What's something you've done that you're ashamed of?

Chip McFlennigan

Go ahead. Confess.

Cool Face Ryan

METH

blenderman69

in no particular order and without specpifc details, in my life at one time or another i have been a liar, a theif, a drug addict,a bad father, a bad son,a bad brother,a bad husband and a bad christian i have committeda millon sinns some of wich i would never share publicly i have had many shamfull lows and are full of guilt alot of the time....stangely enough sometimes i am capeable of great act of kindness and wisdom and selfless generosity...they keep me from packing it in a jumping off a bridge... :?

Wilds

Dog and Peanut Butter.

norm

blenderman69 wrote:

in no particular order and without specpifc details, in my life at one time or another i have been a liar, a theif, a drug addict,a bad father, a bad son,a bad brother,a bad husband and a bad christian i have committeda millon sinns some of wich i would never share publicly i have had many shamfull lows and are full of guilt alot of the time....stangely enough sometimes i am capeable of great act of kindness and wisdom and selfless generosity...they keep me from packing it in a jumping off a bridge... :?

jshin

I got caught up in a characters story line on Glee...once...

StillHere

where would you like me to start? :roll:

Hugh Freaking Dillon

nothing, really. it's all learning experience.

EmBleve

StillHere wrote:

where would you like me to start? :roll:

Ditto.

dimitrispearljam

i feel ashamed of the ones i didnt do....

MayDay10

At college a kid was breaking bottles in our driveway (after we were breaking things all night). I went to campus and slapped him around a lot, and dragged him to our house to clean up his mess. I proceeded to wallop him a few times. To this day I feel horrible about it.

Jeff Murray

Nothing that is of public record yet.... And I don't really feel like showing off, so I'll keep those things to myself... :oops:

StillHere

i was raised a Roman Catholic

Therefore, I am Ashamed of EVERYTHING!

ahhahaaa.. or I once was

over most of it now...so all good and watch out!!!

EmBleve

StillHere wrote:

i was raised a Roman Catholic

Therefore, I am Ashamed of EVERYTHING!

ahhahaaa.. or I once was

over most of it now...so all good and watch out!!!

omg, so was II!!!! It definitely induces a guilty conscience....I now call myself a 'recovering Catholic'.

EmBleve

Dirty Frankfurter wrote:

nothing, really. it's all learning experience.

this is good...I thought of this, also... but being 'ashamed' of something you have done isn't the same as 'regretting'. I'm ashamed of some things, but I don't regret them...as you say, it was a learning experience.

pandora

I'm ashamed of even considering suicide when I was the mother of two small children.

It is not and never was about me.

StillHere

pandora wrote:

I'm ashamed of even considering suicide when I was the mother of two small children.

It is not and never was about me.

oh that's a big one pandi..but you're here now, and i'm sure you were, have been and are a beautiful mother to say the very least

pandora

StillHere wrote:

pandora wrote:

I'm ashamed of even considering suicide when I was the mother of two small children.

It is not and never was about me.

oh that's a big one pandi..but you're here now, and i'm sure you were, have been and are a beautiful mother to say the very least

thank you Jo that means a lot coming from you.. a wonderful Mom and Grandma

I was thinking how proud I am of my son and daughter yesterday ... they are what I did right in this world.
They have so much to face though sometimes it all seems so fragile.... and scary.

Nothingman54

I had something typed out but deleted it. :-)

StillHere

pandora wrote:

StillHere wrote:

pandora wrote:

I'm ashamed of even considering suicide when I was the mother of two small children.

It is not and never was about me.

oh that's a big one pandi..but you're here now, and i'm sure you were, have been and are a beautiful mother to say the very least

thank you Jo that means a lot coming from you.. a wonderful Mom and Grandma

I was thinking how proud I am of my son and daughter yesterday ... they are what I did right in this world.
They have so much to face though sometimes it all seems so fragile.... and scary.

understood..very much understood...we're all fragile, right? but we're all still here and that says a lot
peace, jo

EmBleve

pandora wrote:

I'm ashamed of even considering suicide when I was the mother of two small children.

