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  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    Dissidentman wrote:
    The Juggler wrote:
    anywho---each year we celebrate our "vanniversary" and just combine the two days into one :mrgreen:

    That just sounds like you consumated the relationship in an Econoline 350...

    you say that like it's a bad thing
  • voidofman
    voidofman Posts: 4,009
    chadwick wrote:
    4and20 wrote:
    chadwick wrote:
    sex on valentine's day
    sure dates are good

    that might be a little soon chad
    some girls have time-frame rules...'no nookie until after X dates'
    that's dumb.
    never let rules slow ya down.
    dates/# of them... bullshit rule

    two adults are interested in one another, they like each other, go.
    bullshit-dates are for people who still watch mr. rogers.
    poetry needs written dammit.

    I wrote poetry before I got some. Then again we were like thousand of miles away.
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    i'd pm likeanocean. he is the resident love guru.....or is that goober :?: :|
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  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    4and20 wrote:
    you better have those bacon waffles damnit!


    AET tent. :|
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  • voidofman
    voidofman Posts: 4,009
    81 wrote:
    i'd pm likeanocean. he is the resident love guru.....or is that goober :?: :|
    He's in the same boat.
  • pjfan31
    pjfan31 Posts: 7,335
    catefrances wrote:
    pjfan31 wrote:
    Who knows, ask her on vday and it might become vday for another reason... ;) ...


    you have no plans monday do you?? :P :lol:


    I actually do....

    I have big plans with not one, but 3 hotties

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  • molten_toothpaste
    molten_toothpaste Posts: 422
    KR10 wrote:
    molten_toothpaste wrote:
    Ask her out on V-day (as a girl, trust me you should), but also explain that you didn't want to "scare her off" (she'd appreciate that). With that said, get her some flowers (not talking a dozen roses), but something sweet like pink/ red carnations or possibly a small box of chocolates with a cute card. This way you're not going from "zero to sixty" on a second date. Since she has a son, you may want to get him a little something as well...this would mean a lot to her!

    Just a few thoughts from a girl...

    Hope this was helpful!
    :mrgreen:


    This was helpful. Thanks for the advice. I asked a girl I work with and she said that I definaltey need to ask her out. You posed it a good way (tell her I am not trying to scare her off but see if she wants to go out then). I dont know about the gift for the kid because I havent met him yet and if things work out between her and I it seems like it will be a while before I meet him. Thanks again.


    Glad I can help!! How old is the little man? I was thinking of a stuffed animal (or something along those lines)! If there's anything else I can help you with, please feel free to drop me a PM! :mrgreen:
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  • The Juggler
    The Juggler Posts: 49,599
    Jearlpam0925 wrote:
    The Juggler wrote:
    i will be marrying a girl next month....our first date was 2/13. i kinda thought it would be weird to have a first date on valentines. guess its really not a big deal though.

    anywho---each year we celebrate our "vanniversary" and just combine the two days into one :mrgreen:

    You're getting off easy.

    i do have xmas in december followed by her birthday in january and then this thing in february--that's a dreaded 1-2-3 punch..........wow and i just realized our wedding anniversary will be in march beginning next year. :shock:
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    pjfan31 wrote:
    catefrances wrote:
    pjfan31 wrote:
    Who knows, ask her on vday and it might become vday for another reason... ;) ...


    you have no plans monday do you?? :P :lol:


    I actually do....

    I have big plans with not one, but 3 hotties

    dollsx.jpg


    hmmmm okey dokey then................... :lol:
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • dr0ptheleash
    dr0ptheleash Posts: 1,264
    I don't think it is too soon if it is kept casual. Who says that Valentine's day is for couples; isn't it just for people who share feelings for one another? I say go for it. She'd probably rather spend it with you than alone. :D
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    Wait - you're not the guy I just started dating who I'm waiting to ask me out for V-day, are you? ;) Ask her. For sure. And please spread the advice to the rest of the men out there.
  • KR10
    KR10 Posts: 17
    I want to thank everyone for the advice that was provided to me. I appreciate all of your comments.

    Update:

    We were texting each other this morning (which I think is very impersonal for someone that I just met but thats another conversation for another time) and she sent me a text message on a break from one of her meetings to ask me out for dinner on Friday night when she gets back into town. I am pretty excited about the fact that she asked me out instead of the other way around. I guess my feeling about her liking me was right on.

    Thanks again for your advice. I truly appreciate the suggestions. I visit the boards quite often but do not post here very much but I knew that this was the right place to get good advice.
  • Dissidentman
    Dissidentman Posts: 15,381
    KR10 wrote:
    I visit the boards quite often but do not post here very much but I knew that this was the right place to get good advice.

    Questionable at best....

    :thumbup:
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    Dissidentman wrote:
    KR10 wrote:
    I visit the boards quite often but do not post here very much but I knew that this was the right place to get good advice.

    Questionable at best....


    agreed
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