What do you miss most?

Ayedavanita

I miss my parents being together. I know I'm lucky they are both still alive and it was better that they split up but neither one of them are happy and I miss them "together".

I miss my kids being younger, they are growing up SO fast. They have been the biggest and greatest part of my life but I feel like I'm not done being a Mom yet. Don't rush your kids to be mature, they grow up too quick.

Ayedavanita

hgpjam11 wrote:

Missing my friend Troy, who was always the most fun and the brightest light.

And I miss 80s big hair. I was good at that.

I'm sorry for your loss.

PearlOfAGirl

Sprunkn7 wrote:

tallman72 wrote:

My Dad ,

ditto

Same here...

PearlOfAGirl

PearlOfAGirl wrote:

Sprunkn7 wrote:

tallman72 wrote:

My Dad ,

ditto

Same here...

PearlOfAGirl

Sprunkn7 wrote:

tallman72 wrote:

My Dad ,

ditto

Same here...

dimitrispearljam

.

PearlOfAGirl

Having my own house, multi family apt living SUCKS!!!

gimmesometruth27

i don't really miss things. like things i used to own and stuff like that.

i miss people and experiences. i miss people that have died or people that were a part of my life but now they aren't for whatever reason. i miss my dog. he died 7 months ago this week. his loss was a big blow. for the better part of 11 years it was just him and i. i am gonna rescue another one when i get back from san diego i think.

i miss times, like, specific eras of my life. i miss being a high school athlete. i miss playing baseball in college. i miss that college era in it's entirety. i miss the grad school era. i miss when my band was young and angry, now we are old and content...and some other ones. i am not sure if it is actually missing them or just being nostalgic when i think about them or the people that were in those eras.

i kinda miss having a girlfriend at times, just for the stabilizing effect that being in a relationship has on me. when i am single i find myself out of control at times.

dimitrispearljam

truth

shortstack

humiliation

PearlOfAGirl

gimmesometruth27 wrote:

i don't really miss things. like things i used to own and stuff like that.

i miss people and experiences. i miss people that have died or people that were a part of my life but now they aren't for whatever reason. i miss my dog. he died 7 months ago this week. his loss was a big blow. for the better part of 11 years it was just him and i. i am gonna rescue another one when i get back from san diego i think.

i miss times, like, specific eras of my life. i miss being a high school athlete. i miss playing baseball in college. i miss that college era in it's entirety. i miss the grad school era. i miss when my band was young and angry, now we are old and content...and some other ones. i am not sure if it is actually missing them or just being nostalgic when i think about them or the people that were in those eras.

i kinda miss having a girlfriend at times, just for the stabilizing effect that being in a relationship has on me. when i am single i find myself out of control at times.

I miss my house, basically because it was my home.. Was married a long time before getting a place that I could put together myself. As a child, and a grown up, I lived in some horrible places, and when my marriage ended I lost the one place I loved.. I also miss being married.. It's no fun being single after being married so long.

While we were living there, I lost 2 beautiful mother and daughter black labs, within 6 months. The mom Gypsy was getting old, and not doing well. Her daughter LG, which stood for Little Gypsy, we kept one of the pups, which was a very hard thing to do.. :( The day we lost LG, my son had just had surgery, and I left saying "see you later" to LG, and he called me at work saying she was behaving "really" weird. After the 2nd call, I had to leave, and got home, and her eyes were crossed and going around in circles. I couldn't stop crying. Brought her to the Vet, and I had a little hope. They hooked her up to an IV, and the next morning the Vet called, saying he thought she passed when he came in. My ex had to go, because I just couldn't. The same with her mom. All of us were bawling our eyes out.. One of the hardest things is to lose such 2 "big" parts of the family.. I'm so sorry about your dog. :(

After losing the dogs, we all went and got this beautiful Jack Russell Terrier, which is 12 years old now. Then 1 day my ex said there was a guy her had met, and they had a dog they were going to put down. There was no way we could let that happen, so he brought him home. He's a Terrier also, he's from the Dominican Republic. He's 7 now, and they live with me...

Me and my ex met over a dog, some people left their apartment, and left all the pups there, so he and one of his friends each took a pup....

I lost my dad this past February 9th at 9:09 pm. There was a blizzard, and lord knows how I made it to the nursing home, because I couldn't even see out the window. He had Hospice, but they didn't allow him to be on any kind of pain killers. I kept going to the nurses station and saying he was in pain. He suffered so badly, that is a site I will never forget. It's tattooed in my brain.... My aunt passed just a year before, after surviving cancer. She saddening had a migraine and then she was kept alive by a breathing machine until my cousin made it to the hospital from out of state...

Sometimes life seems so unfair, and there's not a thing we can do... I can definitely feel your pain, and am so sorry for that.... I hope good things are coming your way... Keep your chin up. Have to remind myself of that every single day.

Loulou

My Nan (amazing lady, glad she's not suffering anymore though) ,my best mate from high school (wish you had reached out to me dude, R.I.P.), England (where most of my family are), the years of great music (music just isn't what it used to be), childhood (only because it didn't feel like I had much of one) and times where the world 'felt' safer (it probably hasn't changed but i used to feel safe leaving the house, playing in the street and meeting new people)

mfc2006

Dad.

decides2dream

mfc2006 wrote:

Dad.

indeed.
besides the obvious loss of loved ones though, i miss the ability to eat and drink ANYthing i want, as much as i want, and still be oh-so-thin. sigh. so yes, i miss my 20 year old arse.

dimitrispearljam

that tree..

dimitrispearljam

the joy being here at the forum

JWPearl

Sweet intamacy.

don smith

forgivenance . from friends when I do something outta line when I didn't mean to.

dimitrispearljam

tulip tree

dimitrispearljam

This kiss could cost my life. Is all you see in her eyes. This kiss