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Looking for an old friend from New York......kbauer

DcelaniDcelani Posts: 45
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Her name is Katie Bauer, does anyone know her? She was a big pj fan, we have no mutual friends and I would really like to get in touch with her. Creep ball busting comments are welcomed thanks.
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  • brianluxbrianlux Posts: 42,038
    Dcelani said:

    Her name is Katie Bauer, does anyone know her? She was a big pj fan, we have no mutual friends and I would really like to get in touch with her. Creep ball busting comments are welcomed thanks.

    Sorry, no. I have a relative with a very similar name so this caught my eye (but she's just a kid). Good luck, hope you catch up with your friend.
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  • muskydanmuskydan Posts: 1,013
    This is My first serious post in quite sometime now. If any of you do know this woman please reach out to her first before you dime her out. As you all know , you can be anyone in this Brave New internet World of ours. Now back to my mourning glory dump.
  • PJfanwillneverleave1PJfanwillneverleave1 Posts: 12,885
    So if we know this person, first and last name because of you now we are supposed to let her know that someone called Dcelani wants to really get in touch with her?

    Yes, creepy.
  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524
    Don't know her but wish you luck.

    Not sure if that's her username in the subject line, but maybe doing a search to see if she's a member here would help.
  • DcelaniDcelani Posts: 45
    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    So if we know this person, first and last name because of you now we are supposed to let her know that someone called Dcelani wants to really get in touch with her?

    Yes, creepy.

    If you know her you can tell her that, she's can contact me if she wants, I'm married with a kid and she was my friend and pearl jam is my only remaining connection to her. I just wanted to talk to her, not trying to be creepy.
  • BentleyspopBentleyspop Posts: 10,767
    If she's any relation to Jack Bauer you may want to back off.
  • rgambsrgambs Posts: 13,576
    I don't see why it is so creepy, of course it has that potential but there's no reason to jump to that conclusion.
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  • brianluxbrianlux Posts: 42,038
    I have a few college buddies I've tried to look up, guys that were really good buds back in the day. Oddly, so far I've only found one on line, a very good friend from '69 through '74. But what I found was his obituary. Dead of cancer at 60. Damn depressing it was. The good thing though is I found a late photo of him and put it up with all the others that circulate on my laptop desktop. Good times, good memories.
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  • kce8kce8 Posts: 1,636
    brianlux said:

    I have a few college buddies I've tried to look up, guys that were really good buds back in the day. Oddly, so far I've only found one on line, a very good friend from '69 through '74. But what I found was his obituary. Dead of cancer at 60. Damn depressing it was. The good thing though is I found a late photo of him and put it up with all the others that circulate on my laptop desktop. Good times, good memories.

    Brian, I am so sorry for you! That's really sad!
    Yes, memories is all we have...I'm glad you found that picture!
  • bootlegger10bootlegger10 Posts: 15,944
    rgambs said:

    I don't see why it is so creepy, of course it has that potential but there's no reason to jump to that conclusion.

    Right, no reason to poke fun or attack. Smart though if you do know this girl to give her a heads-up first.
  • ldent42ldent42 Posts: 7,859
    rgambs said:

    I don't see why it is so creepy, of course it has that potential but there's no reason to jump to that conclusion.

    +1
    I don't see the issue with trying to reconnect with an old concert buddy or whatever.
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  • muskydanmuskydan Posts: 1,013
    This phrase is used often, but fits perfectly here....Ignorance is Bliss

    If you know this woman please reach out to her first before giving out any information about her. It's obvious people on here have no idea how hard and scarey it is to get away from someone they want no part of...think about that for a minute. Flush
  • rgambsrgambs Posts: 13,576
    muskydan said:

    This phrase is used often, but fits perfectly here....Ignorance is Bliss

    If you know this woman please reach out to her first before giving out any information about her. It's obvious people on here have no idea how hard and scarey it is to get away from someone they want no part of...think about that for a minute. Flush

    You haven't the perception to understand what people here have an idea about, we are all in agreement that informing her is the smart thing to do. Being smart about giving out people's information is not an equal (or even related) concept to assuming that someone searching someone else out is a creeper perv.
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  • 2-feign-reluctance2-feign-reluctance Posts: 23,308
    I dated a Katie Lauer when I was in 11th grade. 2 weeks after we started dating ahe told me she had Type I Diabetes like me. 2 weeks....
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  • PJfanwillneverleave1PJfanwillneverleave1 Posts: 12,885
    I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.
  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524
    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.

