Looking for an old friend from New York......kbauer

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  • hedonist said:

    ^^^
    Haults In Before The Fucking Lock Maul.

    Again with pushing this? Not getting it.

    Dcelani, there is/was a member from the old boards as well as this one with whom I've lost touch and haven't been able to find. She was a dear part of my life when it began to change for the better.

    Best of luck (and great attitude).
    Good point Hedo!
    I reverse my position and thought and hope this thread gets bumped for all eternity until the OP finds his friend.
  • DcelaniDcelani Posts: 45
    hedonist said:

    ^^^
    Haults In Before The Fucking Lock Maul.

    Again with pushing this? Not getting it.

    Dcelani, there is/was a member from the old boards as well as this one with whom I've lost touch and haven't been able to find. She was a dear part of my life when it began to change for the better.

    Best of luck (and great attitude).</blockquote.

    Thank you, there's been pj friends of my past who I have lost touch with, but can easily rekindle with, but she remains a mystery I would be happy with just knowing she was still alive and doing well. If I never get in touch with you...fuck you Katie for going to Irving plaza show.
  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524

    hedonist said:

    ^^^
    Haults In Before The Fucking Lock Maul.

    Again with pushing this? Not getting it.

    Dcelani, there is/was a member from the old boards as well as this one with whom I've lost touch and haven't been able to find. She was a dear part of my life when it began to change for the better.

    Best of luck (and great attitude).
    Good point Hedo!
    I reverse my position and thought and hope this thread gets bumped for all eternity until the OP finds his friend.
    I'm not looking to get this locked (and Kat, Sea, please don't give into the manufactured BS)...so I'll just say, please knock off that condescending P-A nonsense.
  • Leezestarr313Leezestarr313 Posts: 14,352
    edited January 2016

    I would hate if people put my full name out on a platform that can be read by anyone. I wish you good luck and hope your intentions are good, but I think putting the full name out was not needed.

    Most of us are on FB forums, no? Our names are out there and I embrace that.It's nice to put a screen name with a real name, :-).
    You don't need to use your real name on FB. And I left the big PJ group on there because it was dreadful.



  • Leezestarr313Leezestarr313 Posts: 14,352
    OP, there are different ways to spell the first name. Have you tried searching different spellings?
  • the paranoia in this society is staggering. a name is a name. there's probably 3500 Kate Bauers in each state alone. today's internet is yesterday's white pages. putting this person's name "out there" means zero. it's not like he put her social security number or her address out there. there is nothing creepy about this, I have lost touch with people that we have no other friends in common, so I get it, and I hope you find your friend.
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  • ldent42ldent42 Posts: 7,859

    the paranoia in this society is staggering. a name is a name. there's probably 3500 Kate Bauers in each state alone. today's internet is yesterday's white pages. putting this person's name "out there" means zero. it's not like he put her social security number or her address out there. there is nothing creepy about this, I have lost touch with people that we have no other friends in common, so I get it, and I hope you find your friend.

    Someone with the same name as me lives on the same block as me a few avenues over. There one single digit difference in our addresses. Same apartment number too. It's been a while since I've gotten her mail so I think she may have moved lol. My point being we are not as unique as we'd like to think :innocent:

    I would hate if people put my full name out on a platform that can be read by anyone. I wish you good luck and hope your intentions are good, but I think putting the full name out was not needed.

    Most of us are on FB forums, no? Our names are out there and I embrace that.It's nice to put a screen name with a real name, :-).
    You don't need to use your real name on FB. And I left the big PJ group on there because it was dreadful.



    They have been cracking down on people using fake names. It's so stupid.
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  • ^^^
    Yeah it's stupid.
    I hope 10c starts to crack down on forum users with fake names.
    Our real names should be attached to every post that is made.
  • ^^^
    Yeah it's stupid.
    I hope 10c starts to crack down on forum users with fake names.
    Our real names should be attached to every post that is made.

