Yeah, like maybe if he tries to gently introduce something along those lines to see if she opens up about it rather than mention seeing it on the phone. Because if he mentions the stuff on the phone, there's an invasion of privacy issue as well as a sexual issue.
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+1...just because people 'don't have anything to hide' does NOT mean that they shouldn't get mad if someone goes thru their personal belongings. If there is nothing to suspect, then there is no reason to 'check up' on someone. It just shows that one person is disrespectful of another...people need to have their own sense of 'personal space'.
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+1...just because people 'don't have anything to hide' does NOT mean that they shouldn't get mad if someone goes thru their personal belongings. If there is nothing to suspect, then there is no reason to 'check up' on someone. It just shows that one person is disrespectful of another...people need to have their own sense of 'personal space'.
but they are MARRIED. I go through my wife's purse looking for stuff all the time (like money or our cell phone or whatever). She goes through my things looking for stuff. That's not an invasion of privacy between two trusting individuals.
+1...just because people 'don't have anything to hide' does NOT mean that they shouldn't get mad if someone goes thru their personal belongings. If there is nothing to suspect, then there is no reason to 'check up' on someone. It just shows that one person is disrespectful of another...people need to have their own sense of 'personal space'.
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+1...just because people 'don't have anything to hide' does NOT mean that they shouldn't get mad if someone goes thru their personal belongings. If there is nothing to suspect, then there is no reason to 'check up' on someone. It just shows that one person is disrespectful of another...people need to have their own sense of 'personal space'.
If there is reason to suspect, does it still make it okay to pry and snoop. Or are you forced to wait and hope that they'll fuck up and you catch them?
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all of this being said, every relationship is different. it's not disrespectful in my marriage because we have an understanding that it's not. if something changes in that area, I'll know something's up!
+1...just because people 'don't have anything to hide' does NOT mean that they shouldn't get mad if someone goes thru their personal belongings. If there is nothing to suspect, then there is no reason to 'check up' on someone. It just shows that one person is disrespectful of another...people need to have their own sense of 'personal space'.
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all of this being said, every relationship is different. it's not disrespectful in my marriage because we have an understanding that it's not. if something changes in that area, I'll know something's up!
+1...just because people 'don't have anything to hide' does NOT mean that they shouldn't get mad if someone goes thru their personal belongings. If there is nothing to suspect, then there is no reason to 'check up' on someone. It just shows that one person is disrespectful of another...people need to have their own sense of 'personal space'.
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+1...just because people 'don't have anything to hide' does NOT mean that they shouldn't get mad if someone goes thru their personal belongings. If there is nothing to suspect, then there is no reason to 'check up' on someone. It just shows that one person is disrespectful of another...people need to have their own sense of 'personal space'.
If there is reason to suspect, does it still make it okay to pry and snoop. Or are you forced to wait and hope that they'll fuck up and you catch them?
If you are suspicious, then it's time to sit down and talk...if that gets you nowhere, then it's time to call in 'Cheaters' ....and I am married by the way PD, and my SO does not go thru my stuff...he actually doesn't want to...and if something is in my purse that he needs, he asks me first, even though I've told him he doesn't have to ask. I have no desire to go thru his things either.
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well my wife doesn't go through my things if she doesn't need to. I didn't mean either of us snoop. I just meant if I or she needs something that's in one of "our" spaces, it doesn't matter to us. If it does to you, that's fine. whatever works for your relationship.
....and I am married by the way PD, and my SO does not go thru my stuff...he actually doesn't want to...and if something is in my purse that he needs, he asks me first, even though I've told him he doesn't have to ask. I have no desire to go thru his things either.
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and I am married by the way PD, and my SO does not go thru my stuff...he actually doesn't want to...and if something is in my purse that he needs, he asks me first, even though I've told him he doesn't have to ask. I have no desire to go thru his things either.
as it should be...just because one is in a relationship doesn't mean they've given up their personal privacy
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and I am married by the way PD, and my SO does not go thru my stuff...he actually doesn't want to...and if something is in my purse that he needs, he asks me first, even though I've told him he doesn't have to ask. I have no desire to go thru his things either.
as it should be...just because one is in a relationship doesn't mean they've given up their personal privacy
A relationship is subjective to those in it.
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Maybe this couple are a couple that just don't feel the need to keep things private? If that's the case, he can't be called a snoop, can he? Maybe he was innocently looking for a phone number or an email or something and WHAMMO -- tits and arses are suddenly popping up everywhere?