    Stick to the topic! Haha.

    Pretty sure the moral code of passing on someone else's contact info is to make sure beforehand that it's OK to do so.
  • PJfanwillneverleave1PJfanwillneverleave1 Posts: 12,885
    hedonist said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.

    Stick to the topic! Haha.

    Pretty sure the moral code of passing on someone else's contact info is to make sure beforehand that it's OK to do so.
    Hence the hint that this thread should be stopped.
    A random OP asking the forum to help contact a random person who they share no personal friends with?
    WTF?
  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524
    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    hedonist said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.

    Stick to the topic! Haha.

    Pretty sure the moral code of passing on someone else's contact info is to make sure beforehand that it's OK to do so.
    Hence the hint that this thread should be stopped.
    A random OP asking the forum to help contact a random person who they share no personal friends with?
    WTF?
    Hence the mention of the so-called moral code.

    Though sometimes I don't get the point of locking certain threads, it's pretty much the Mods' call...unless someone is so bothered to have it stopped as to report or request it.

    I really didn't see weirdness in either the initial post or the follow-up one. Just someone trying to locate a friend.
  • PJfanwillneverleave1PJfanwillneverleave1 Posts: 12,885
    hedonist said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    hedonist said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.

    Stick to the topic! Haha.

    Pretty sure the moral code of passing on someone else's contact info is to make sure beforehand that it's OK to do so.
    Hence the hint that this thread should be stopped.
    A random OP asking the forum to help contact a random person who they share no personal friends with?
    WTF?
    Hence the mention of the so-called moral code.

    Though sometimes I don't get the point of locking certain threads, it's pretty much the Mods' call...unless someone is so bothered to have it stopped as to report or request it.

    I really didn't see weirdness in either the initial post or the follow-up one. Just someone trying to locate a friend.
    Fuck...
    We are becoming facebook.
  • muskydanmuskydan Posts: 1,013
    rgambs said:

    muskydan said:

    This phrase is used often, but fits perfectly here....Ignorance is Bliss

    If you know this woman please reach out to her first before giving out any information about her. It's obvious people on here have no idea how hard and scarey it is to get away from someone they want no part of...think about that for a minute. Flush

    You haven't the perception to understand what people here have an idea about, we are all in agreement that informing her is the smart thing to do. Being smart about giving out people's information is not an equal (or even related) concept to assuming that someone searching someone else out is a creeper perv.
    So now you are able to understand everyone's perceived intentions? Wow...What an amazing gift you have.. For the record I never called anyone a creeper perv, so get your shit straight pal.

    One can never be to careful when it comes to shit like this.
  • tempo_n_groovetempo_n_groove Posts: 40,355
    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    hedonist said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    hedonist said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.

    Stick to the topic! Haha.

    Pretty sure the moral code of passing on someone else's contact info is to make sure beforehand that it's OK to do so.
    Hence the hint that this thread should be stopped.
    A random OP asking the forum to help contact a random person who they share no personal friends with?
    WTF?
    Hence the mention of the so-called moral code.

    Though sometimes I don't get the point of locking certain threads, it's pretty much the Mods' call...unless someone is so bothered to have it stopped as to report or request it.

    I really didn't see weirdness in either the initial post or the follow-up one. Just someone trying to locate a friend.
    Fuck...
    We are becoming facebook.
    Mic drop...
  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524
    tempo_n_groove said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    hedonist said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    hedonist said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.

    Stick to the topic! Haha.

    Pretty sure the moral code of passing on someone else's contact info is to make sure beforehand that it's OK to do so.
    Hence the hint that this thread should be stopped.
    A random OP asking the forum to help contact a random person who they share no personal friends with?
    WTF?
    Hence the mention of the so-called moral code.

    Though sometimes I don't get the point of locking certain threads, it's pretty much the Mods' call...unless someone is so bothered to have it stopped as to report or request it.

    I really didn't see weirdness in either the initial post or the follow-up one. Just someone trying to locate a friend.
    Fuck...
    We are becoming facebook.
    Mic drop...
    My ears!!!

    I don't know from Facebook...but there are many who've connected and reconnected via this band (and forum). Just not getting the big deal with this :i_dunno:
  • deadendpdeadendp Posts: 10,434
    hedonist said:

    tempo_n_groove said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    hedonist said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    hedonist said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.

