Just remember that girls are usually full of shit.
If you're in the FRIEND ZONE, that just means the girl knows you sweat her, and she'll use you when she needs you, but when she doesn't need you, you'll be a non-thought or factor in her existence.
Hey, I just figured out that whenever I talk to some girl I like it ends up disastrous and the conversation be really boring or bland. Any tips on how I could talk to my crush....thanks!
It is normal to be nervous when talking to a crush because there is so much riding on it! Try to get in the mindset that she has a boyfriend or is uninterested, and hopefully, you will act more naturally because in your mind, she is already taken.
You are like what 17 there for you are cluless don't take it the wrong way that's just the way we men are built :P It will take a while to figure the correct combo to use to get the chicks good luck ...
You are like what 17 there for you are cluless don't take it the wrong way that's just the way we men are built :P It will take a while to figure the correct combo to use to get the chicks good luck ...
What was your combo, Jose?
It took me a long time to finally get my groove, but, in my approximation it was a mix of humor (30%), being a good listener/asking questions about her (20%), making her feel comfortable (30%), being a bit "edgy" (15%) and being "well-connected" in show biz, which seems to impress people in L.A. (5%).
This is going to sound lame, but I've noticed between here and facebook, my social skills have greatly improved. Not necessarily face to face, but coming up with things to talk about. Socialize however you can and you'll get better.
You'd be surprised, chicks like to talk about the same things as guys too. Read some books. Read the news. Read the conversations here. Build up a a storage of topics to discuss. You be surprised how talking about even something stupid can be expanded and turn into an hour conversation.
In high school I was horrible. I couldn't hold a 5 minute conversation with a girl I already knew. Now I could talk for hours with a blind date.
You are like what 17 there for you are cluless don't take it the wrong way that's just the way we men are built :P It will take a while to figure the correct combo to use to get the chicks good luck ...
What was your combo, Jose?
It took me a long time to finally get my groove, but, in my approximation it was a mix of humor (30%), being a good listener/asking questions about her (20%), making her feel comfortable (30%), being a bit "edgy" (15%) and being "well-connected" in show biz, which seems to impress people in L.A. (5%).
I would say you covered most of the things that make people feel or perceive that you know something about life , def have to have good manners be a bit cultured doen't hurt at all.But to get to that point it takes a while and alot of experience oh and if you can date a Woman that is just a little older than your self they are great Teachers ...
You are like what 17 there for you are cluless don't take it the wrong way that's just the way we men are built :P It will take a while to figure the correct combo to use to get the chicks good luck ...
What was your combo, Jose?
It took me a long time to finally get my groove, but, in my approximation it was a mix of humor (30%), being a good listener/asking questions about her (20%), making her feel comfortable (30%), being a bit "edgy" (15%) and being "well-connected" in show biz, which seems to impress people in L.A. (5%).
I would say you covered most of the things that make people feel or perceive that you know something about life , def have to have good manners be a bit cultured doen't hurt at all.But to get to that point it takes a while and alot of experience oh and if you can date a Woman that is just a little older than your self they are great Teachers ...
During my first date with my wife, she mentioned that she did part of her medical internship at Juvenile Hall in Los Angeles. I aksed whay years she was there, and after she answered, I mentioned that I wasn't there in those years. She then asked what I was in for, and I told her that I don't like to talk about it (I was totally kidding about ever being in juvenile hall!). The next day, she wanted to confirm that I was really kidding.
Sydney 11/02/2003
Sydney 14/02/2003
Sydney 07/11/2006
Sydney 18/11/2006
Sydney 22/11/2009
EV Sydney 18/03/2011
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EV Sydney 20/03/2011
Melbourne 24/01/2014
Sydney 26/01/2014
EV Sydney 13/02/2014
Just tell her you're glad you met her because you're ready to trade one obsession for the other.
'So I was listening to Eddie'
'Who's Eddie?'
'Uh, Eddie Vedder'
'Whos Eddie Vedder?'
'We're through'
Sydney 11/02/2003
Sydney 14/02/2003
Sydney 07/11/2006
Sydney 18/11/2006
Sydney 22/11/2009
EV Sydney 18/03/2011
EV Sydney 19/03/2011
EV Sydney 20/03/2011
Melbourne 24/01/2014
Sydney 26/01/2014
EV Sydney 13/02/2014
8/28/98- Camden, NJ
10/31/09- Philly
5/21/10- NYC
9/2/12- Philly, PA
7/19/13- Wrigley
10/19/13- Brooklyn, NY
10/21/13- Philly, PA
10/22/13- Philly, PA
10/27/13- Baltimore, MD
4/28/16- Philly, PA
4/29/16- Philly, PA
5/1/16- NYC
5/2/16- NYC
9/2/18- Boston, MA
9/4/18- Boston, MA
9/14/22- Camden, NJ
9/7/24- Philly, PA
9/9/24- Philly, PA
Tres Mts.- 3/23/11- Philly. PA
Eddie Vedder- 6/25/11- Philly, PA
RNDM- 3/9/16- Philly, PA
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If you're in the FRIEND ZONE, that just means the girl knows you sweat her, and she'll use you when she needs you, but when she doesn't need you, you'll be a non-thought or factor in her existence.
