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  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    Cree Nations wrote:
    small town beck wrote:
    Cree Nations wrote:
    yes, sorry back to the original topic, there is a double standard and its bullshit. I was only taken advantage of once, used and abused, she said bye and that was it, I was ok with that though and knew it going in

    Yes. And then guys say "well she slept with me right away so I can't respect her" uhm hello??? I mean I kind of get it if she is sleeping around all the time but the same goes for a guy. I don't be hesitant to get involved with a guy who slept with a different girl every week. Or maybe I am just jealous :lol:

    Okay enough with the serious stuff, let's back to the celebration ;):lol:
    actually I had far more respect for her after that seriously.......and I find myself from time to time thinking back fondly to the few hours I was able to indulge in her sweet embrace ;)

    Very cool!
  • BinauralJamBinauralJam Posts: 14,158
    I'm just looking for a nice girl, my wife and i can enjoy for a few hours once in a while.
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    dunkman wrote:
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    what do you mean these days? you werent under the delusion that women dont like sex as much as men were you and that if they want it and get the opportunity, theyll take it? :lol:


    women don't like sex as much as men... if they did they'd do it more often... instead of watching reality tv or gossiping about female co-workers on facebook.

    simple fact.

    we cant help it if scotland invented chicks not putting out for guys who think theyre comedians. :P
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  • pjfan31pjfan31 Posts: 7,331
    See, I was joking I feel like a tramp. However, my point was more the double standard.

    I would have asked her out for a drink, but, oh well, her loss. :)

    I will say this however, she is a friend of friends of mine, so I look forward to the next time we're out. Friends with benefits I can do.
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    pjfan31 wrote:
    See, I was joking I feel like a tramp. However, my point was more the double standard.

    I would have asked her out for a drink, but, oh well, her loss. :)

    I will say this however, she is a friend of friends of mine, so I look forward to the next time we're out. Friends with benefits I can do.


    i dont think its her loss... she got what she wanted. she played with you and spat you out like a chewtoy. :P :lol:
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  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    catefrances wrote:
    pjfan31 wrote:
    See, I was joking I feel like a tramp. However, my point was more the double standard.

    I would have asked her out for a drink, but, oh well, her loss. :)

    I will say this however, she is a friend of friends of mine, so I look forward to the next time we're out. Friends with benefits I can do.


    i dont think its her loss... she got what she wanted. she played with you and spat you out like a chewtoy. :P :lol:

    :lol:
  • pjfan31pjfan31 Posts: 7,331
    catefrances wrote:
    pjfan31 wrote:
    See, I was joking I feel like a tramp. However, my point was more the double standard.

    I would have asked her out for a drink, but, oh well, her loss. :)

    I will say this however, she is a friend of friends of mine, so I look forward to the next time we're out. Friends with benefits I can do.


    i dont think its her loss... she got what she wanted. she played with you and spat you out like a chewtoy. :P :lol:


    Ouch... :lol:

    Of course it is her loss.... I'm awesome...

    And for your information, she didn't spit anything out.... (Did I just go too far??)
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  • FifthelementFifthelement Posts: 6,958
    Definitely a double standard, Still!!!!

    Someone else already said it, but I think some women have always been this way; most just don't talk about it because of the reputation thing. And it's not necessarily the men who give them the reputation, but other women :roll: Sometimes it's great just to let the id rule: I want, I take!
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    pjfan31 wrote:
    catefrances wrote:
    pjfan31 wrote:
    See, I was joking I feel like a tramp. However, my point was more the double standard.

    I would have asked her out for a drink, but, oh well, her loss. :)

    I will say this however, she is a friend of friends of mine, so I look forward to the next time we're out. Friends with benefits I can do.


    i dont think its her loss... she got what she wanted. she played with you and spat you out like a chewtoy. :P :lol:


    Ouch... :lol:

    Of course it is her loss.... I'm awesome...

    And for your information, she didn't spit anything out.... (Did I just go too far??)

    well not for me... but others may be offended. 8-)
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  • pjfan31pjfan31 Posts: 7,331
    Well if anyone asks, I will just say I was referring to saliva, chew toys and chewing gum....
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    pjfan31 wrote:
    Well if anyone asks, I will just say I was referring to saliva, chew toys and chewing gum....

    well thats what i thought you did mean. ;)8-)
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  • pjfan31pjfan31 Posts: 7,331
    Phew, that could have been awkward. I was thinking that you thought I meant Chips....

    Spitting Chips....
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    chips and a nice creamy dip.
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  • pjfan31pjfan31 Posts: 7,331
    catefrances wrote:
    chips and a nice creamy dip.


    Nice? Wow, Cate, learning so many new things about you....
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    you didnt know i liked chips and dip???
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  • U R A Crazy BreedU R A Crazy Breed Posts: 8,370
    What's there to figure out? She woke up sober and jetted when she saw your ugly ass. Mystery solved Watson! :lol:
  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    U R A Crazy Breed wrote:
    What's there to figure out? She woke up sober and jetted when she saw your ugly ass. Mystery solved Watson! :lol:

    seriously! isn't this a good thing? :mrgreen:
  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    Fifthelement wrote:
    Definitely a double standard, Still!!!!

    Someone else already said it, but I think some women have always been this way; most just don't talk about it because of the reputation thing. And it's not necessarily the men who give them the reputation, but other women :roll: Sometimes it's great just to let the id rule: I want, I take!

