Road Rage

Claireack
Claireack Posts: 13,561
edited March 2013 in All Encompassing Trip
Does anyone else get this??

I seem to get it a lot, which is a bit daft as I live in a small town that takes no time at all to drive round. I've had blazing rows with other drivers, made obscene hand signals, sworn etc, often in front of my son (13 now and when he was younger).

Today on the way home from work I completely forgot to go and do something I had to do because I seemed to spend the whole journey shouting at other drivers (safely inside my car where they probably couldn't hear me thankfully).

I would really like to stop getting in such a to-do about other peoples driving (I'm no saint on the road), any suggestions?
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  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    turn the radio up really loud.

    come drive around here for a week, you head would explode.

    what, left turn arrow is red? lets get three more cars thru the intersection.

    i can't wait for vacation to get away from it.
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  • 81 wrote:
    turn the radio up really loud.

    come drive around here for a week, you head would explode.

    what, left turn arrow is red? lets get three more cars thru the intersection.

    i can't wait for vacation to get away from it.

    coming to Massachusetts for a visit?
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  • maj4e
    maj4e Posts: 605
    I just couldn't possibly care less about the other people in the cars around me. I drive relatively slow on the freeway once I found that I wasn't really gaining any more time. I've gained mental relief and better fuel economy. Let the sheep battle it out for that spot 15 ft ahead and just enjoy the drive.
  • redrock
    redrock Posts: 18,341
    **reminds herself not to drive in Cumbria (anywhere in Cumbria - just in case)**
  • nuffingman
    nuffingman Posts: 3,014
    Claire

    You need to chill and be smug in the knowledge that all other drivers are a-holes and you are superior. I do this all the time... then I explode and make gestures.
  • Claireack
    Claireack Posts: 13,561
    81 wrote:
    turn the radio up really loud.

    come drive around here for a week, you head would explode.

    what, left turn arrow is red? lets get three more cars thru the intersection.

    i can't wait for vacation to get away from it.

    I usually have the radio loud and I probably would explode where you are. Once was driving in Portugal and I think I got out and stormed off leaving hubby to sort the car out. Bit silly really as I didn't know where I was and it was before mobiles so he wouldn't have been able to find me. Luckily I didn't stray too far.
    redrock wrote:
    **reminds herself not to drive in Cumbria (anywhere in Cumbria - just in case)**

    :twisted: Step into my lair!! :lol:
    nuffingman wrote:
    Claire

    You need to chill and be smug in the knowledge that all other drivers are a-holes and you are superior. I do this all the time... then I explode and make gestures.

    Definately want to do this but miss out the last bit :D
  • Leave earlier... :D
  • Sidnum
    Sidnum Posts: 674
    I get it a lot as well. I have an hour commute each morning one way. 90% of it is highway. People on the road are such a-holes. Especially the ones cruising under the speed limit in the passing lane. I really want to just push these people off the road. BUT, what I(and you) have to realize, is that we are no more important than they are. Our business is no more pressing than theirs is. We might like to think that it is, but in the whole scheme of things, it isn't.
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    Leave earlier... :D
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  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    maj4e wrote:
    I drive relatively slow on the freeway once I found that I wasn't really gaining any more time.


    depends on how far you going. 5mph more on a 900 mile jaunt can save an hour.
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  • 81 wrote:
    maj4e wrote:
    I drive relatively slow on the freeway once I found that I wasn't really gaining any more time.


    depends on how far you going. 5mph more on a 900 mile jaunt can save an hour.
    hehehehehehe

    a 900 mile jaunt.....

    hehehehehehehehehehehe
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  • I get it from time to time, especially driving in the big shitty. Do my damndest to bite my tongue....but its hard as a rock and there are far too many dumbasses on the road for me to keep my mouth shut.
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  • Johnny Abruzzo
    Johnny Abruzzo Philly Posts: 12,441
    Ugh, this brake-happy old lady pulled out in front of me on a two-lane road this morning. After slamming on her brakes on a little curvy downhill, she's absolutely shocked that I'm right behind her. Now she's panicking with her four-ways on. Fuck it, I passed her in about a half a second. Some of us have to get to work sweetie.
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  • Jeanwah
    Jeanwah Posts: 6,363
    My good friend has issues with road rage, it's really uncomfortable being in the passenger seat with her at the wheel. I'm convinced she should start taking yoga classes or meditation because the act of driving causes her blood level to go up.

