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  • i_lov_iti_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007

    Searching for Bass Guitars to buy...

  • bluegracebluegrace Posts: 2,357
    Planning an eventual trip, not sure it will happen yet
    Kool Kat Club 1992, Moderna museet 1992, Globen 2012, Friends arena 2014
  • i_lov_iti_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    edited January 2018

    Still searching for Basses...

  • Thoughts_ArriveThoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    dankind said:
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.

    https://youtu.be/GtkST5-ZFHw
    I cried the first time I saw this. Resonated with me. My brother in law said this to me before I saw this movie.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Thoughts_ArriveThoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
    Don't hate. Just separate. 
    I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • RogueStonerRogueStoner Sunny AZ Posts: 1,716
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
    Don't hate. Just separate. 
    I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
    She won't. That would require empathy and self-reflection and many people are just incapable of that. They just don't care how their callous words and actions affect others. Sad but true. 
  • AnnafalkAnnafalk Sweden Posts: 4,004
    edited January 2018
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
    Don't hate. Just separate. 
    I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
    It seems like she is not mentally sane since what you have told about her being physically and mentally abusive towards you all your life. I would try to just feel sorry for her because of how she is. If she wants to hurt you it's best that you don't give her that. No response is the best response I think,
    Post edited by Annafalk on
  • Wishing for a chance to live again
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  • Thoughts_ArriveThoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Annafalk said:
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
    Don't hate. Just separate. 
    I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
    It seems like she is not mentally sane since what you have told about her being physically and mentally abusive towards you all your life. I would try to just feel sorry for her because of how she is. If she wants to hurt you it's best that you don't give her that. No response is the best response I think,
    She sure is unwell mentally.
    My psychologist even said it.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 49,456
    edited January 2018
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
    Don't hate. Just separate. 
    I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
    She won't. That would require empathy and self-reflection and many people are just incapable of that. They just don't care how their callous words and actions affect others. Sad but true. 
    Agreed. She won't. Narcissists are incapable of such things. I have a friend who took the step you need to take - he cut off all contact with his mother because she was a horrible, destructive person in his life. Be warned, it took him a long time to finally get to that point, but what finally took him there was his attempts to do it. He would separate, and she would come forward with even harsher hate and a whole lot of crazy. There was no way in hell she was ever going to take any responsibility for the disastrous relationship. Finally he was brave enough to not continuously let her quilt tactics work on him at some level. The process of separation probably took 5 years because her tactics worked on him for way too long; she kept drawing him back in by playing the sad old victim and it took him that long to realize she was never ever going to change. People like that don't change. Ever.
    Post edited by PJ_Soul on
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • 23scidoo23scidoo Thessaloniki,Greece Posts: 18,378
    Watching Euroleauge, Panathinaikos vs Barcelona
    Athens 2006. Dusseldorf 2007. Berlin 2009. Venice 2010. Amsterdam 1 2012. Amsterdam 1+2 2014. Buenos Aires 2015.
    Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
    EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.

    I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
  • bluegracebluegrace Posts: 2,357
    Finally booked a hotel for my eventual trip, but I'm waiting a while with the flight
    Kool Kat Club 1992, Moderna museet 1992, Globen 2012, Friends arena 2014
  • FinsburyParkCarrotsFinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    Wondering who fancies a pint sometime, in Seattle, now I've been living here permanently for nearly a year?
  • 23scidoo23scidoo Thessaloniki,Greece Posts: 18,378
    Watching La Casa De Papel S2 E3 and eating pesto pasta..
    Athens 2006. Dusseldorf 2007. Berlin 2009. Venice 2010. Amsterdam 1 2012. Amsterdam 1+2 2014. Buenos Aires 2015.
    Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
    EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.