In most relationships I know, the partners play with each others phones, use each others laptops, go through each other's bags/wallets etc. There doesn't seem to be much privacy at all....definitely not to the degree that the above posters are saying should exist in a normal relationship.
Where's Nothingman54? I'm really interested in how this pans out.
porn is just fantasy..he should already know his wifes likes and dislikes and sexual boundreys.yesterday while browsing a porn site i watched a midget woman have sex with a black dude...does that make me a midget..or a black man???????...i say it just makes me a perv
porn is just fantasy..he should already know his wifes likes and dislikes and sexual boundreys.yesterday while browsing a porn site i watched a midget woman have sex with a black dude...does that make me a midget..or a black man???????...i say it just makes me a perv
Holy Shit, deep resonating insite! Well Done BMan69
porn is just fantasy..he should already know his wifes likes and dislikes and sexual boundreys.yesterday while browsing a porn site i watched a midget woman have sex with a black dude...does that make me a midget..or a black man???????...i say it just makes me a perv
Holy Shit, deep resonating insite! Well Done BMan69
porn is just fantasy..he should already know his wifes likes and dislikes and sexual boundreys.yesterday while browsing a porn site i watched a midget woman have sex with a black dude...does that make me a midget..or a black man???????...i say it just makes me a perv
Holy Shit, deep resonating insite! Well Done BMan69
I think you may have just sparked my mind into tihnking of something else to call you than "dickball".
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9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
I have a friend who called me earlier and was freaking out cause he looked through his wifes cell and found that she has been looking at alot of lesbian porn. He dosent know what to think. I told him to just ask her about it in a calm way and figure out if it's just something sexual or if she is indeed a lesbian. I told him maybe he could get a 3 sum out of it. He didn't think that was funny. What would you think in that situation? I don't know what I would think.?
It could be a self-conscious thing--comparing her body to other women--trying to get a visual of what she wants to look like.
If my husband went through my purse I would have to snap his fingers off cause I don't like anyone touching my shit! :twisted:
and I don't want him finding that lesbian porn on my phone either :think: :oops:
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I have a friend who called me earlier and was freaking out cause he looked through his wifes cell and found that she has been looking at alot of lesbian porn. He dosent know what to think. I told him to just ask her about it in a calm way and figure out if it's just something sexual or if she is indeed a lesbian. I told him maybe he could get a 3 sum out of it. He didn't think that was funny. What would you think in that situation? I don't know what I would think.?
i'd be piss drunk happen if i foundout my girlfriend was looking at lesbian porn and say when do start having mff 3somes
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Adelaide BIG DAY OUT 2014
+1...just because people 'don't have anything to hide' does NOT mean that they shouldn't get mad if someone goes thru their personal belongings. If there is nothing to suspect, then there is no reason to 'check up' on someone. It just shows that one person is disrespectful of another...people need to have their own sense of 'personal space'.
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Just friends? then yes, I would agree with that.
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If there is reason to suspect, does it still make it okay to pry and snoop. Or are you forced to wait and hope that they'll fuck up and you catch them?
6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
Fargo 2003
Winnipeg 2005
Winnipeg 2011
St. Paul 2014
Fargo 2003
Winnipeg 2005
Winnipeg 2011
St. Paul 2014
Adelaide 1998
Adelaide 2003
Adelaide 2006 night 1
Adelaide 2006 night 2
Adelaide 2009
Melbourne 2009
Christchurch NZ 2009
Eddie Vedder, Adelaide 2011
PJ20 USA 2011 night 1
PJ20 USA 2011 night 2
Adelaide BIG DAY OUT 2014
If you are suspicious, then it's time to sit down and talk...if that gets you nowhere, then it's time to call in 'Cheaters'
- Christopher McCandless
Fargo 2003
Winnipeg 2005
Winnipeg 2011
St. Paul 2014
Fargo 2003
Winnipeg 2005
Winnipeg 2011
St. Paul 2014
A relationship is subjective to those in it.
6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
In most relationships I know, the partners play with each others phones, use each others laptops, go through each other's bags/wallets etc. There doesn't seem to be much privacy at all....definitely not to the degree that the above posters are saying should exist in a normal relationship.
Where's Nothingman54? I'm really interested in how this pans out.
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Holy Shit, deep resonating insite! Well Done BMan69
I think you may have just sparked my mind into tihnking of something else to call you than "dickball".
6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
and I don't want him finding that lesbian porn on my phone either :think: :oops:
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
It could be a self-conscious thing--comparing her body to other women--trying to get a visual of what she wants to look like.
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Sammi: Wanna just break up?