My Response to Raleigh :(

I emailed Ten Club today to ask for a refund for my Wrigley GA fan club tickets. I do not agree with disrespecting 14,000 ticket holders to make a political point.

The law passed on March 26th, if they are so attuned to the situation they should have given notice then. To jump on a political bandwagon as a way to denounce the "bathroom law" in North Carolina is too much. They have decided to exercise their 1st amendment rights and crush the rights of 14,000 fans. For the record I disagree with the law. But I feel more strongly against this reaction.

The civil rights movement showed the power of non-violent protest and putting things in the forefront. Lunch counter sit-ins and marching in Selma did more for civil rights than the boycott by musicians in the 80's from playing in South Africa. One is active protest and the other is an elitist way to avoid conflict.

The better protest would have been to have the concert, with a demonstration outside of the venue, before hand, Even escort transgendered individuals to the "wrong" bathroom whatever that means. Show defiance and solidarity.

I think Springsteen and now Pearl Jam have really missed an opportunity to show a more powerful stand on human rights by performing and protesting which would have allowed their fans to show their support for the cause.

Music and politics don't mix for me, and in this situation stomping on your fans to make a statement comes across as really elitist.
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  • joseph33joseph33 Posts: 1,247
    Its very sad that i am the first to respond to your thread. I wrote 10C earlier this morning voicing my own protest that i wish no longer to continue my membership after this June. Like war, a million things should have been done first before cancelling. But Ed took the phone call from uncle Bruce. I for one didnt plan on making the Raleigh show. And i whole heartedly disagree with the passing of that disgusting law. But now you have a lot of blue collar working people who are out a lot of money as well as scheduled vacation time. I dont think the fans truely see the amount of disrespect toward their fellow bretheren by the band. I can't with good conscience and integrity support this band no longer.
  • hsohihsohi Posts: 1,033
    I will miss you two in the merch lines. See ya.
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  • jeffbrjeffbr Posts: 7,177
    Good luck with the refund. I believe that 10c policy will only allow the band to dishonor ticket commitments.
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  • cincybearcatcincybearcat Posts: 16,358
    hsohi said:

    I will miss you two in the merch lines. See ya.

    Real nice.

    It's their opinion and it's at least not a hateful rant.

    Personally I'm going to wrigley and I can't wait. I'm glad this band is principled. No one is perfect, they messed this up on the timing for sure. But like the NC government, Pearl Jam can fix their mistake as well.
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  • FE55353FE55353 Posts: 65
    edited April 2016
    I think I am as bothered by the me first attitude of those that are voicing opinions on this. It is ok for some that the band took a stand, but not ok for me to disagree with the band because of those it affected? I really get more bothered by the society I live in.
    I mean for a rant here, America as a whole is comfortable buying smartphones made in China by workers who couldn't afford to buy the phone they assemble. As a society, we shop at Wal-Mart to pay as little as possible for everything, and don't mind how Wal-Mart treats suppliers or their employees. I guess something as trivial as the band cancelling a show doesn't even register with most of the country.
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  • my2handsmy2hands Posts: 17,117
    FE55353 said:

    I think I am as bothered by the me first attitude of those that are voicing opinions on this. It is ok for some that the band took a stand, but not ok for me to disagree with the band because of those it affected? I really get more bothered by the society I live in.
    I mean for a rant here, America as a whole is comfortable buying smartphones made in China by workers who couldn't afford to buy the phone they assemble. As a society, we shop at Wal-Mart to pay as little as possible for everything, and don't mind how Wal-Mart treats suppliers or their employees. I guess something as trivial as the band cancelling a show doesn't even register with most of the country.

    I'm with you...

    My question/issue is not the cancelation, but why wait so long? By doing so they knowingly threw their most dedicated fans under the bus
  • HoccapukHoccapuk Posts: 532
    Spot on and in an effort to be "inclusive" of everyone and everything we are excluding those who no longer agree. Many people who protest and fight for those being excluded get very angry and very offended when you don't agree with them....how is that being inclusive? Just respect the fact that different people have different beliefs and move on.
  • you know what they say about opinions... they're like tumors. once you have one, it's hard to shake and very easy for everyone to see. or something like that. let us suppose they just stop touring all together... is that going to make everyone happy? fuckin sucks bad they cancelled a show in my home state. i hope they don't stop touring, just so everyone can have their way.
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  • mookeywrenchmookeywrench Posts: 5,870
    Boycotting a band for Boycotting....at least both sides agree this as an effective means of protest.
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  • hsohihsohi Posts: 1,033
    Boycott the boycott by showing up to the venue.
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  • Vedd HeddVedd Hedd Posts: 4,592

    Boycotting a band for Boycotting....at least both sides agree this as an effective means of protest.

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  • KV4053KV4053 Posts: 1,503
    hsohi said:

    Boycott the boycott by showing up to the venue.