    I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
  • BLACK35BLACK35 Hanover, Ontario Posts: 22,432
    Deciding if the wife should go to Chicago or Boston........decisions....decisions
    2005 - London
    2009 - Toronto
    2010 - Buffalo
    2011 - Toronto 1&2
    2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
    2014 - Cincinnati, St. Louis, Detroit
    2016 - Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, Ottawa, Toronto 1
    2018 - Fenway 1&2
    2022 - Hamilton, Toronto
    2023 - Chicago 1&2
  • RogueStonerRogueStoner Sunny AZ Posts: 1,716
    I. Am. Fucked. Up. 
  • SD48277SD48277 Woodstock, NY Posts: 12,242
    BLACK35 said:
    Deciding if the wife should go to Chicago or Boston........decisions....decisions
    Boston!
    ELITIST FUK
  • BLACK35BLACK35 Hanover, Ontario Posts: 22,432
    SD48277 said:
    BLACK35 said:
    Deciding if the wife should go to Chicago or Boston........decisions....decisions
    Boston!
    Looking at AirBnB's today :)
    2005 - London
    2009 - Toronto
    2010 - Buffalo
    2011 - Toronto 1&2
    2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
    2014 - Cincinnati, St. Louis, Detroit
    2016 - Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, Ottawa, Toronto 1
    2018 - Fenway 1&2
    2022 - Hamilton, Toronto
    2023 - Chicago 1&2
  • 23scidoo23scidoo Thessaloniki,Greece Posts: 18,378
    Watchig Vikings S5E4
    Athens 2006. Dusseldorf 2007. Berlin 2009. Venice 2010. Amsterdam 1 2012. Amsterdam 1+2 2014. Buenos Aires 2015.
    Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
    EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.

    I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
  • This. Was dry all January so this tastes Good! Watching Single Video Theory seeing as I'm home alone 
  • RogueStonerRogueStoner Sunny AZ Posts: 1,716
    Trying to figure out my fuzzy cuffs. :lol:
  • Thoughts_ArriveThoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Scratching these mosquito bites I just copped whilst outside.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • BLACK35BLACK35 Hanover, Ontario Posts: 22,432
    Recovering from last nights rum & cokes".......rough morning
    2005 - London
    2009 - Toronto
    2010 - Buffalo
    2011 - Toronto 1&2
    2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
    2014 - Cincinnati, St. Louis, Detroit
    2016 - Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, Ottawa, Toronto 1
    2018 - Fenway 1&2
    2022 - Hamilton, Toronto
    2023 - Chicago 1&2
  • RogueStonerRogueStoner Sunny AZ Posts: 1,716
    BLACK35 said:
    Recovering from last nights rum & cokes".......rough morning
    Rough indeed. Here too. 
  • BLACK35BLACK35 Hanover, Ontario Posts: 22,432
    BLACK35 said:
    Recovering from last nights rum & cokes".......rough morning
    Rough indeed. Here too. 
    There was also some PJ dvd watching & some rock n roll cigarettes involved as well = Great Evening 
    2005 - London
    2009 - Toronto
    2010 - Buffalo
    2011 - Toronto 1&2
    2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
    2014 - Cincinnati, St. Louis, Detroit
    2016 - Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, Ottawa, Toronto 1
    2018 - Fenway 1&2
    2022 - Hamilton, Toronto
    2023 - Chicago 1&2
  • I. Am. Fucked. Up. 
    This^^^^^
    brixton 93
    astoria 06
    albany 06
    hartford 06
    reading 06
    barcelona 06
    paris 06
    wembley 07
    dusseldorf 07
    nijmegen 07

    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • 23scidoo23scidoo Thessaloniki,Greece Posts: 18,378
    Watching Altered Carbon S1 E9
    Athens 2006. Dusseldorf 2007. Berlin 2009. Venice 2010. Amsterdam 1 2012. Amsterdam 1+2 2014. Buenos Aires 2015.
    Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
    EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.

    I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
  • davidtriosdavidtrios Posts: 9,732
    Entered the Wrigley Lottery, reserved seats was my number 1 choice.
  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 49,456
    Agonizing over whether or not I should pay for the trip to Seattle. :anguished:
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • hauntingfamiliarhauntingfamiliar Wilmington, NC Posts: 10,217
    PJ_Soul said:
    Agonizing over whether or not I should pay for the trip to Seattle. :anguished:
    Such a tough decision. The old me would say f'n do it you only live once... the new me is saying only do it if you can get a good deal on an air bnb, flight/drive and suck up the concert tickets cost. We have several months to absorb the cost.... so yeah maybe...? I am doing it.... in Boston..got a deal on my flight and a cheap motel....that's a whole other concern. Going for it. PJ Soul you are so reasonable and intuitive. You will make it work :)
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