Looking for an old friend from New York......kbauer

Dcelani

Her name is Katie Bauer, does anyone know her? She was a big pj fan, we have no mutual friends and I would really like to get in touch with her. Creep ball busting comments are welcomed thanks.

brianlux

Dcelani said:

Her name is Katie Bauer, does anyone know her? She was a big pj fan, we have no mutual friends and I would really like to get in touch with her. Creep ball busting comments are welcomed thanks.

Sorry, no. I have a relative with a very similar name so this caught my eye (but she's just a kid). Good luck, hope you catch up with your friend.

muskydan

This is My first serious post in quite sometime now. If any of you do know this woman please reach out to her first before you dime her out. As you all know , you can be anyone in this Brave New internet World of ours. Now back to my mourning glory dump.

PJfanwillneverleave1

So if we know this person, first and last name because of you now we are supposed to let her know that someone called Dcelani wants to really get in touch with her?

Yes, creepy.

hedonist

Don't know her but wish you luck.

Not sure if that's her username in the subject line, but maybe doing a search to see if she's a member here would help.

Dcelani

PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

So if we know this person, first and last name because of you now we are supposed to let her know that someone called Dcelani wants to really get in touch with her?

Yes, creepy.

If you know her you can tell her that, she's can contact me if she wants, I'm married with a kid and she was my friend and pearl jam is my only remaining connection to her. I just wanted to talk to her, not trying to be creepy.

Bentleyspop

If she's any relation to Jack Bauer you may want to back off.

rgambs

I don't see why it is so creepy, of course it has that potential but there's no reason to jump to that conclusion.

brianlux

I have a few college buddies I've tried to look up, guys that were really good buds back in the day. Oddly, so far I've only found one on line, a very good friend from '69 through '74. But what I found was his obituary. Dead of cancer at 60. Damn depressing it was. The good thing though is I found a late photo of him and put it up with all the others that circulate on my laptop desktop. Good times, good memories.

kce8

brianlux said:

I have a few college buddies I've tried to look up, guys that were really good buds back in the day. Oddly, so far I've only found one on line, a very good friend from '69 through '74. But what I found was his obituary. Dead of cancer at 60. Damn depressing it was. The good thing though is I found a late photo of him and put it up with all the others that circulate on my laptop desktop. Good times, good memories.

Brian, I am so sorry for you! That's really sad!
Yes, memories is all we have...I'm glad you found that picture!

bootlegger10

rgambs said:

I don't see why it is so creepy, of course it has that potential but there's no reason to jump to that conclusion.

Right, no reason to poke fun or attack. Smart though if you do know this girl to give her a heads-up first.

ldent42

rgambs said:

I don't see why it is so creepy, of course it has that potential but there's no reason to jump to that conclusion.

+1
I don't see the issue with trying to reconnect with an old concert buddy or whatever.

muskydan

This phrase is used often, but fits perfectly here....Ignorance is Bliss

If you know this woman please reach out to her first before giving out any information about her. It's obvious people on here have no idea how hard and scarey it is to get away from someone they want no part of...think about that for a minute. Flush

rgambs

muskydan said:

This phrase is used often, but fits perfectly here....Ignorance is Bliss

If you know this woman please reach out to her first before giving out any information about her. It's obvious people on here have no idea how hard and scarey it is to get away from someone they want no part of...think about that for a minute. Flush

You haven't the perception to understand what people here have an idea about, we are all in agreement that informing her is the smart thing to do. Being smart about giving out people's information is not an equal (or even related) concept to assuming that someone searching someone else out is a creeper perv.

2-feign-reluctance

I dated a Katie Lauer when I was in 11th grade. 2 weeks after we started dating ahe told me she had Type I Diabetes like me. 2 weeks....

PJfanwillneverleave1

I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.

hedonist

PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.

Stick to the topic! Haha.

Pretty sure the moral code of passing on someone else's contact info is to make sure beforehand that it's OK to do so.

PJfanwillneverleave1

hedonist said:

PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.

Stick to the topic! Haha.

Pretty sure the moral code of passing on someone else's contact info is to make sure beforehand that it's OK to do so.

Hence the hint that this thread should be stopped.
A random OP asking the forum to help contact a random person who they share no personal friends with?
WTF?

hedonist

PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

hedonist said:

PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.

Stick to the topic! Haha.

Pretty sure the moral code of passing on someone else's contact info is to make sure beforehand that it's OK to do so.

Hence the hint that this thread should be stopped.
A random OP asking the forum to help contact a random person who they share no personal friends with?
WTF?

Hence the mention of the so-called moral code.

Though sometimes I don't get the point of locking certain threads, it's pretty much the Mods' call...unless someone is so bothered to have it stopped as to report or request it.

I really didn't see weirdness in either the initial post or the follow-up one. Just someone trying to locate a friend.

PJfanwillneverleave1

hedonist said:

PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

hedonist said:

PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.

Stick to the topic! Haha.

Pretty sure the moral code of passing on someone else's contact info is to make sure beforehand that it's OK to do so.

Hence the hint that this thread should be stopped.
A random OP asking the forum to help contact a random person who they share no personal friends with?
WTF?

Hence the mention of the so-called moral code.

Though sometimes I don't get the point of locking certain threads, it's pretty much the Mods' call...unless someone is so bothered to have it stopped as to report or request it.

I really didn't see weirdness in either the initial post or the follow-up one. Just someone trying to locate a friend.

Fuck...
We are becoming facebook.

muskydan

rgambs said:

muskydan said:

This phrase is used often, but fits perfectly here....Ignorance is Bliss

If you know this woman please reach out to her first before giving out any information about her. It's obvious people on here have no idea how hard and scarey it is to get away from someone they want no part of...think about that for a minute. Flush

You haven't the perception to understand what people here have an idea about, we are all in agreement that informing her is the smart thing to do. Being smart about giving out people's information is not an equal (or even related) concept to assuming that someone searching someone else out is a creeper perv.

So now you are able to understand everyone's perceived intentions? Wow...What an amazing gift you have.. For the record I never called anyone a creeper perv, so get your shit straight pal.

One can never be to careful when it comes to shit like this.