It is not and never was about me.

don't ever be ashamed of that, regardless of whether or not you had two children...sometimes, life just gets to that point....and don't ever think (which I doubt you do), that you were the only one who has been there...and pandora, you have come so far from that point that it really doesn't matter how or why....but what matters is that YOU HAVE...and you have a great attitude right now...more importantly...you have developed a true sense of self and what is important to you---and you have no qualms about standing up for it.....that, my dear friend, is to be commended, regardless of any particular aspect of your beliefs...you are a strong, indiviudal woman, and I admire you!! And, you are not alone...but we are glad you are still here...xo

EmBleve

Nothingman54 wrote:

I had something typed out but deleted it. :-)

well, put it back up ..

EmBleve

StillHere wrote:

I'm ashamed of even considering suicide when I was the understood..very much understood...we're all fragile, right? but we're all still here and that says a lot
peace, jo

exactly.

StillHere

EmBleve wrote:

pandora wrote:

I'm ashamed of even considering suicide when I was the mother of two small children.

It is not and never was about me.

don't ever be ashamed of that, regardless of whether or not you had two children...sometimes, life just gets to that point....and don't ever think (which I doubt you do), that you were the only one who has been there...and pandora, you have come so far from that point that it really doesn't matter how or why....but what matters is that YOU HAVE...and you have a great attitude right now...more importantly...you have developed a true sense of self and what is important to you---and you have no qualms about standing up for it.....that, my dear friend, is to be commended, regardless of any particular aspect of your beliefs...you are a strong, indiviudal woman, and I admire you!! And, you are not alone...but we are glad you are still here...xo

:wave: :thumbup:

StillHere

i am MOST ashamed of
the amount of time it took me
to kick my 2nd husband to the curb
when he started treating my children like dogs

yep...I will FOREVER be ashamed of myself
i could cry

blenderman69

StillHere wrote:

i am MOST ashamed of
the amount of time it took me
to kick my 2nd husband to the curb
when he started treating my children like dogs

yep...I will FOREVER be ashamed of myself
i could cry

jo.my dear jo..you have friends in philly who have"FRIENDS"in south philly...i can get concrete sneakers custum made for that douche bag i'm just sayin

EmBleve

StillHere wrote:

i am MOST ashamed of
the amount of time it took me
to kick my 2nd husband to the curb
when he started treating my children like dogs

yep...I will FOREVER be ashamed of myself
i could cry

Don't EVER be ashamed of that, Jo!! The point is that you kicked him to the curb!!! You realized what was going on and you took action--the time frame is irrelevant!! You got that under your belt, and you learned from it, no doubt. Be proud of yourself woman!!

StillHere

blenderman69 wrote:

StillHere wrote:

i am MOST ashamed of
the amount of time it took me
to kick my 2nd husband to the curb
when he started treating my children like dogs

yep...I will FOREVER be ashamed of myself
i could cry

jo.my dear jo..you have friends in philly who have"FRIENDS"in south philly...i can get concrete sneakers custum made for that douche bag i'm just sayin

thanks for the offer dan!
unfortunately...i sometimes think...that's not the way we roll
he's got his payment for that behavior ..... he has no children or grandchildren to make his "old age" sweet, like i do
not even my baby girl (his biological daughter)
its a real shame
i "almost" feel sorry for him
almost......but not quite

StillHere

EmBleve wrote:

StillHere wrote:

i am MOST ashamed of
the amount of time it took me
to kick my 2nd husband to the curb
when he started treating my children like dogs

yep...I will FOREVER be ashamed of myself
i could cry

Don't EVER be ashamed of that, Jo!! The point is that you kicked him to the curb!!! You realized what was going on and you took action--the time frame is irrelevant!! You got that under your belt, and you learned from it, no doubt. Be proud of yourself woman!!

*hugs*

StillHere

johnny america wrote:

Go ahead. Confess.

ahhh..hemmmm

i just noticed something johnny

let's hear it!

EmBleve

StillHere wrote:

*hugs*

hugs back to you, Jo, for real... And it is a total shame...and don't you EVER feel sorry for him!! If he chose to give that up, that was his choice, Jo. Yes, I can understand you having some feelings of a sense of 'responsibility' for that...but you don't. All you can do is the best that you can do...and I feel sure that you are doing just that...take pride in yourself for what you ARE doing...it will not go unappreciated..and, as I'm sure you realize, it will make you more fulfilled as a grandma/mother...do your thing, girl! Make no excuses for anyone, including yourself!!!