It is normal to be nervous when talking to a crush because there is so much riding on it! Try to get in the mindset that she has a boyfriend or is uninterested, and hopefully, you will act more naturally because in your mind, she is already taken.
What was your combo, Jose?
It took me a long time to finally get my groove, but, in my approximation it was a mix of humor (30%), being a good listener/asking questions about her (20%), making her feel comfortable (30%), being a bit "edgy" (15%) and being "well-connected" in show biz, which seems to impress people in L.A. (5%).
You'd be surprised, chicks like to talk about the same things as guys too. Read some books. Read the news. Read the conversations here. Build up a a storage of topics to discuss. You be surprised how talking about even something stupid can be expanded and turn into an hour conversation.
In high school I was horrible. I couldn't hold a 5 minute conversation with a girl I already knew. Now I could talk for hours with a blind date.
I would say you covered most of the things that make people feel or perceive that you know something about life , def have to have good manners be a bit cultured doen't hurt at all.But to get to that point it takes a while and alot of experience oh and if you can date a Woman that is just a little older than your self they are great Teachers
During my first date with my wife, she mentioned that she did part of her medical internship at Juvenile Hall in Los Angeles. I aksed whay years she was there, and after she answered, I mentioned that I wasn't there in those years. She then asked what I was in for, and I told her that I don't like to talk about it (I was totally kidding about ever being in juvenile hall!). The next day, she wanted to confirm that I was really kidding.
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On second thoughts....
Sydney 14/02/2003
Sydney 07/11/2006
Sydney 18/11/2006
Sydney 22/11/2009
EV Sydney 18/03/2011
EV Sydney 19/03/2011
EV Sydney 20/03/2011
Melbourne 24/01/2014
Sydney 26/01/2014
EV Sydney 13/02/2014
'So I was listening to Eddie'
'Who's Eddie?'
'Uh, Eddie Vedder'
'Whos Eddie Vedder?'
'We're through'
Sydney 14/02/2003
Sydney 07/11/2006
Sydney 18/11/2006
Sydney 22/11/2009
EV Sydney 18/03/2011
EV Sydney 19/03/2011
EV Sydney 20/03/2011
Melbourne 24/01/2014
Sydney 26/01/2014
EV Sydney 13/02/2014
Maybe I will!
Eddie Vedder- 7/16/11
Brad- 4/21/12 (RSD Performance), 4/27/12, 8/10/12
Flight To Mars- 5/23/12
RNDM- 11/27/12
PEARL JAM- 12/6/13 I have finally seen Pearl Jam live!
Eddie Vedder- 7/16/11
Brad- 4/21/12 (RSD Performance), 4/27/12, 8/10/12
Flight To Mars- 5/23/12
RNDM- 11/27/12
PEARL JAM- 12/6/13 I have finally seen Pearl Jam live!
my only other tip is to have a cocktail or 7 but you're 14 so that will have to wait a year or two
Eddie Vedder- 7/16/11
Brad- 4/21/12 (RSD Performance), 4/27/12, 8/10/12
Flight To Mars- 5/23/12
RNDM- 11/27/12
PEARL JAM- 12/6/13 I have finally seen Pearl Jam live!
or
or
10/31/09- Philly
5/21/10- NYC
9/2/12- Philly, PA
7/19/13- Wrigley
10/19/13- Brooklyn, NY
10/21/13- Philly, PA
10/22/13- Philly, PA
10/27/13- Baltimore, MD
4/28/16- Philly, PA
4/29/16- Philly, PA
5/1/16- NYC
5/2/16- NYC
9/2/18- Boston, MA
9/4/18- Boston, MA
9/14/22- Camden, NJ
9/7/24- Philly, PA
9/9/24- Philly, PA
Eddie Vedder- 6/25/11- Philly, PA
RNDM- 3/9/16- Philly, PA
Neither......but that second crush is looking intresting........
Eddie Vedder- 7/16/11
Brad- 4/21/12 (RSD Performance), 4/27/12, 8/10/12
Flight To Mars- 5/23/12
RNDM- 11/27/12
PEARL JAM- 12/6/13 I have finally seen Pearl Jam live!