    :no_mouth:
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  • PJfanwillneverleave1PJfanwillneverleave1 Posts: 12,885
    edited January 2016

    ^^^
    Yeah it's stupid.
    I hope 10c starts to crack down on forum users with fake names.
    Our real names should be attached to every post that is made.

    :no_mouth:
    No, seriously.
    Everyone seems to want the facebook esque feel to this forum.
    Otherwise this thread http://community.pearljam.com/discussion/228773/post-a-pic-or-gif-to-show-how-you-feel-about-the-new-forum#latest would've not have been loc-lited.
    or this one http://community.pearljam.com/discussion/245661/nickelback-or-backspacer-songs/p3
    Post edited by PJfanwillneverleave1 on
  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524

    ^^^
    Yeah it's stupid.
    I hope 10c starts to crack down on forum users with fake names.
    Our real names should be attached to every post that is made.

    :no_mouth:
    No, seriously.
    Everyone seems to want the facebook esque feel to this forum.
    Otherwise this thread http://community.pearljam.com/discussion/228773/post-a-pic-or-gif-to-show-how-you-feel-about-the-new-forum#latest would've not have been loc-lited.
    or this one http://community.pearljam.com/discussion/245661/nickelback-or-backspacer-songs/p3
    This is the / a current mindset?

    I give my real name and other info to those whom I trust.

    And please don't speak for "everyone"...or for me.

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  • hedonist said:

    ^^^
    Yeah it's stupid.
    I hope 10c starts to crack down on forum users with fake names.
    Our real names should be attached to every post that is made.

    :no_mouth:
    No, seriously.
    Everyone seems to want the facebook esque feel to this forum.
    Otherwise this thread http://community.pearljam.com/discussion/228773/post-a-pic-or-gif-to-show-how-you-feel-about-the-new-forum#latest would've not have been loc-lited.
    or this one http://community.pearljam.com/discussion/245661/nickelback-or-backspacer-songs/p3
    This is the / a current mindset?

    I give my real name and other info to those whom I trust.

    And please don't speak for "everyone"...or for me.

    Not everyone aspires to be a brilliant asterisk.
    What is your name again?
  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524

    hedonist said:

    ^^^
    Yeah it's stupid.
    I hope 10c starts to crack down on forum users with fake names.
    Our real names should be attached to every post that is made.

    :no_mouth:
    No, seriously.
    Everyone seems to want the facebook esque feel to this forum.
    Otherwise this thread http://community.pearljam.com/discussion/228773/post-a-pic-or-gif-to-show-how-you-feel-about-the-new-forum#latest would've not have been loc-lited.
    or this one http://community.pearljam.com/discussion/245661/nickelback-or-backspacer-songs/p3
    This is the / a current mindset?

    I give my real name and other info to those whom I trust.

    And please don't speak for "everyone"...or for me.

    Not everyone aspires to be a brilliant asterisk.
    What is your name again?
    Slim Shady?

    See bolded above.
  • PJfanwillneverleave1PJfanwillneverleave1 Posts: 12,885
    edited January 2016
    .
    Post edited by PJfanwillneverleave1 on
  • ldent42ldent42 Posts: 7,859

    ^^^
    Yeah it's stupid.
    I hope 10c starts to crack down on forum users with fake names.
    Our real names should be attached to every post that is made.

    I dont know if you're just acting out or if you took what I said the wrong way. I think it's stupid the FACEBOOK decided to start demanding people use their real/legal name.
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  • Leezestarr313Leezestarr313 Posts: 14,352
    edited January 2016
    ldent42 said:


    They have been cracking down on people using fake names. It's so stupid.

    Well, not for German fb users. Lucky us, I guess :)
    http://www.theguardian.com/technology/2015/jul/29/germany-fights-facebook-over-real-names-policy

    Post edited by Leezestarr313 on
  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524

    ^^^
    Great song by Eminem.
    You rock Hedo!

    Was in the process of replying to this earlier, got side-tracked, and ended up draft-saving.

