Australia and NZ tour rumours going around Part 2 (No Bullshit)

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  • vital5
    vital5 Posts: 5,486
    yellowled24 wrote:
    I know, it sucks!
    Its nothing personal to any of you, but its been an ongoing problem since we got together...I had male friends at the start of our relationship and had to get rid of them , and also had a Myspace about a year and a bit ago-same thing, no males.
    Now my Facebook.
    Its fucked, but my marriage is important to me and I really do love him, but fuck me! he can be a pain in the arse!!

    I want to stay true to myself and be trusted, but when do you put your foot down? Is it wrong for me to have male friends? To initiate a chat with them?

    How do I deal with this? Any suggestions from someone whos been there??
    I know it may be wrong to talk about family issues on here (that I should keep to just Kaine and me) but I really value your advice.
    Take a leaf out of ziggystar's book... (i never thought that i'd ever say that) :p
  • E.K
    E.K New South Wales, Australia Posts: 7,726
    yellowled24 wrote:
    I know, it sucks!
    Its nothing personal to any of you, but its been an ongoing problem since we got together...I had male friends at the start of our relationship and had to get rid of them , and also had a Myspace about a year and a bit ago-same thing, no males.
    Now my Facebook.
    Its fucked, but my marriage is important to me and I really do love him, but fuck me! he can be a pain in the arse!!

    I want to stay true to myself and be trusted, but when do you put your foot down? Is it wrong for me to have male friends? To initiate a chat with them?

    How do I deal with this? Any suggestions from someone whos been there??
    I know it may be wrong to talk about family issues on here (that I should keep to just Kaine and me) but I really value your advice.

    What exactly is your husband jealous about though? Does he think you're having cyber sex or something? ;)
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  • Samule
    Samule Posts: 3,231
    yellowled24 wrote:
    WHEN I meet Sam, Rob, Stu, Joel etc I wont be able to run up to them and hug them cause I will get in trouble. :(

    Good to see your green light is on!
    Is it only single men or boy's in rob's case sairs?
    Has he said anything about fishy?
  • vital5
    vital5 Posts: 5,486
    Samule wrote:
    Facebook, the number one cause of divorce (Wikipedia, 2008)
    People use any fucking excuse to get divorced these days....

    There are up AND yes... DOWNS.....!!! if you lived everyday and life was great... you wouldn't be normal :p
  • Samule
    Samule Posts: 3,231
    vital5 wrote:
    People use any fucking excuse to get divorced these days....

    There are up AND yes... DOWNS.....!!! if you lived everyday and life was great... you wouldn't be normal :p
    or rich :D
  • E.K
    E.K New South Wales, Australia Posts: 7,726
    vital5 wrote:
    we have been meeting for lunch for about 6 months :p

    That must be expensive. Do you fly over to WA or does Sairs fly over to Sydney? Or do you meet up some place in the middle?
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  • vital5
    vital5 Posts: 5,486
    E.K wrote:
    That must be expensive. Do you fly over to WA or does Sairs fly over to Sydney? Or do you meet up some place in the middle?
    You failed to bring me my lunch.... so it had to be done...

    Somewhere in the middle so her hubby doesn't find out :eek:
  • yellowled24
    yellowled24 Posts: 3,118
    Samule wrote:
    Is it only single men or boy's in rob's case sairs?
    Has he said anything about fishy?
    Well, Fishy isnt my friend on FB, so he's not a threat....

    Even if the guy is married, he doesnt like it *shrugs*

    He says I wouldnt like HIM talking to chicks online, so I should respect him by not talking the guys.

    And he has a point, I wouldnt really ENJOY him talking to women online, but its a different circumstance, you know?
    "....and was very surprised to see that he didnt actually have a recipe for anus-ankle soup." - Big Ed
  • E.K
    E.K New South Wales, Australia Posts: 7,726
    vital5 wrote:
    You failed to bring me my lunch.... so it had to be done...

