everyone please give chiquimonkey a great BIG HUG!!!

decides2dream

saturday, the 25th, is her birthday...ad she is going thru MORE than a rough time of it. keep her, her mother, her family in your thoughts...offer up all the love and goodness you can spare.....and somehow, hope some small glimmer of happiness can shine on her day tomorrow, and she has the strength to face some daunting days ahead.

truly chica, you have been such a great friend to us all, for years now...a source of laughter, love, inspiration...
i know it doesn't feel like it, and probably won't for a good long while but the sun WILL shine another day. you deserve EVERY happiness in the world...


*BIG HUGS!*

small town beck

Agreed. She is truly a beautiful person and deserves nothing but happiness. This is such a rough time for her.

*major hugs*

mfc2006

thoughts & prayers are with you & your family, chiqui.

norm

decides2dream wrote:

*BIG HUGS!*

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-6xV0uAVpk

blondieblue227

i was just about to post this......

wolfbear

Big, big hugs to you Chiqui! You will get through this, not without pain, but also with some warm memories and comfort knowing you did all you could. You have been wonderful in her last days and you both will benefit.

comebackgirl

((((BIG HUGS)))) Hoping you find some peace

Loulou

Big Hugs from Adelaide mate, you hang in there.

Fifthelement

BIG HUGS

You are all in my thoughts . . . {{{good vibes}}}

decides2dream

*hugs*
*hugs*
*hugs*
*hugs*
*hugs*
*hugs*
*hugs*

ZiggyStar

81

:wave:

Claireack

You are most deserving of many many hugs .......

HUG

I would do it bigger, but I'm on my phone and don't know how to.

mikalina

Sending you HUGS.... and prayers your way.

redrock

{{{hugs}}} and love xxx

decides2dream

And wherever you've gone...and wherever we might go...
It don't seem fair...today just disappeared...
Your light's reflected now,... reflected from afar...
We were but stones,... your light made us stars



bless, chica.....much love to you all....
xo

small town beck

I am sorry, chiqui. :(

May she rest in peace.

I know nothing replaces the loss of one's mother. My heart breaks for you.

norm

decides2dream wrote:

And wherever you've gone...and wherever we might go...
It don't seem fair...today just disappeared...
Your light's reflected now,... reflected from afar...
We were but stones,... your light made us stars



bless, chica.....much love to you all....
xo

ed says it better than i could ever hope to


love and strength to you and your family

{{hugs}}

small town beck

decides2dream wrote:

And wherever you've gone...and wherever we might go...
It don't seem fair...today just disappeared...
Your light's reflected now,... reflected from afar...
We were but stones,... your light made us stars



bless, chica.....much love to you all....
xo

I still can't listen to this song without crying. Beautiful song.

JOEJOEJOE

Thoughts of peace and love to you.

electronblue

(((chiqui)))

Ms. Haiku

<<hugs>> You're in my thoughts.

pandora

"For mother's sake the child was dear,
and dearer was the mother for the child."
- Samuel Taylor Coleridge

Smiles for you for the love you shared

She will forever be with you.

mfc2006

decides2dream wrote:

And wherever you've gone...and wherever we might go...
It don't seem fair...today just disappeared...
Your light's reflected now,... reflected from afar...
We were but stones,... your light made us stars



bless, chica.....much love to you all....
xo

that's exactly what i was going to post. those lyrics helped me so much when my Dad passed away. sending love & strength you way.

Matt

QuarterToTen

My deepest condolences.

chiquimonkey

Thank you so much everyone, we can all feel the love for sure. My mom finally passed this morning, without pain and surrounded by love. She had a few moments of lucidity last night which we were able to share, so I'll cherish that forever.

This is without a doubt the hardest day of my life, and I know more are to come.

small town beck

chiquimonkey wrote:

Thank you so much everyone, we can all feel the love for sure. My mom finally passed this morning, without pain and surrounded by love. She had a few moments of lucidity last night which we were able to share, so I'll cherish that forever.

This is without a doubt the hardest day of my life, and I know more are to come.

I am glad you were able to spend those few moments with her last night. *hugs*

chiquimonkey

small town beck wrote:

chiquimonkey wrote:

Thank you so much everyone, we can all feel the love for sure. My mom finally passed this morning, without pain and surrounded by love. She had a few moments of lucidity last night which we were able to share, so I'll cherish that forever.

This is without a doubt the hardest day of my life, and I know more are to come.

I am glad you were able to spend those few moments with her last night. *hugs*

Thanks. Yeah we have zero regrets about anything which gives us some comfort anyway. We spent a lot of time wiht her, had a couple of laughs last night, and told her we loved her over and over this morning and prayed before she passed (the priest showed up 5 minutes afterwards).

We have family flying in tonight so that will be a help, and people will be visiting to offer support.

chiquimonkey

And may I say there is nothing more surreal than choosing an outfit for your mom to wear in her casket :(

norm

chiquimonkey wrote:

small town beck wrote:

chiquimonkey wrote:

Thank you so much everyone, we can all feel the love for sure. My mom finally passed this morning, without pain and surrounded by love. She had a few moments of lucidity last night which we were able to share, so I'll cherish that forever.

This is without a doubt the hardest day of my life, and I know more are to come.

I am glad you were able to spend those few moments with her last night. *hugs*

Thanks. Yeah we have zero regrets about anything which gives us some comfort anyway. We spent a lot of time wiht her, had a couple of laughs last night, and told her we loved her over and over this morning and prayed before she passed (the priest showed up 5 minutes afterwards).

We have family flying in tonight so that will be a help, and people will be visiting to offer support.

been thinking about you all day...family really helps

stay strong

keeponrockin

Big Hugs!