    Hahaha nice
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  • Indifference71Indifference71 Posts: 14,826
    my2hands said:

    FE55353 said:

    I think I am as bothered by the me first attitude of those that are voicing opinions on this. It is ok for some that the band took a stand, but not ok for me to disagree with the band because of those it affected? I really get more bothered by the society I live in.
    I mean for a rant here, America as a whole is comfortable buying smartphones made in China by workers who couldn't afford to buy the phone they assemble. As a society, we shop at Wal-Mart to pay as little as possible for everything, and don't mind how Wal-Mart treats suppliers or their employees. I guess something as trivial as the band cancelling a show doesn't even register with most of the country.

    I'm with you...

    My question/issue is not the cancelation, but why wait so long? By doing so they knowingly threw their most dedicated fans under the bus
    Yep. I understand them wanting to cancel but to wait until 2 days before the show to do it really sucked. My plan was to hit Hampton and Raleigh in the middle of a long road trip so it really didn't mess up my plans too much. We're just skipping Raleigh completely and going to visit friends in Charlotte a day early. But I really feel bad for the people who had flights/hotels booked based around this Raleigh show.
  • Vedd HeddVedd Hedd Posts: 4,592
    edited April 2016
    I literally have no idea how this decision could make anyone cancel their memberships or ask for refunds for other shows.

    This band has been political since the very beginning.

    In 1994-1995, when they did the "sponsored by no one" tour...they made the fans jump through hoops because they tried to not use ticketmaster venues. A lot of fans reacted in the EXACT same way as people are now. And THAT boycott was brutal for an entire tour. And more.

    Now we have a situation where peoples lives are being affected by these laws....and they make a controversial decision to do this.

    So...i get it....it sucks....they made a stand....it could have been sooner but its not about you. Its about the people who have to live their lives under this type of law.

    Again....i get it. I would be furious if this happened. Livid. I would be venting, too. I would be pissed (and i am pissed) at the people who made these laws and not the band. Even if PJ messes up every now and then.....really....cutting out your entire history with the band?

    I dont get it.
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  • markymark550markymark550 Posts: 5,141
    Sorry that this has caused the first two posters to completely cut out the history they have with the band. Excellent post by @Vedd Hedd - very much my thoughts on the issue, but stated much more eloquently than what I would have said.
  • Rein77Rein77 Posts: 2
    FE55353 said:

    I emailed Ten Club today to ask for a refund for my Wrigley GA fan club tickets. I do not agree with disrespecting 14,000 ticket holders to make a political point.

    The law passed on March 26th, if they are so attuned to the situation they should have given notice then. To jump on a political bandwagon as a way to denounce the "bathroom law" in North Carolina is too much. They have decided to exercise their 1st amendment rights and crush the rights of 14,000 fans. For the record I disagree with the law. But I feel more strongly against this reaction.

    The civil rights movement showed the power of non-violent protest and putting things in the forefront. Lunch counter sit-ins and marching in Selma did more for civil rights than the boycott by musicians in the 80's from playing in South Africa. One is active protest and the other is an elitist way to avoid conflict.

    The better protest would have been to have the concert, with a demonstration outside of the venue, before hand, Even escort transgendered individuals to the "wrong" bathroom whatever that means. Show defiance and solidarity.

    I think Springsteen and now Pearl Jam have really missed an opportunity to show a more powerful stand on human rights by performing and protesting which would have allowed their fans to show their support for the cause.

    Music and politics don't mix for me, and in this situation stomping on your fans to make a statement comes across as really elitist.

    I would love to buy the Wrigley GA tickets if you don't get a refund from 10C. Or if 10C can somehow transfer the tickets to me I will pay them.

  • Daron OshayDaron Oshay Posts: 2,551
    Congrats for taking a stand and boycotting Pearl Jam. You should definitely not support something you don't believe is right.

    Oh wait....
  • cutting out your entire history with the band?

    I dont get it.
    I don't read it that way. I too am going to disengage from Pearl Jam for an indefinite period of time once I get my Raleigh pit tickets refunded.

    I'll be back eventually, but that doesn't mean I am not angry and disgusted *right now* that they bailed on Raleigh at the last minute, disallowing me to chance to see them in N.C. or in a neighboring state.

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  • Vedd HeddVedd Hedd Posts: 4,592
    The 2nd person in this thread is cancelling their 10c membership. I find that crazy.
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  • serpent boyserpent boy Posts: 372
    I don't see a problem with someone cancelling their membership based on this cancellation and how it was handled. Pearl Jam is well aware of the impact of their decision, and that's ok.

    They should've cancelled the Florida shows as well if they really feel passionate about this issue. Singling out NC sends the message that they're boycotting as part of the bandwagon instead of truly making a lasting message. I think a strong message like that would've oddly resulted in FEWER people upset because it shows true conviction and not something that simply keeps their ethos intact.
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  • I feel Bruce said it really well at the end of his statement.

    "Some things are more important than a rock show..."
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  • Vedd HeddVedd Hedd Posts: 4,592
    I went to a baseball game on a rainy day once....it was going to be rainy all day. They continued to say the game was on.

    I paid for parking. I paid for concessions. I sat in the rain for 3 hours, then the called the game. They never threw 1 pitch.

