LADIES: What is your idea of ROMANCE?

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  • cubBEE_girlcubBEE_girl Posts: 3,365
    A sense of humor is a must! And telling me my boobs look awesome doesn't hurt either.
    I lost a bet...
  • DissidentmanDissidentman Posts: 15,378
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  • unlost dogsunlost dogs Posts: 12,553
    Make me laugh.

    Preferably over a beer.

    8-)
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  • A sense of humor is a must! And telling me my boobs look awesome doesn't hurt either.


    Yes making sure the girls get attention is a must, even more so after kids :/

    Ah I remember the days of getting out of a ticket with one more button undone and a pretty lipgloss and a toss of the hair.
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    Romance is the actions of love ... the proof and connection of love, sharing love.
    Can be JB reaching for my hand, him thinking of what might make me happy, making me laugh, remembering something from our past. He's always been very good at making me feel special and loved. I especially like that he likes romantic comedies, we cry and laugh together. Valentines Day usually includes that, a good laugh and cry.
    It's also that funny feeling we both still get unexpectedly, romance.
  • cubBEE_girlcubBEE_girl Posts: 3,365
    A sense of humor is a must! And telling me my boobs look awesome doesn't hurt either.


    Yes making sure the girls get attention is a must, even more so after kids :/

    Ah I remember the days of getting out of a ticket with one more button undone and a pretty lipgloss and a toss of the hair.

    :thumbup:

    yep, that worked a couple weekends ago on my road trip to Michigan to see Soundgarden. Not a single speeding ticket. :mrgreen::lol::lol:
    I lost a bet...
  • davidtriosdavidtrios Posts: 9,732
    pandora wrote:
    Romance is the actions of love ... the proof and connection of love, sharing love.
    Can be JB reaching for my hand, him thinking of what might make me happy, making me laugh, remembering something from our past. He's always been very good at making me feel special and loved. I especially like that he likes romantic comedies, we cry and laugh together. Valentines Day usually includes that, a good laugh and cry.
    It's also that funny feeling we both still get unexpectedly, romance.


    very sweet and honest answer. thank you and congrats on your love...youre very lucky
  • EnkiduEnkidu Posts: 2,996
    Isn't it funny how many times women mention sense of humor? Do men feel that way about women or is it just big boobs?

    Sense of humor is totally the thing with me. Valentine's Day will be about silly, stupid stuff to make me laugh.

    Although he did this one Valentine's Day to surprise me and a PJ mobile is pretty romantic.

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  • cubBEE_girlcubBEE_girl Posts: 3,365
    Enkidu wrote:
    Isn't it funny how many times women mention sense of humor? Do men feel that way about women or is it just big boobs?

    Sense of humor is totally the thing with me. Valentine's Day will be about silly, stupid stuff to make me laugh.

    Although he did this one Valentine's Day to surprise me and a PJ mobile is pretty romantic.

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    That is awesome!!! :mrgreen:
    I lost a bet...
  • supadupasupadupa Posts: 377
    Enkidu wrote:
    Isn't it funny how many times women mention sense of humor? Do men feel that way about women or is it just big boobs?

    Sense of humor is totally the thing with me. Valentine's Day will be about silly, stupid stuff to make me laugh.

    Although he did this one Valentine's Day to surprise me and a PJ mobile is pretty romantic.

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    I think men enjoy a sense of humor as much as women do. In all seriousness, being able to laugh with someone is one of the most romantic things to me. Honesty is romantic. Respect is romantic. Just sitting on the couch holding hands is romantic. Flowers and jewelry and other material gestures are great, but ultimately not very important.
  • moving across the world to be with me...showering my kitties with love and affection...listening intently as I show him my newest pair of shoes as if it's the most fascinating thing he's ever heard...finding small moments where we can spend time together...taking me to dinner and then f*cking me like a porn star :shifty:
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    "I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524
    I've never been one of those swoony types - chick flicks, romance novels, soap operas - you can have 'em.

    To me, romance (I don't even like that word; reminds me of the screaming women on Oprah) isn't some sweeping dramatic shower of gifts but moreso how love, whether in bloom or after, is expressed. The sweet unexpected gestures, thoughtfulness, inside jokes, a meeting of the eyes. Sometimes it even has nothing to do with me, but of my perception of him and his actions.
  • shortstackshortstack Posts: 2,339
    hedonist wrote:
    Sometimes it even has nothing to do with me, but of my perception of him and his actions.

    THIS!
    did you see me? i saw you.
  • hgpjam11hgpjam11 Posts: 1,328
    Mamasan23 wrote:
    In all honestly I'm personally not the romantic type at all. I hate flowers, I never remember anniversaries or dates or any of that crap. A guy with a sense of humor is really the most important.

