Australia and NZ tour rumours going around Part 2 (No Bullshit)

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  • vital5
    vital5 Posts: 5,486
    aus_suz wrote:
    Dont the courts decide that, if they can have visits??
    Only goes to court if the parents can't make up their own minds.
  • yellowled24
    yellowled24 Posts: 3,118
    vital5 wrote:
    wrong....

    It's 50/50... you are one of the reasons the laws are currently being changed. You are blind... the laws used to be blind... as i said they are evolving for better access for the male who was seen as the lesser party in the situation previously. This idea is archaic.

    I hazard a guess you are female... :rolleyes:
    yes i am female.

    I hazard a guess you are male :rolleyes:
    "....and was very surprised to see that he didnt actually have a recipe for anus-ankle soup." - Big Ed
  • vital5
    vital5 Posts: 5,486
    E.K wrote:
    Plenty happens when I head up to Kings Cross for a night's work. :p
    :eek:
  • zenith
    zenith Posts: 3,191
    aus_suz wrote:
    Dont the courts decide that, if they can have visits??



    This is so sad.... :(

    if the mum & dad cant agree then the court does still decide atm. they offer mediation and relationship councilling to try & come to an agreement. You have to go in with an open mind. so many people forget that they loved one another enough to create the children they are fighting over at one point in their past, so why should you hate each other so much now. Like two kids in a playground fighting over the same toy...

    when i spil with my ex, I offered. the court agreed. He's never taken it up. But ive never badmothed him to the boys. Im a strong believer that behaviour just comes back to bite you in the future. Kids have to confident they came from a good place, not a mistake you made.
    impatience is a gift ........
  • yellowled24
    yellowled24 Posts: 3,118
    illegal_pants wrote:
    'tis gorgeous! :) thanks for posting

    as zen says.. lovely to have something that hits close to home with you now forever

    does it still hurt?
    yes it does, but only when I have to rub the cream on it :)

    Are you excited for your bday? What PJ song will you play to celebrate??
    "....and was very surprised to see that he didnt actually have a recipe for anus-ankle soup." - Big Ed
  • E.K
    E.K New South Wales, Australia Posts: 7,726
    vital5 wrote:
    Plenty happens when I head up to Kings Cross for a night's work.

    Do you also stand at the Wall in Darlinghurst?
    Sydney, Australia - March 12, 1998; Sydney, Australia - February 14, 2003; Sydney, Australia - November 8, 2006; Sydney, Australia - November 25, 2006;  Brisbane, Australia - November, 2009; Gold Coast, Australia - January, 2014, Gold Coast, Australia - November 2024

  • vital5
    vital5 Posts: 5,486
    yellowled24 wrote:
    yes i am female.

    I hazard a guess you are male :rolleyes:
    no i'm female...

    anyway... everyone was saying oh how it must have been a nasty man to do this... just giving you a possible cause of the scenario...

    Nasty men sometimes only happen when they lose their heads and do not know what they are doing.... Maybe the guy was just a nut without any sinister underbelly... (this was not an opening for a topic of convo's about Underbelly!) heh
  • illegal pants
    illegal pants Posts: 13,471
    yellowled24 wrote:
    yes it does, but only when I have to rub the cream on it :)

    Are you excited for your bday? What PJ song will you play to celebrate??

    *tsssssss* stinging noise :eek:

    absolutely.. NOT excited haha :) nah will be good to have a night out with close friends tomorrow

    i think why go would be fitting... hahaha..

    i wonder what zig is up to?
    wah
  • zenith
    zenith Posts: 3,191
    vital5 wrote:
    (this was not an opening for a topic of convo's about Underbelly!) heh

    speaking of underbelly ;)

    i went to buy the dvd yesterday and it was ALL SOLD OUT!!!! :(
    impatience is a gift ........
  • illegal pants
    illegal pants Posts: 13,471
    ozsmalltowngirl wrote:
    My face has swollen right up again and my temperature's gone up, too....so I dunno :confused:

    (baaaaaaad)

    when's the appointment again? mid-May?
    wah
  • E.K
    E.K New South Wales, Australia Posts: 7,726
    zenith wrote:
    speaking of underbelly ;)

    i went to buy the dvd yesterday and it was ALL SOLD OUT!!!! :(

    Ha! Everyone probably just wants to see all the extra sex and nudity scenes they cut out for television.. ;)
    Sydney, Australia - March 12, 1998; Sydney, Australia - February 14, 2003; Sydney, Australia - November 8, 2006; Sydney, Australia - November 25, 2006;  Brisbane, Australia - November, 2009; Gold Coast, Australia - January, 2014, Gold Coast, Australia - November 2024

  • ozsmalltowngirl
    ozsmalltowngirl Posts: 14,362
    zenith wrote:
    if the mum & dad cant agree then the court does still decide atm. they offer mediation and relationship councilling to try & come to an agreement. You have to go in with an open mind. so many people forget that they loved one another enough to create the children they are fighting over at one point in their past, so why should you hate each other so much now. Like two kids in a playground fighting over the same toy...

