side. They are joking the same way that I joke with my 250+ pound friend by calling him a fat bastard and hiding food when he comes over. (Or pointing out that some of my patio furniture chairs have tags on the bottom stating there is a 200 lb limit...so he needs to sit elsewhere. "The ground doesn't have any limit.")
Could be that I am friends with assholes, no matter where they are on the sex spectrum.
Context.
But yes, I find the word "homo" offensive.
My friends....we rip one another constantly. Perhaps that is because we are all jerks.
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totally depends on how it's used. But yeah, MOST of the time it is used in a derogatory manner.
-EV 8/14/93
-Eddie Vedder, "Smile"
My boss and I were out drinking in CA my last trip out there and these two dudes were next to us and wayyyy more drunk than we were. They started asking us how long we had been together, if our wives knew...all sorts of stuff like that, to try and throw us off.
We played it up, it was funny. Talked all sorts of urban dictionary type terms with them.
(A few of my wife's gay buddies from LA used to mess with me every single time we went out in a group. Constantly try to embarrass me -- until they learned it is about impossible to accomplish. A few drunken gay dudes messing with me as a grown adult did nothing but make me laugh. I know I like vaginas.)
They went off to find some other people to pick on.
Not sure what sort of harassment that would qualify as. We thought it was funny, though.
Not so sure some others might....and that is what they seemed to be looking for.
Man, it's hard to keep up with all the lingo changes these days.
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