    So true.
  • pjfan31pjfan31 Posts: 7,331
    Kind of yes kind of no. See if that's the way all my saturday nights ended up awesome.

    but, lately, I've been thinkin about finding someone for a bit more than just a fling. Plus, she was very pretty, so would have been happy to try and tap it more regularly. Oh well....
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    pjfan31 wrote:
    Kind of yes kind of no. See if that's the way all my saturday nights ended up awesome.

    but, lately, I've been thinkin about finding someone for a bit more than just a fling. Plus, she was very pretty, so would have been happy to try and tap it more regularly. Oh well....

    youre playing this all wrong. you dont know shes not up for some casual sex in the future. play it cool but let it be known to her that you had fun and wouldnt mind at all if you both got together again.. no strings. you never know.. unless youre a kind reader and ive never met a guy who is... she might be up for it too.
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  • pjfan31pjfan31 Posts: 7,331
    catefrances wrote:
    pjfan31 wrote:
    Kind of yes kind of no. See if that's the way all my saturday nights ended up awesome.

    but, lately, I've been thinkin about finding someone for a bit more than just a fling. Plus, she was very pretty, so would have been happy to try and tap it more regularly. Oh well....

    youre playing this all wrong. you dont know shes not up for some casual sex in the future. play it cool but let it be known to her that you had fun and wouldnt mind at all if you both got together again.. no strings. you never know.. unless youre a kind reader and ive never met a guy who is... she might be up for it too.


    We'll see. I've got her friend sussing it out for me, and I'm sussing one of my friends out for her. SO I scratch her back, I'll scratch hers
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  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    Maybe she left because her tummy didn't feel well...just uhm saying :? :oops:
  • pjfan31pjfan31 Posts: 7,331
    small town beck wrote:
    Maybe she left because her tummy didn't feel well...just uhm saying :? :oops:


    Huh, please spell it out to a brain fried boy?
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  • The JugglerThe Juggler Posts: 48,613
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    i hope u enjoy the night...the rest will be written by historicals.. :mrgreen:

    what?
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  • dustinparduedustinpardue Posts: 1,829
    catefrances wrote:
    what do you mean these days? you werent under the delusion that women dont like sex as much as men were you and that if they want it and get the opportunity, theyll take it? :lol:


    Exactly.I wrote a chapter in my book about this very thing. The chapter in the book is called The 1:18 Rule. Anything goes at 1:18am..........
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  • Cree NationsCree Nations Posts: 2,247
    small town beck wrote:
    Very cool!
    lol ya know I was being a little facetious there eh STB? I mean it did happen but the sweet embrace part was for effect ;)
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  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    Cree Nations wrote:
    small town beck wrote:
    Very cool!
    lol ya know I was being a little facetious there eh STB? I mean it did happen but the sweet embrace part was for effect ;)

    Of course I did but I liked that you went for the effect ;)

    I didn't mean to dash out on you like that :lol:
  • Hugh Freaking DillonHugh Freaking Dillon Posts: 14,010
    the double standard exists for a very good reason. Chicks, EVERY CHICK, good lookin' or not, can ALWAYS get laid, no matter what. Some dude is always willing to take them home. Guys, not so much. They have to work at it. A guy will always take sex because he doesn't know when he's going to get it again. A girl knows she could get it again 20 minutes later. So if a chick is constantly hooking up, she's branded a ho. Guys are just desperate. :lol:

    However, a guy friend of mine used to be one helluva casanova, and I thought he was gross. He once even had a 6-some. He and 5 chicks. Sorry, but I don't dig porno in real life!

    I've had 2 one night stands. One with some chick that looked like Kirk Hammet (moustache and all), and another that was hot and had the softest skin in the world. Guess which one wanted to see me again?

    Yeah, the lead guitarist of Metallica, that's who. Karma is a beyotch.
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    Paul David wrote:
    the double standard exists for a very good reason. Chicks, EVERY CHICK, good lookin' or not, can ALWAYS get laid, no matter what. Some dude is always willing to take them home. Guys, not so much. They have to work at it. A guy will always take sex because he doesn't know when he's going to get it again. A girl knows she could get it again 20 minutes later. So if a chick is constantly hooking up, she's branded a ho. Guys are just desperate. :lol:

    However, a guy friend of mine used to be one helluva casanova, and I thought he was gross. He once even had a 6-some. He and 5 chicks. Sorry, but I don't dig porno in real life!

    I've had 2 one night stands. One with some chick that looked like Kirk Hammet (moustache and all), and another that was hot and had the softest skin in the world. Guess which one wanted to see me again?

    Yeah, the lead guitarist of Metallica, that's who. Karma is a beyotch.


    and youre not a fan of metallica?????
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  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    Paul David wrote:
    the double standard exists for a very good reason. Chicks, EVERY CHICK, good lookin' or not, can ALWAYS get laid, no matter what. Some dude is always willing to take them home. Guys, not so much. They have to work at it. A guy will always take sex because he doesn't know when he's going to get it again. A girl knows she could get it again 20 minutes later. So if a chick is constantly hooking up, she's branded a ho. Guys are just desperate. :lol:

    However, a guy friend of mine used to be one helluva casanova, and I thought he was gross. He once even had a 6-some. He and 5 chicks. Sorry, but I don't dig porno in real life!

    I've had 2 one night stands. One with some chick that looked like Kirk Hammet (moustache and all), and another that was hot and had the softest skin in the world. Guess which one wanted to see me again?

    Yeah, the lead guitarist of Metallica, that's who. Karma is a beyotch.

    A 6-some :o:sick:

    I can get my perv on with the best of them, don't get me wrong but that is just icky.

    You made me laugh at you not digging porn in real life...classic :lol:
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