Is it rape???

RogueStoner

Sorry for the heavy subject but I'm curious on people's opinions....
Here's the scenario:
Woman spends a night at a bar with a guy having a good time. She says it's time to go home and he offers to walk her. She's being flirty and they share a kiss or two. He suggests stopping at a playground along the way. They lay down on the slide, continue kissing, as he tries to pull her pants off. She says no three times but then blacks out somewhat and the deed is done.
Who considers that rape?

Degeneratefk

Sounds like rape to me. I dont really care if it was consensual, fucking a broad who is passed out is rape.

RogueStoner

Thank you!!! That's what I'm saying too! I keep telling her real men do still exist. Thank you for proving my point.

EM194007

Degeneratefk said:

Sounds like rape to me. I dont really care if it was consensual, fucking a broad who is passed out is rape.

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RogueStoner

I feel so guilty for not being able to prevent this. I saw it coming and I tried so hard. And having been through it myself, I still found myself feeling helpless towards her as she was telling me all about it and I remembered the feelings and saw the flashbacks. But despite all of that, I got through it, paid attention to her, got a list of resources to hit in the morning and I will see her through every step of the way. And I didn't shed a single fucking year for my own shit so I'm pretty damn proud right now!

Degeneratefk

RS, what are you saying? You banged some young stud after he passed out on you?

BLACK35

That's rape in my opinion

RogueStoner

Degeneratefk said:

RS, what are you saying? You banged some young stud after he passed out on you?

Shut up. I was stoned, obviously. I'm trying to cope.

And for the record, they may think they're dying but they're not.

Degeneratefk

RogueStoner said:

Degeneratefk said:

RS, what are you saying? You banged some young stud after he passed out on you?

Shut up. I was stoned, obviously. I'm trying to cope.

And for the record, they may think they're dying but they're not.

I'm teasing. Laughter is a coping mechanism.

RogueStoner

I know you were. So was I.

Thoughts_Arrive

Of course it is rape, she said NO. Once is enough let alone three times.

dimitrispearljam

she said NO.,.passed out or not it doesnst matter..its Rape

Wma31394

Is that scum bag in jail yet?

mcgruff10

Definitely rape.

markymark550

Agree with everyone else. Definitely rape.

deadendp

RogueStoner said:

I feel so guilty for not being able to prevent this. I saw it coming and I tried so hard. And having been through it myself, I still found myself feeling helpless towards her as she was telling me all about it and I remembered the feelings and saw the flashbacks. But despite all of that, I got through it, paid attention to her, got a list of resources to hit in the morning and I will see her through every step of the way. And I didn't shed a single fucking year for my own shit so I'm pretty damn proud right now!

First, I'm sorry because I know that this had to be hard on you.

Secondly, yes. It is most definitely rape. Now would be the time to have a rape kit done. Would she consider that?

F Me In The Brain

Sorry to hear about this...and sorry that it happens. No unequivocally means no.
Rape.

SD48277

Yes, it is rape. No, whether it is once or a dozen times, is no. Unconscious is not consent.

Wma31394

RogueStoner said:

I feel so guilty for not being able to prevent this. I saw it coming and I tried so hard. And having been through it myself, I still found myself feeling helpless towards her as she was telling me all about it and I remembered the feelings and saw the flashbacks. But despite all of that, I got through it, paid attention to her, got a list of resources to hit in the morning and I will see her through every step of the way. And I didn't shed a single fucking year for my own shit so I'm pretty damn proud right now!

Sorry this happened to you and your friend. I hope #1 on your resource list was to call the mofo cops!

F Me In The Brain

RogueStoner said:

I feel so guilty for not being able to prevent this. I saw it coming and I tried so hard. And having been through it myself, I still found myself feeling helpless towards her as she was telling me all about it and I remembered the feelings and saw the flashbacks. But despite all of that, I got through it, paid attention to her, got a list of resources to hit in the morning and I will see her through every step of the way. And I didn't shed a single fucking year for my own shit so I'm pretty damn proud right now!

Proud that you are being a good friend...don't forget to take a minute (or 5) today to process your feelings about 'your own shit.'
Crazy to hear a guy say this (right?) but pushing it down further ultimately doesn't work out as well as you might think. No reason you cannot call timeout for a bit to let some of that out.
Good luck.

HesCalledDyer

She said "no" - check
He did it anyway - check

Yep, that's textbook.