    Stick to the topic! Haha.

    Pretty sure the moral code of passing on someone else's contact info is to make sure beforehand that it's OK to do so.
    Hence the hint that this thread should be stopped.
    A random OP asking the forum to help contact a random person who they share no personal friends with?
    WTF?
    Hence the mention of the so-called moral code.

    Though sometimes I don't get the point of locking certain threads, it's pretty much the Mods' call...unless someone is so bothered to have it stopped as to report or request it.

    I really didn't see weirdness in either the initial post or the follow-up one. Just someone trying to locate a friend.
    Fuck...
    We are becoming facebook.
    Mic drop...
    My ears!!!

    I don't know from Facebook...but there are many who've connected and reconnected via this band (and forum). Just not getting the big deal with this :i_dunno:
    +1. I don't either. Someone was trying to track someone else down. No need to lock. Nobody is a creeper. It wasn't requested to sticky this thread either.

    I've had people reach out to me to see how Tree/Whispering Hands is doing. I didn't find that creeperish at all. She thought it was rather thoughtful and it touched her heart.

    Good luck tracking her down, Dcelani.
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  • Leezestarr313Leezestarr313 Posts: 14,352
    I would hate if people put my full name out on a platform that can be read by anyone. I wish you good luck and hope your intentions are good, but I think putting the full name out was not needed.
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  • tempo_n_groovetempo_n_groove Posts: 40,355
    Leezestarr313 said:

    I would hate if people put my full name out on a platform that can be read by anyone. I wish you good luck and hope your intentions are good, but I think putting the full name out was not needed.

    Most of us are on FB forums, no? Our names are out there and I embrace that.It's nice to put a screen name with a real name, :-).
  • tempo_n_groovetempo_n_groove Posts: 40,355
    hedonist said:

    tempo_n_groove said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    hedonist said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    hedonist said:

    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    I wonder if this thread will get locked or be put on unbumpable status.

    Stick to the topic! Haha.

    Pretty sure the moral code of passing on someone else's contact info is to make sure beforehand that it's OK to do so.
    Hence the hint that this thread should be stopped.
    A random OP asking the forum to help contact a random person who they share no personal friends with?
    WTF?
    Hence the mention of the so-called moral code.

    Though sometimes I don't get the point of locking certain threads, it's pretty much the Mods' call...unless someone is so bothered to have it stopped as to report or request it.

    I really didn't see weirdness in either the initial post or the follow-up one. Just someone trying to locate a friend.
    Fuck...
    We are becoming facebook.
    Mic drop...
    My ears!!!

    I don't know from Facebook...but there are many who've connected and reconnected via this band (and forum). Just not getting the big deal with this :i_dunno:
    FB is a mess sometimes, that's why. Kind of like AMT on a Molly trip...
  • gimmesometruth27gimmesometruth27 Posts: 23,303
    the op has 2 posts.

    the argument can be made that they possibly signed up just to find this person. i hope they do.
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  • DcelaniDcelani Posts: 45
    If mods wanna close this they can, I welcomed funny creep comments, not serious ones. It's not in anyway an attempt to get personal information about her, no one has to give me anything, merely asked if anyone knew her and that I wanted to reconnect with an old friend. I have no way of getting in touch with, I live states away and I haven't spoken to her since avocado days, and it is impossible to fb a name like that from 5 states away. I don't even know if Bauer is still her last name, she's 30 something and probably married. So if this bothers anyone I apologize I meant nothing more than to reach out to an old pj friend of mine, from a cherished time in my life when pj was my only obsession and I had no responsibility but to fund tours. So with that said if anyone knows her and wants to pass it along that someone named Celani was asking about her then I'd be fine with just that. If she wants to she can dm me or Facebook me I am much easier to find. I only have 2 post cause I stopped my membership after being shut out of "lottery shows" after 13 years, probably my fault I went for the good seats everytime, thanks.
  • PJfanwillneverleave1PJfanwillneverleave1 Posts: 12,885
    ^^^
    Haults In Before The Fucking Lock Maul.
  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524
    PJfanwillneverleave1 said:

    ^^^
    Haults In Before The Fucking Lock Maul.

    Again with pushing this? Not getting it.

    Dcelani, there is/was a member from the old boards as well as this one with whom I've lost touch and haven't been able to find. She was a dear part of my life when it began to change for the better.

    Best of luck (and great attitude).
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