    Oh, and I have a reason to be a bit scared of aggressive driving (still recovering from a car accident). Maybe if we all chilled or took a deep breath before starting the car, we wouldn't be so stressed? Or simply paid attention to our own driving and not care about what other drivers are doing? Life shouldn't be about a race anyway. ;)

    Sorry Claire, hope that helps. I live in the slow lane now, and I kinda like it.
  • The Fixer
    The Fixer Posts: 12,837
    Ugh, this brake-happy old lady pulled out in front of me on a two-lane road this morning. After slamming on her brakes on a little curvy downhill, she's absolutely shocked that I'm right behind her. Now she's panicking with her four-ways on. Fuck it, I passed her in about a half a second. Some of us have to get to work sweetie.

    Pennsylvania drivers are horrendous. Being in sales, I'm on the road a lot. Been all over the country. Maryland drivers are the worst and PA is a close 2nd.

    Stay right, pass left...it's not that difficult to comprehend. I don't understand why people in PA have such a difficult time with this concept. If you're going under 80 MPH just stay the fuck out of the left lane. Thank you

    EDIT: it also doesn't help that every road in Pennsylvania has only 2 lanes in each direction. Absolutely brutal
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    nerves of steel
    not a lot bugs me
    dumb shits in traffic are close to the last fuckers on earth that get under my skin well enough to cause me to trip the fuck out

    i invented driving so im good to go. no worries
    moreover
    my invention of sliding sideways in and through corners leaves all others in my dust

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  • PureandEasy
    PureandEasy Posts: 5,818
    Jeanwah wrote:
    Oh, and I have a reason to be a bit scared of aggressive driving (still recovering from a car accident). Maybe if we all chilled or took a deep breath before starting the car, we wouldn't be so stressed? Or simply paid attention to our own driving and not care about what other drivers are doing? Life shouldn't be about a race anyway. ;)

    Yep, have to agree here. Once you're involved in a five car accident on a major highway, you tend to take things a little slower.

    The things that bother me more than anything on the road are people on their GD cellphones and people who don't put their children in safety seats.
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  • Claireack
    Claireack Posts: 13,561
    Jeanwah wrote:
    Oh, and I have a reason to be a bit scared of aggressive driving (still recovering from a car accident). Maybe if we all chilled or took a deep breath before starting the car, we wouldn't be so stressed? Or simply paid attention to our own driving and not care about what other drivers are doing? Life shouldn't be about a race anyway. ;)

    Sorry Claire, hope that helps. I live in the slow lane now, and I kinda like it.

    Agree, desperately trying to find a way to stop, embarrassed myself enough with my outbursts. Fortunately not put anyone else at risk - except myself, at risk of getting punched on the nose in retaliation.
    The things that bother me more than anything on the road are people on their GD cellphones and people who don't put their children in safety seats.

    Yesterday a man pulled out in front of me on a mini roundabout, he was obviously distracted by the 8 inch baguette he was holding.
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    The Fixer wrote:
    Ugh, this brake-happy old lady pulled out in front of me on a two-lane road this morning. After slamming on her brakes on a little curvy downhill, she's absolutely shocked that I'm right behind her. Now she's panicking with her four-ways on. Fuck it, I passed her in about a half a second. Some of us have to get to work sweetie.

    Pennsylvania drivers are horrendous. Being in sales, I'm on the road a lot. Been all over the country. Maryland drivers are the worst and PA is a close 2nd.

    Stay right, pass left...it's not that difficult to comprehend. I don't understand why people in PA have such a difficult time with this concept. If you're going under 80 MPH just stay the fuck out of the left lane. Thank you

    EDIT: it also doesn't help that every road in Pennsylvania has only 2 lanes in each direction. Absolutely brutal


    not sure if PA is the worse or not, but the whole cruising in the left just drives me up the wall. get the fuck over to the right. it absolutly drives me nuts.
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