    Somewhere in the middle so her hubby doesn't find out :eek:

    You failed to mow my lawn and prune my bushes

    Where? Adelaide?
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  • vital5
    vital5 Posts: 5,486
    E.K wrote:
    You failed to mow my lawn and prune my bushes

    Where? Adelaide?
    why would anyone want to go to adelaide?! :eek:
  • vital5
    vital5 Posts: 5,486
    yellowled24 wrote:
    Well, Fishy isnt my friend on FB, so he's not a threat....

    Even if the guy is married, he doesnt like it *shrugs*

    He says I wouldnt like HIM talking to chicks online, so I should respect him by not talking the guys.

    And he has a point, I wouldnt really ENJOY him talking to women online, but its a different circumstance, you know?
    add me on MSN.... i'm sure he'll be fine with that :p hahahaha
  • E.K
    E.K New South Wales, Australia Posts: 7,726
    vital5 wrote:
    why would anyone want to go to adelaide?! :eek:

    Alice Springs then.
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  • yellowled24
    yellowled24 Posts: 3,118
    E.K wrote:
    You failed to mow my lawn and prune my bushes
    I think you can just get a Brazilian for that? :eek:
    "....and was very surprised to see that he didnt actually have a recipe for anus-ankle soup." - Big Ed
  • E.K
    E.K New South Wales, Australia Posts: 7,726
    yellowled24 wrote:
    I think you can just get a Brazilian for that? :eek:

    I'm not really keen on Brazilian men.. I prefer Aussies. ;)
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  • «¤tîg®ê§§¤»
    «¤tîg®ê§§¤» Posts: 5,137
    Morning Jammers

    Looking forward to an evening with some peeps... Andy gigging at the Hard Rock tonight.... the second day of Augapolooza.... Wozza and Crew coming too. Should be schweet.

    Sairs, im sorry to hear your hubby doesnt like you having male friends. Like you said, you wouldnt like it if he was talking to chicks. I guess sometimes we have to think about how eachother is feeling and respect that fact.
    After respecting that fact, then you need to let him know that these people are your friends. Thats that. There is no need for him to feel insecure or jealous as you are simply friends, having a chat. Once you have understood his feelings, then he needs to understand yours. Your not doing anything that is disrespectful to your personal relationship (Sam sucks at Cyber anyways ;) )
    If you dont have trust in a relationship.... you cannot continue an unconditional love. All these silly insecurities will eventually ruin everything.
    I am sorry that he doesnt understand. I hope you two can figure it all out.
    he who forgets will be destined to remember
  • Samule
    Samule Posts: 3,231
    «¤tîg®ê§§¤» wrote:
    Morning Jammers

    Looking forward to an evening with some peeps... Andy gigging at the Hard Rock tonight.... the second day of Augapolooza.... Wozza and Crew coming too. Should be schweet.

    (Sam sucks at Cyber anyways ;) )
    If.
    Should be a good night :D i'm looking forward to it :D
    I know, i aways come to early...
  • yellowled24
    yellowled24 Posts: 3,118
    E.K wrote:
    I'm not really keen on Brazilian men.. I prefer Aussies. ;)
    good work.

    Those swimmers bodies are rather tidy too, on the Olympics :eek:
    "....and was very surprised to see that he didnt actually have a recipe for anus-ankle soup." - Big Ed
  • vital5
    vital5 Posts: 5,486
    Samule wrote:
    I know, i aways come to early...

    Isn't that a cybergasm?
  • E.K
    E.K New South Wales, Australia Posts: 7,726
    Samule wrote:
    I know, i aways come too early...

    I'm intrigued now. Got a webcam?

    ;)
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  • vital5
    vital5 Posts: 5,486
    yellowled24 wrote:
    good work.

    Those swimmers bodies are rather tidy too, on the Olympics :eek:
    I think Rob has said he's only posting Pearl Jam insider info on Facebook from now on ;)
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