Australia and NZ tour rumours going around Part 2 (No Bullshit)
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yellowled24 wrote:I know, it sucks!
Its nothing personal to any of you, but its been an ongoing problem since we got together...I had male friends at the start of our relationship and had to get rid of them , and also had a Myspace about a year and a bit ago-same thing, no males.
Now my Facebook.
Its fucked, but my marriage is important to me and I really do love him, but fuck me! he can be a pain in the arse!!
I want to stay true to myself and be trusted, but when do you put your foot down? Is it wrong for me to have male friends? To initiate a chat with them?
How do I deal with this? Any suggestions from someone whos been there??
I know it may be wrong to talk about family issues on here (that I should keep to just Kaine and me) but I really value your advice.0 -
yellowled24 wrote:I know, it sucks!
Its nothing personal to any of you, but its been an ongoing problem since we got together...I had male friends at the start of our relationship and had to get rid of them , and also had a Myspace about a year and a bit ago-same thing, no males.
Now my Facebook.
Its fucked, but my marriage is important to me and I really do love him, but fuck me! he can be a pain in the arse!!
I want to stay true to myself and be trusted, but when do you put your foot down? Is it wrong for me to have male friends? To initiate a chat with them?
How do I deal with this? Any suggestions from someone whos been there??
I know it may be wrong to talk about family issues on here (that I should keep to just Kaine and me) but I really value your advice.
What exactly is your husband jealous about though? Does he think you're having cyber sex or something?Sydney, Australia - March 12, 1998; Sydney, Australia - February 14, 2003; Sydney, Australia - November 8, 2006; Sydney, Australia - November 25, 2006; Brisbane, Australia - November, 2009; Gold Coast, Australia - January, 2014, Gold Coast, Australia - November 20240 -
yellowled24 wrote:WHEN I meet Sam, Rob, Stu, Joel etc I wont be able to run up to them and hug them cause I will get in trouble. :(
Good to see your green light is on!
Has he said anything about fishy?0 -
vital5 wrote:we have been meeting for lunch for about 6 months
That must be expensive. Do you fly over to WA or does Sairs fly over to Sydney? Or do you meet up some place in the middle?Sydney, Australia - March 12, 1998; Sydney, Australia - February 14, 2003; Sydney, Australia - November 8, 2006; Sydney, Australia - November 25, 2006; Brisbane, Australia - November, 2009; Gold Coast, Australia - January, 2014, Gold Coast, Australia - November 20240 -
Samule wrote:Is it only single men or boy's in rob's case sairs?
Has he said anything about fishy?
Even if the guy is married, he doesnt like it *shrugs*
He says I wouldnt like HIM talking to chicks online, so I should respect him by not talking the guys.
And he has a point, I wouldnt really ENJOY him talking to women online, but its a different circumstance, you know?"....and was very surprised to see that he didnt actually have a recipe for anus-ankle soup." - Big Ed0 -
vital5 wrote:You failed to bring me my lunch.... so it had to be done...
Somewhere in the middle so her hubby doesn't find out :eek:
You failed to mow my lawn and prune my bushes
Where? Adelaide?Sydney, Australia - March 12, 1998; Sydney, Australia - February 14, 2003; Sydney, Australia - November 8, 2006; Sydney, Australia - November 25, 2006; Brisbane, Australia - November, 2009; Gold Coast, Australia - January, 2014, Gold Coast, Australia - November 20240 -
yellowled24 wrote:Well, Fishy isnt my friend on FB, so he's not a threat....
Even if the guy is married, he doesnt like it *shrugs*
He says I wouldnt like HIM talking to chicks online, so I should respect him by not talking the guys.
And he has a point, I wouldnt really ENJOY him talking to women online, but its a different circumstance, you know?hahahaha
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vital5 wrote:why would anyone want to go to adelaide?! :eek:
Alice Springs then.Sydney, Australia - March 12, 1998; Sydney, Australia - February 14, 2003; Sydney, Australia - November 8, 2006; Sydney, Australia - November 25, 2006; Brisbane, Australia - November, 2009; Gold Coast, Australia - January, 2014, Gold Coast, Australia - November 20240 -
E.K wrote:You failed to mow my lawn and prune my bushes"....and was very surprised to see that he didnt actually have a recipe for anus-ankle soup." - Big Ed0
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yellowled24 wrote:I think you can just get a Brazilian for that? :eek:
I'm not really keen on Brazilian men.. I prefer Aussies.Sydney, Australia - March 12, 1998; Sydney, Australia - February 14, 2003; Sydney, Australia - November 8, 2006; Sydney, Australia - November 25, 2006; Brisbane, Australia - November, 2009; Gold Coast, Australia - January, 2014, Gold Coast, Australia - November 20240 -
Morning Jammers
Looking forward to an evening with some peeps... Andy gigging at the Hard Rock tonight.... the second day of Augapolooza.... Wozza and Crew coming too. Should be schweet.
Sairs, im sorry to hear your hubby doesnt like you having male friends. Like you said, you wouldnt like it if he was talking to chicks. I guess sometimes we have to think about how eachother is feeling and respect that fact.
After respecting that fact, then you need to let him know that these people are your friends. Thats that. There is no need for him to feel insecure or jealous as you are simply friends, having a chat. Once you have understood his feelings, then he needs to understand yours. Your not doing anything that is disrespectful to your personal relationship (Sam sucks at Cyber anyways)
If you dont have trust in a relationship.... you cannot continue an unconditional love. All these silly insecurities will eventually ruin everything.
I am sorry that he doesnt understand. I hope you two can figure it all out.he who forgets will be destined to remember0 -
«¤tîg®ê§§¤» wrote:Morning Jammers
Looking forward to an evening with some peeps... Andy gigging at the Hard Rock tonight.... the second day of Augapolooza.... Wozza and Crew coming too. Should be schweet.
(Sam sucks at Cyber anyways)
If.i'm looking forward to it
I know, i aways come to early...0 -
E.K wrote:I'm not really keen on Brazilian men.. I prefer Aussies.
Those swimmers bodies are rather tidy too, on the Olympics :eek:"....and was very surprised to see that he didnt actually have a recipe for anus-ankle soup." - Big Ed0 -
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yellowled24 wrote:good work.
Those swimmers bodies are rather tidy too, on the Olympics :eek:0
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