    Now, this is a much smaller scale, right? But same point. Only....in the case of the Baseball game, i KNOW they did it for the money. I'm sure there were travelers. Im sure there were people attending their first game. Im sure there were people who would have preferred they just call the game WAY before people got there. It would have saved me 25 bucks on parking, and 20-30 bucks on concessions.

    But i am still a fan of the team...even tho i KNOW they hosed me.

    So, trying to use this as a framework...pj didnt do this forna cash grab. They didnt do this to INTENTIONALLY hurt their fans. They did this on principle. I think the timing is definitely an issue. But I dont understand the downright outrage against the band. Its 100% acceptable to be upset and vent. Totally get that.

    But to cancel your membership? Ask for refunds for future concerts?

    That would be like giving up your season tickets, or wanting a refund on a future game, because the team did one thing wrong.

    So, again, its not a perfect analogy.

    But lets say for arguments sake that PJ totally fucked this up. Is this unforgivable? I dont see how this answer could be yes.
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  • tubes10stubes10s Posts: 529

    I feel Bruce said it really well at the end of his statement.

    "Some things are more important than a rock show..."


    I think Brandi Carlile and Jimmy Buffet said it far, far better.


    -- From Brandi Carlile's Facebook page:

    "...I'm a small artist, and I'm gay, many of my fans are gay as well.
    To cancel my shows in NC would further oppress my fans who are hurt by this legislation, who worked hard to suppress it, and who need a place where they can come together. That's why we intend to be in Wilkesboro, Charlotte, Asheville, and Greensboro this summer. We're going to come together, let our voices be heard, not stand down, and make a joyful noise in the face of this insult of a law..."


    -- And from Jimmy Buffet:

    "These shows were booked and sold out long before the governor signed that stupid law. I am not going to let stupidity or bigotry trump fun for my loyal fans this year. We will be playing in Raleigh and Charlotte next week." -Jimmy Buffet
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  • bootlegger10bootlegger10 Posts: 15,845

    Congrats for taking a stand and boycotting Pearl Jam. You should definitely not support something you don't believe is right.

    Oh wait....

    The difference is in this case the poster wants to stop supporting a band that directly disrespected them. PJ playing a concert had nothing to do with this law so there would be no harm done if Pearl Jam played. PJ chose harm.
  • 63schoefflin63schoefflin Posts: 2,581
    And most people agree. There's just a handful of people here in the 10c that support everything PJ does no matter what. The reaction outside of this forum, if some of you ever find time to get out of here, is pretty heavily one sided against them cancelling the show. It's just silly and impossible to defend that close to the show.
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  • jeffwalshjeffwalsh Posts: 169
    It's like Pearl Jam doesn't know what to do to best be Pearl Jam...
  • Vedd HeddVedd Hedd Posts: 4,592

    And most people agree. There's just a handful of people here in the 10c that support everything PJ does no matter what. The reaction outside of this forum, if some of you ever find time to get out of here, is pretty heavily one sided against them cancelling the show. It's just silly and impossible to defend that close to the show.

    I think what you are probably seeing is not so much "supporting everything they do no matter what", but you are likely seeing, "there are always people that disagree."

    I dont know anyone who agrees with everything this band has done. Be it music, merch, causes, etc. But there will always be some people who side with the band. Which is different from always some people who always side with the band.


    If that made sense....haha
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  • rollingsrollings Posts: 7,124
    How will PJ cancelling the show affect the law besides PJ making a statement that they REALLY don't like the law...so much so that they are willing to fuck their own fans over for it. I'm not impressed either.
  • Vedd HeddVedd Hedd Posts: 4,592
    rollings said:

    How will PJ cancelling the show affect the law besides PJ making a statement that they REALLY don't like the law...so much so that they are willing to fuck their own fans over for it. I'm not impressed either.

    I read a few articles that the state has lost around 182 million in revenue due to various cancellations.

    If enough people do this, over a period of time, and dont let up, they will have no choice but to overturn it.

    Then, people can move on to the next state and boycott that one.

    If people just say "we are going to honor our fans"...nobody cares what PJ says at their concert. Does anyone think a politician is going to listen to eddie and change their mind?

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  • 3days3days Posts: 1,158
    I think there's a lot of whacky going on around here. I didn't expect people to love the decision, but some of the comments on the board strike me as knee-jerk reactions (I hope).

    A band cancelled a show people wanted to attend, in a timeframe that people found to be inconvenient and expensive. Even considering the woulda, coulda, shouldas, it doesn't sound very offensive to me. I'm sad for all the people planning to attend, and the people who lost some dough in the process.

    I think the important thing to remember is that the band is trying to do something good! People may not agree with the cause, or with the methods used, but PJ are trying to lend a hand to something they see as important. It isn't a secret plot to alienate fans. If you're miffed about the handling - okay (even though none of us know the actual details/reasoning). If you're looking for an apology because you feel inconvenienced... I don't think they owe one to anybody.

    I hope people spend their newfound time telling local NC government how pissed they are about the show being cancelled. I hope people share their thoughts on the legislation to appropriate parties. Change is made in such ways.
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