At A Loss, The THANK YOU

barger395barger395 Posts: 855
edited February 2013 in All Encompassing Trip
This morning @ 4a, my girlfriend lost her battle with blood clots in her legs and lungs. She had been in the ICU for 2.5 weeks, and after a meeting with her Dr yesterday, we thought she was making progress, and we would re-evaluate in 2-3 weeks.

She was my everything. I am at a loss.

Light Years just took on a whole new place in my world.

Cheers, be well, and hold tight the ones you love.
BS

I want to thank each and every one of you for your condolences, your love and support, thoughts and prayers. I am humbled and deeply touched. I am not sure where my life will go from here, as I really hadn't thought about life without my LOVE.

I know this much, this community will be a part of the next volume in my life book. I look forward to meeting those of you (In Chicago perhaps??) I have not met yet to offer you a hug and a beverage, and to those of you I already have the incredible fortune of calling a friend, next time I see you you're getting a hug and a beverage too.

The will rise another day, as it has today, bright blue skies and a bright sun. Her LOVE reigning down on me, I can do this. I will do this. Thank you, each and every one of you!!! :D

Cheers and be well,
Brian
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  • 8181 Posts: 58,276
    My condolances to you, your family, her family. May your memories of times together be cherished.
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  • davidtriosdavidtrios Posts: 9,732
    :cry:

    I'm so sorry for your devisating loss.
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  • rick1zoo2rick1zoo2 Posts: 12,632
    Sorry for your loss
  • I'm a TruckI'm a Truck Posts: 3,508
    Sorry friend. Can't even imagine.
  • polaris_xpolaris_x Posts: 13,559
    my deepest sympathies ... :(
  • DissidentmanDissidentman Posts: 15,378
    Very sorry for your loss.
  • im so sorry..
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  • dankinddankind Posts: 20,835
    My most heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathy.
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  • PureandEasyPureandEasy Posts: 5,799
    Very sorry for your loss. Take care.
  • RKCNDYRKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    May the good times you shared with her fill the hole left in your heart.
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  • You have my deepest sympathy.
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  • rival.rival. Posts: 7,775
    my condolences and deepest sympathies.
  • lukin2006lukin2006 Posts: 9,087
    my condolences ...
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  • I'm sorry.
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  • shepshep Posts: 5,762
    my condolences Brian.

    Our thoughts are with you in your time of need.
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  • zagizagi Posts: 414
    Very sorry for your loss. :cry:
  • wow, so sorry to hear of this news. best of wishes to you, her family & her friends as you deal with this.
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  • Very sorry for your devastating loss.

    My condolences.
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  • AnnafalkAnnafalk Posts: 4,004
    I'm sorry for your loss, take comfort in family and friends. Take care.
  • JK_LivinJK_Livin Posts: 7,365
    Sorry for your loss.
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  • Mamasan23Mamasan23 Posts: 16,388
    I'm so sorry, my thoughts and prayers are with you today.
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  • Empty GlassEmpty Glass Posts: 12,329
    Sorry, my thoughts are with you
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  • cubBEE_girlcubBEE_girl Posts: 3,365
    I'm so sorry for your loss. :(
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  • I'm so very sorry to hear that. My deepest sympathies. I hope Light Years helps.
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  • maynardsuxmaynardsux Posts: 1,092
    I am so sorry for your loss....my prayers are with you
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  • Sorry for your loss.
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  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524
    Wish I could offer more than "sorry"...but I truly am. Hoping you - and her family - find comfort wherever and whenever you can.
  • brianluxbrianlux Posts: 41,669
    So very sorry to hear of your loss. Best wishes.
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  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Posts: 49,889
    :( I am so sorry Barger - all of my sympathy and warm thoughts to you and the rest of her loved ones. Stay strong.
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