Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
Don't hate. Just separate.
I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
She won't. That would require empathy and self-reflection and many people are just incapable of that. They just don't care how their callous words and actions affect others. Sad but true.
Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
Don't hate. Just separate.
I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
It seems like she is not mentally sane since what you have told about her being physically and mentally abusive towards you all your life. I would try to just feel sorry for her because of how she is. If she wants to hurt you it's best that you don't give her that. No response is the best response I think,
Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
Don't hate. Just separate.
I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
It seems like she is not mentally sane since what you have told about her being physically and mentally abusive towards you all your life. I would try to just feel sorry for her because of how she is. If she wants to hurt you it's best that you don't give her that. No response is the best response I think,
She sure is unwell mentally. My psychologist even said it.
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Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
Don't hate. Just separate.
I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
She won't. That would require empathy and self-reflection and many people are just incapable of that. They just don't care how their callous words and actions affect others. Sad but true.
Agreed. She won't. Narcissists are incapable of such things. I have a friend who took the step you need to take - he cut off all contact with his mother because she was a horrible, destructive person in his life. Be warned, it took him a long time to finally get to that point, but what finally took him there was his attempts to do it. He would separate, and she would come forward with even harsher hate and a whole lot of crazy. There was no way in hell she was ever going to take any responsibility for the disastrous relationship. Finally he was brave enough to not continuously let her quilt tactics work on him at some level. The process of separation probably took 5 years because her tactics worked on him for way too long; she kept drawing him back in by playing the sad old victim and it took him that long to realize she was never ever going to change. People like that don't change. Ever.
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With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
Deciding if the wife should go to Chicago or Boston........decisions....decisions
2005 - London
2009 - Toronto
2010 - Buffalo
2011 - Toronto 1&2
2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
2014 - Cincinnati, St. Louis, Detroit
2016 - Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, Ottawa, Toronto 1 2018 - Fenway 1&2 2022 - Hamilton, Toronto 2023 - Chicago 1&2 2024 - Las Vegas 1&2
Deciding if the wife should go to Chicago or Boston........decisions....decisions
Boston!
Looking at AirBnB's today
2005 - London
2009 - Toronto
2010 - Buffalo
2011 - Toronto 1&2
2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
2014 - Cincinnati, St. Louis, Detroit
2016 - Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, Ottawa, Toronto 1 2018 - Fenway 1&2 2022 - Hamilton, Toronto 2023 - Chicago 1&2 2024 - Las Vegas 1&2
Recovering from last nights rum & cokes".......rough morning
2005 - London
2009 - Toronto
2010 - Buffalo
2011 - Toronto 1&2
2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
2014 - Cincinnati, St. Louis, Detroit
2016 - Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, Ottawa, Toronto 1 2018 - Fenway 1&2 2022 - Hamilton, Toronto 2023 - Chicago 1&2 2024 - Las Vegas 1&2
Recovering from last nights rum & cokes".......rough morning
Rough indeed. Here too.
There was also some PJ dvd watching & some rock n roll cigarettes involved as well = Great Evening
2005 - London
2009 - Toronto
2010 - Buffalo
2011 - Toronto 1&2
2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
2014 - Cincinnati, St. Louis, Detroit
2016 - Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, Ottawa, Toronto 1 2018 - Fenway 1&2 2022 - Hamilton, Toronto 2023 - Chicago 1&2 2024 - Las Vegas 1&2
Agonizing over whether or not I should pay for the trip to Seattle.
Such a tough decision. The old me would say f'n do it you only live once... the new me is saying only do it if you can get a good deal on an air bnb, flight/drive and suck up the concert tickets cost. We have several months to absorb the cost.... so yeah maybe...? I am doing it.... in Boston..got a deal on my flight and a cheap motel....that's a whole other concern. Going for it. PJ Soul you are so reasonable and intuitive. You will make it work
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My psychologist even said it.
Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.
I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.
I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
2009 - Toronto
2010 - Buffalo
2011 - Toronto 1&2
2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
2014 - Cincinnati, St. Louis, Detroit
2016 - Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, Ottawa, Toronto 1
2018 - Fenway 1&2
2022 - Hamilton, Toronto
2023 - Chicago 1&2
2024 - Las Vegas 1&2
2009 - Toronto
2010 - Buffalo
2011 - Toronto 1&2
2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
2014 - Cincinnati, St. Louis, Detroit
2016 - Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, Ottawa, Toronto 1
2018 - Fenway 1&2
2022 - Hamilton, Toronto
2023 - Chicago 1&2
2024 - Las Vegas 1&2
Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.
I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
2009 - Toronto
2010 - Buffalo
2011 - Toronto 1&2
2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
2014 - Cincinnati, St. Louis, Detroit
2016 - Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, Ottawa, Toronto 1
2018 - Fenway 1&2
2022 - Hamilton, Toronto
2023 - Chicago 1&2
2024 - Las Vegas 1&2
2009 - Toronto
2010 - Buffalo
2011 - Toronto 1&2
2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
2014 - Cincinnati, St. Louis, Detroit
2016 - Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, Ottawa, Toronto 1
2018 - Fenway 1&2
2022 - Hamilton, Toronto
2023 - Chicago 1&2
2024 - Las Vegas 1&2
astoria 06
albany 06
hartford 06
reading 06
barcelona 06
paris 06
wembley 07
dusseldorf 07
nijmegen 07
this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.
I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..