    when i spil with my ex, I offered. the court agreed. He's never taken it up. But ive never badmothed him to the boys. Im a strong believer that behaviour just comes back to bite you in the future. Kids have to confident they came from a good place, not a mistake you made.
    A couple we know....when they had their bub, after a few weeks she told him she didn't want anything to do with him or the baby anymore and took off (she was a junky). He raised their little girl, by himself, for the next couple of years.....then he met and fell in love with my best friend and 6 months later when she moved in with him and his daughter, his X suddenly turns up and says she wants the daughter back ......and the friggen courts allowed it :eek: they then spent ages battling in court over access etc; and when he was finally granted every 2nd weekend etc;......to spite him (and mainly my friend) she moved interstate with their little girl :mad: To see his daughter, he had to fly to Victoria to pick her up, pay for her to fly back to Perth with him and then pay for the flights to take her back to Vic again. It was totally fucked!!
    It always amazed me how he managed to keep as civil as he did. He never bad mouthed the mother to his daughter. The mother told all sorts of BS about him to the daughter........now that little girl is in her late teens and has figured it all out for herself and now that she's old enough, is moving back to Perth.

    I know of so many F'd up situations that are due to the courts decission. Like Lindy said.....it's really sad that a couple who were once in love enough to make these little miracles, can't be adult enough (even for their childrens sakes) to come to a fair arrangemnet :(
  • illegal pants
    illegal pants Posts: 13,471
    http://cgi.ebay.com.au/Underbelly-Police-Crimescene-Tape-x-5m-Very-Rare_W0QQitemZ180240700358QQihZ008QQcategoryZ2312QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem

    idiots

    http://cgi.ebay.com.au/UNDERBELLY-4-DISC-SET-SEALED-UNCUT-SOLD-OUT_W0QQitemZ230251080469QQihZ013QQcategoryZ41588QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem

    wtf
    wah
  • zenith
    zenith Posts: 3,191
    E.K wrote:
    Ha! Everyone probably just wants to see all the extra sex and nudity scenes they cut out for television.. ;)

    what?? the boys for once?? How come its alright to see all the girl but not the boy??
    impatience is a gift ........
  • vital5
    vital5 Posts: 5,486
    zenith wrote:
    i have a friend that as soon as she eats, thats it, she want to go home to bed. i wont even let her buy a plate of chips!

    cmon kylie - no beds in sydney - you have to stay up all nite

    although i did wonder, its what?? a tuesday nite?? what will be happening??
    haha what a weirdo!
  • ozsmalltowngirl
    ozsmalltowngirl Posts: 14,362
    illegal_pants wrote:
    (baaaaaaad)

    when's the appointment again? mid-May?
    15th....so not too long now - I feel like I've been waiting for it forever!
  • zenith
    zenith Posts: 3,191
    ozsmalltowngirl wrote:

    It always amazed me how he managed to keep as civil as he did. He never bad mouthed the mother to his daughter. The mother told all sorts of BS about him to the daughter........now that little girl is in her late teens and has figured it all out for herself and now that she's old enough, is moving back to Perth.

    people do forget, yea - kids arnt stupid, they hear, they learn, they add things up. Do you want them to respect you, or hate you for lying to them??

    that one would have been hard, and is a perfect example of how the court system is very very unfair towards fathers. Its ironic, im actually a big supporter of them having better rights, and my own kids father wont even bother to ask how they are if i happen to see him.
    impatience is a gift ........
  • zenith
    zenith Posts: 3,191
    vital5 wrote:
    haha what a weirdo!


    im not friends with wierdos ;)

    now, talk about underbelly
    impatience is a gift ........
  • ozsmalltowngirl
    ozsmalltowngirl Posts: 14,362
    zenith wrote:
    people do forget, yea - kids arnt stupid, they hear, they learn, they add things up. Do you want them to respect you, or hate you for lying to them??

    that one would have been hard, and is a perfect example of how the court system is very very unfair towards fathers. Its ironic, im actually a big supporter of them having better rights, and my own kids father wont even bother to ask how they are if i happen to see him.
    Yep...I hear ya....my Dad was the same.....had nothing to do with us (in every way - never saw him, never heard from him, no child support - NOTHING)I was 6 when him and my Mum split........until......on my 18th birthday, I was working as an apprentice hairdresser and I get called out to do a request haircut - I was so excited someone had requested me (only being an apprentice)......I got out into the salon and who was it.....my Dad :mad:
  • E.K
    E.K New South Wales, Australia Posts: 7,726
    zenith wrote:
    what?? the boys for once?? How come its alright to see all the girl but not the boy??

    Well the DVD is the uncut version apparently so I'm guessing there's just more nudity and sex. I remember seeing a flash of the detective guy's willy once when he was in the shower with his girlfriend, so you never know.
    Sydney, Australia - March 12, 1998; Sydney, Australia - February 14, 2003; Sydney, Australia - November 8, 2006; Sydney, Australia - November 25, 2006;  Brisbane, Australia - November, 2009; Gold Coast, Australia - January, 2014, Gold Coast, Australia - November 2024

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