begs the question - do masturbatory aids count as cheating?
mysticweed
Posts: 3,710
i say no
sexting or any sort of internet porn that doesn't constitute actual physical touching is the same as a magazine or vibrator
they are masturbatory aids and i believe it should not count as cheating
sexting or any sort of internet porn that doesn't constitute actual physical touching is the same as a magazine or vibrator
they are masturbatory aids and i believe it should not count as cheating
fuck 'em if they can't take a joke
"what a long, strange trip it's been"
"what a long, strange trip it's been"
Post edited by Unknown User on
0
This discussion has been closed.
Comments
is that because there is a real person at the other end?
"what a long, strange trip it's been"
wouldn't bother you one bit right?
you're LYING.
who cares what you call it cheating or not, IT'S WRONG.
I just don't understand why people who aren't happy in their actual relationships that they go elsewhere for satisfaction before ending it with your current interest
just makes you a bigger jackass for bringing that person down with you
then it doesn't matter what shape, form or description of a wanking tool you give it, it's
not cheating.
Tres Mts. Gramercy Theatre 3/26/11
*formerly manutd3581
If any of you say yes, I seriously think you're lying to yourselves. Think right now of your significant other, would it be ok it they were doing these things with another man/woman?
think really hard and I think you'll get your answer
ok... you come home and walk into your bedroom and your wife and some dude are naked getting themselves off... you're fine with that? They're not touching each other.
was like a picture
of a sunny day
“We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.”
― Abraham Lincoln
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
This scenario is even stupider than the original question.
well said.
(another great one, chickweed! you say potato. PJ20 girl. Its on. )
Don't fuck sheep. -EV 7/11/11
You can never have enough Neil in the mix. -EV 10/24/10
There's only one commandment: Don't be an asshole. -EV 5/6/10
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Maybe not the right partner for you then, eh?
One would hope that most of us would choose to be with people who hold similar values in general, and certainly on matters of respect, love and sex.
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
that's basically the point I was trying to make.
seriously,when it comes to people sees Ghosts around the other half,are getting crazy..
its not easy to talk or understand all with the partner,especially in sex,,your fantasies...etc
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Exactly, and That can vary greatly from couple to couple. Thus, i am personally not a fan of hard and fast labels for these sorts of things.....peoples tolerances and degrees of acceptance vary as greatly as personalities.
Dimitires...i meant the universal you, not you personally.
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
Maybe, maybe not but either way you are admitting that your partner isn't satisfying you sexually and you don't have the courage, maturity or sensivity to your partners feelings to address the real problem.
:thumbup:
- Christopher McCandless
And what if your partner fulfills your every other need, a pretty amazing feat in itself, except sexually? And he or she is a ok with you looking elsewhere? Playing devils advocate to be sure, but just pointing out, theres just no knowing what works for some couples. So i still say, its up to each couple to decide what works, what hurts and whats ok. Theres not going to be one right answer for everyone. Sure, society as a whole has some specifics for morality, but that doesnt mean everyone has to live by such norms. Just sayin....
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
Well it can't be considered cheating if your partner condones it. I just got the impression from the OP that these things were used without your partners knowledge.
I saw it more as looking for definitions of cheating. Lets face it, does your partner know every. Single. Thing. You do? I think its more a question of when in doubt, you discuss with your partner and take it from there. Again, for me, it comes down to trust and similar moral values, no matter how broad or narrow they might be. And lets face it, when it comes to sex, the more discussion, the better. Tricky topic.
Btw partners knowledge and approval or not, i am certain there are many out there who would still see such as wrong, because that is their morality, and cannot abide others living outside of that.
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
"Free Shipping" SPEEDY MCCREADY
My friend was going to see Eddie last night. Since he was in Vegas, I gave him 5 Grand to gamble with. I told him I wanted it all to go on Black. Bastard! PhillyCrownOfThorns-11-2-12
Sexting with someone besides a significant other would be bad. Someone else getting pleasure too means intimacy..
I'm one who gets VERY jelous, but would not care if my significant other was looking at porn.. If they were sexting however, I would definitely consider that cheating and be very hurt.
ok then, if porn is 'ok' is going to the strip club not cheating? i mean it's basically porn, but 'in person' and in Washington state there is a '3 foot rule'
'what happens at the strip club, stays at the strip club'...right?
- Christopher McCandless
Porn is just pictures of other people, and ONE person is involved. Not two people.
this probably why over half of marriages fail and even more relationships.
I think most people know in their heart when they are doing something wrong
and sometimes that alone is the thrill, things can be just perfect but still... need that thrill.
It takes a mature unselfish person to put the the other person first, but the rewards are great.
Gratifying ourselves gets old, making your partner happy does not.
well, weiner texted the pic of himself to a girl he did not know or had met before. (customer and stripper)
He saw her pic and saw what he liked (basically like porn)
he then texted a pic of himself and thought it was just to her, hoping for (...?)-sorta like a guy would probably make an obscene gesture towards a stripper to get her to come over to give him a lap dance.
I don't know what pics she posted of herself (on her twitter page), but what if he looked at her pictures in a 'certain' way? (oogling/lusting)
is that cheating? or is it cheating when she replies? or if he is constantly trying to contact her?
I just read an article where weiner's wife sees 'nothing wrong' with the entire 'scandal', so she seems to not care.
(BTW, some of the local media outlets here are reporting that the student was voted 'most likely to be involved in a government scandal' by her peers)
- Christopher McCandless
Porn and strip clubs don't count as cheating in our house. My husband has been to strip clubs with his mates a few times (mostly bachelor parties or birthdays) and I don't have a problem with it. There are very strict no touching policies at most strip clubs. Anyone that bans there partner from looking at porn is asking for trouble, there is nothing wrong with using your imagination.
Sexting on the other hand is a betrayl to your intimate relationship with your sig other. (I understand others think differently)
IBTL