    This. And give me some quiet time, or PJ tix.
    I win.
  • moving across the world to be with me...showering my kitties with love and affection...listening intently as I show him my newest pair of shoes as if it's the most fascinating thing he's ever heard...finding small moments where we can spend time together...taking me to dinner and then f*cking me like a porn star :shifty:

    :corn:
  • moving across the world to be with me...showering my kitties with love and affection...listening intently as I show him my newest pair of shoes as if it's the most fascinating thing he's ever heard...finding small moments where we can spend time together...taking me to dinner and then f*cking me like a porn star :shifty:

    :corn:
    you like hearing about my shoes too? :D :thumbup:
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    "I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
  • Dancing naked in the dark to Otis Redding when a fierce thunderstorm is raging outside. Then pushing all the furniture aside to lie under the window to see the lightning and spend the night on a cosy bed you made on the floor :shifty:

    A lot of romance comes from Otis. It is romantic even to do the dishes together when Otis is spinning :lol:
    We women are easy to deal with :P
  • BinauralJamBinauralJam Posts: 14,158
    Dancing naked in the dark to Otis Redding when a fierce thunderstorm is raging outside. Then pushing all the furniture aside to lie under the window to see the lightning and spend the night on a cosy bed you made on the floor :shifty:

    A lot of romance comes from Otis. It is romantic even to do the dishes together when Otis is spinning :lol:
    We women are easy to deal with :P

    and then?
  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524
    Dancing naked in the dark to Otis Redding when a fierce thunderstorm is raging outside. Then pushing all the furniture aside to lie under the window to see the lightning and spend the night on a cosy bed you made on the floor :shifty:

    A lot of romance comes from Otis. It is romantic even to do the dishes together when Otis is spinning :lol:
    We women are easy to deal with :P

    and then?
    Sit on the "dock of the bay", of course.
  • moving across the world to be with me...showering my kitties with love and affection...listening intently as I show him my newest pair of shoes as if it's the most fascinating thing he's ever heard...finding small moments where we can spend time together...taking me to dinner and then f*cking me like a porn star :shifty:

    :corn:
    you like hearing about my shoes too? :D :thumbup:

    Where are my Air Jordan's?
  • AnnafalkAnnafalk Posts: 4,004
    Pick up your socks ;)
  • STAYSEASTAYSEA Posts: 3,814
    81 wrote:
    lets be honest...on this forum it's

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    Or the boxed wine....

    Honest
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  • smart men,know how to do this...

    make women happy,satisfied and secure...humor is one of the ways to get there..
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”

  • :corn:
    you like hearing about my shoes too? :D :thumbup:

    Where are my Air Jordan's?
    :corn: :wave:
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    "I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
  • :corn: :wave:

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  • hedonist wrote:
    Dancing naked in the dark to Otis Redding when a fierce thunderstorm is raging outside. Then pushing all the furniture aside to lie under the window to see the lightning and spend the night on a cosy bed you made on the floor :shifty:

    A lot of romance comes from Otis. It is romantic even to do the dishes together when Otis is spinning :lol:
    We women are easy to deal with :P

    and then?
    Sit on the "dock of the bay", of course.
    :lol: :thumbup: Of course!
  • JaneNYJaneNY Posts: 4,438
    The man who will drive home in the middle of the day from university (he teaches), to deal with the hornet that I discovered in the house. He's also come back for a huge spider. I don't do bugs. That is the agreement and that is romantic.
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  • STAYSEASTAYSEA Posts: 3,814
    I guess I have no ideas.
    Unexpected packages are romantic to me?

    When I get a box of random stuff the guy collected every time he thinks of me, and then mails it...
    My heart melts.

    The latest packages contained....

    Hazelnuts, music from local bands, Punk rock stickers, strange business cards, an original Clive Barker sketch, and a bag of fritos?

    Soap from France, a melted chocolate bar, a grape flavored condom ment, and a ticket stub from a zoo in Germany?

    An empty ziplock bag, a dollar bill, a roll of life savers, merch from a Roller Derby game and a calender of Custom Low Rider bicycles

    I never know. :D

    I like to mail back something equally strange, last time I mailed, some local rockabilly music, acorns, a leather bracelet, Korean cookies, and Chilli spice kit neatly packaged in a cigar box.

    But he says we are just friends
    :lol: like the river in Africa DENIAL (I think he likes me...)
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  • Dr. DelightDr. Delight Posts: 11,210
    smart men,know how to do this...

    make women happy,satisfied and secure...humor is one of the ways to get there..
    Making the woman laugh is 80% of the job.
    And so you see, I have come to doubt
    All that I once held as true
    I stand alone without beliefs
    The only truth I know is you.
  • STAYSEASTAYSEA Posts: 3,814
    smart men,know how to do this...

    make women happy,satisfied and secure...humor is one of the ways to get there..
    Making the woman laugh is 80% of the job.


    It shouldn't be a job. Smart men need to realize, " Oh crap, she's smarter than me" It's a job for me to not correct a smarty pants man. Except when he's dead wrong and I'm VERY right.

    Laughing is the easy part.
    Make my stomach and face hurt from hours of giggles and you can't even breathe cause you are laughing harder,
    that is romance .
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