Break up timing and odd ways to dump someone.

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  • The Juggler
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    PJ_Soul said:

    The Juggler said:

    evsgjamm said:

    Hey Juggler,

    The minute we ended our status as a couple, I ended my status as part of their family. If a coach gets fired from the team, he doesn't show up to the year end speeches like he may have been scheduled to. Every commitment, every plan, every action... ends at the time of a break-up. Some may differ, but that's how I certainly see it. What's fucked about this, is the sister who got married, still reaches out to me, be it, only on my facebook via comments, jokes,..... just random light-hearted comments. She is older and really wanted me to be in the fam and thought her sister screwed up by losing me and she totally understood about me not going to her wedding. It's all good that way. I didn't NEED to play at that wedding and it wouldn't have been honest of me to do it. To me, my honesty lies within my own mind and gut feeling. My gut said "you don't have to play that wedding. so you're NOT playing that wedding." They still married...haha. My little part didn't matter. Trust me. It's fine.

    the way i see it is you broke a social contract....but if the bride is still cool with you, then all's well that ends.
    Crazy talk. Maintaining contact like that with someone who hurt you makes things worse. IMO there is no way she should have.played that wedding. Break ups end all social contracts.
    the wedding was NEXT weekend! she agreed to play!
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