    Not sure why you period-ed this two hours after the fact. Seemed innocuous enough but who knows. Doesn't really matter from here, actually.

    Better be quicker on that trigger-finger next time though :cowboy:

  • josevolutionjosevolution Posts: 29,541
    You all know my name
    jesus greets me looks just like me ....
  • rgambsrgambs Posts: 13,576

    You all know my name

    I don't, I joined in part to meet up with fans at shows, but I haven't had the opportunity yet. Hopefully my beautiful wife and I will have the opportunity in this coming tour cycle! There's lots of sweet ass folks around here I would love to burn one down and toss a few back with!
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  • ldent42ldent42 Posts: 7,859
    edited January 2016
    rgambs said:

    You all know my name

    I don't, I joined in part to meet up with fans at shows, but I haven't had the opportunity yet. Hopefully my beautiful wife and I will have the opportunity in this coming tour cycle! There's lots of sweet ass folks around here I would love to burn one down and toss a few back with!
    lol i'm thinking he means Jose... or possibly Jo now that I'm looking at it :lol: I've been reading it as Jose this whole time
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  • RKCNDYRKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    ldent42 said:

    rgambs said:

    You all know my name

    I don't, I joined in part to meet up with fans at shows, but I haven't had the opportunity yet. Hopefully my beautiful wife and I will have the opportunity in this coming tour cycle! There's lots of sweet ass folks around here I would love to burn one down and toss a few back with!
    lol i'm thinking he means Jose... or possibly Jo now that I'm looking at it :lol: I've been reading it as Jose this whole time
    Jose is one cool dude.

    OP, I do hope you find your friend. I think it's great you remember her and just want to check in and see how she's doing. In this day that we live in, too many people are caught up in themselves, back then life was so easy, simple, organic. None of all this fast paced mememe world...human connections...we need more of that. Best of luck to you.
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  • dankinddankind Posts: 20,839
    RKCNDY said:

    ldent42 said:

    rgambs said:

    You all know my name

    I don't, I joined in part to meet up with fans at shows, but I haven't had the opportunity yet. Hopefully my beautiful wife and I will have the opportunity in this coming tour cycle! There's lots of sweet ass folks around here I would love to burn one down and toss a few back with!
    lol i'm thinking he means Jose... or possibly Jo now that I'm looking at it :lol: I've been reading it as Jose this whole time
    Jose is one cool dude.

    OP, I do hope you find your friend. I think it's great you remember her and just want to check in and see how she's doing. In this day that we live in, too many people are caught up in themselves, back then life was so easy, simple, organic. None of all this fast paced mememe world...human connections...we need more of that. Best of luck to you.
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  • You all know my name

    I had the pleasure of meeting Jose at a Jack White show!

    Hi Jose!
  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Posts: 49,954
    edited January 2016
    rgambs said:

    I don't see why it is so creepy, of course it has that potential but there's no reason to jump to that conclusion.

    Agreed. Not creepy to try and make contact with a friend you've lost touch with. It's only creepy if he starts doing creepy shit!
    Hell, I once looked for an old friend by posting his full name on the Craigslist site for the city where I thought he was most likely in (no results, unfortunately, but there was nothing creepy about it. I just missed my old friend and wanted to reconnect!).
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  • Empty GlassEmpty Glass Posts: 12,329
    . is looking for it's old friend ,

    Best of luck op
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  • muskydanmuskydan Posts: 1,013

    You all know my name

    I had the pleasure of meeting Jose at a Jack White show!

    Hi Jose!
    Was he wearing a shirt w/ a Big Marajuana plant on it??? Please say Yes...
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  • muskydan said:

    You all know my name

    I had the pleasure of meeting Jose at a Jack White show!

    Hi Jose!
    Was he wearing a shirt w/ a Big Marajuana plant on it??? Please say Yes...
    Hahaha. No.
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  • callencallen Posts: 6,388
    FB pushes for real names??? Really. And people still use it???!?!? Fk people.

    Think Musky,s giving good advise to not give up info. You have no idea what's really up.
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