Creeps at work?

polaris_x

put an end to it now ...

Get_Right

CREEPY indeed. I would tell the manager about it and have the manager deal with the problem.
Carry pepper spray when you are alone. In a place where you can use it. Not the bottom of your purse like my wife.

Dissidentman

Sounds like some Scottish dude who posts often on this site...Can't put my finger on a name...

mysticweed

RESTRAINING ORDER!!!!!
NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

chadwick

edward vedder would not put up with this prick hangin out at his wife's workplace
just sayin...

eyedclaar

I'm sorry, haffajappa. I didn't mean to freak you out, but I'm very shy and don't know how to talk directly to girls.

BinauralJam

eyedclaar wrote:

I'm sorry, haffajappa. I didn't mean to freak you out, but I'm very shy and don't know how to talk directly to girls.

First tip, look'em in the eye and stop staring at there chest.

dcfaithful

mookeywrench wrote:

haffajappa wrote:

The shop i work at i am usually alone at after 4:30p or so... There's this guy that has made a habit of coming in every night to talk to me. I'm 22 he looks like he's maybe, oh i don't know, 35 or 40. I don't think he is completely off his rocker but there seems to be the feeling that he's kind of, one brick short of the load.

Anyways, not only does he continue to talk to me while i'm HELPING customers but he always talks about things that are completely inappropiate. I'm not a prude, but he creeps me out so I don't particularly enjoy him talking to me about handcuffing women to his bed (as he went on about tonight). And even worse once he saw me walking to work with my boyfriend and he doesn't stop going on about him, asking me about him and saying shit like, "oh why are you so tired? oh i know, you've been up cuddling all nignt" or, "oh so your boyfriend doesn't stay the night with you or what?" its always something on the cusp of asking about our sex life or something.

I try to just put up with it and not say much and do my best to ignore him or just at least try and give him the impression that i really don't care...
But at what point do i tell him to fuck off? I'm always thinking it...

The common phrase for this is 'sexual harassment'

Exactly. He's already pushing a boundary too far. Doesn't matter if he's a customer, he's still harassing you, and something can be done.

small town beck

He may just be socially awkward but but he may very well be more dangerous than that. I think you should talk to management for sure and see if they can have him banned. At the very least you should start walking away from him and yes tell him you are busy etc...

Ms. Wes C.addle

I had a regular client come up behind me yesterday, as I was with a different client, put his hand on my back and whisper very silently in my ear, "Just so you know, even though I will be with her, I will be thinking about you the whoooollee time." Not only is he creepy, he is at least 60 years old. He constantly calls me sweety and baby which is just weird, but this was a bit worse.

I really didn't know what to do, so I laughed it off and said, "Yeah, okay crazy man!"

And also, two days ago, I had another regular client who is 13 years old, telling me that he spent the day in in-school suspension for stealing an autistic boys hat and throwing in a tree and also for slapping a girl's ass. I told him that I wished the girls would have kicked him in the balls because that is completely unacceptable. He then told me that she belonged in the kitchen, just like I should be as well.... right where I belonged. I looked him square in the face and told him, "Look around, you over-privelaged little shit... you're surrounded by women. You say shit like that again, I WILL cut you and punch you in the face. I am not going to allow you to speak that way. And I hope that you cock off to the wrong person and hope you get yours." He didn't have anything else to say after that....

Some people's kids... :roll:

Anyways, speak up! You win some, you lose some.
I have yet to figure out what to do about the old fuck, but he doesn't worry me.
Luckily, we have the right to refuse service and but also aren't aloud to remain on site solo. I have had to ask my boss to speak to clients before if what I was saying wasn't working. Be safe though. I wouldn't feel comfortable being alone with someone like that.

small town beck

ms. wes c.addle wrote:

I had a regular client come up behind me yesterday, as I was with a different client, put his hand on my back and whisper very silently in my ear, "Just so you know, even though I will be with her, I will be thinking about you the whoooollee time." Not only is he creepy, he is at least 60 years old. He constantly calls me sweety and baby which is just weird, but this was a bit worse.

I really didn't know what to do, so I laughed it off and said, "Yeah, okay crazy man!"

And also, two days ago, I had another regular client who is 13 years old, telling me that he spent the day in in-school suspension for stealing an autistic boys hat and throwing in a tree and also for slapping a girl's ass. I told him that I wished the girls would have kicked him in the balls because that is completely unacceptable. He then told me that she belonged in the kitchen, just like I should be as well.... right where I belonged. I looked him square in the face and told him, "Look around, you over-privelaged little shit... you're surrounded by women. You say shit like that again, I WILL cut you and punch you in the face. I am not going to allow you to speak that way. And I hope that you cock off to the wrong person and hope you get yours." He didn't have anything else to say after that....

Some people's kids... :roll:

Anyways, speak up! You win some, you lose some.
I have yet to figure out what to do about the old fuck, but he doesn't worry me.
Luckily, we have the right to refuse service and but also aren't aloud to remain on site solo. I have had to ask my boss to speak to clients before if what I was saying wasn't working. Be safe though. I wouldn't feel comfortable being alone with someone like that.

Uhm what kind of work do you do that you can speak to a 13-year-old client that way?? :? or well any client Don't get me wrong what he said was wrong and he sounds like a douche for stealing some autistic kid's hat etc but still....

ugh on the creepy old man.

Ms. Wes C.addle

small town beck wrote:

ms. wes c.addle wrote:

I had a regular client come up behind me yesterday, as I was with a different client, put his hand on my back and whisper very silently in my ear, "Just so you know, even though I will be with her, I will be thinking about you the whoooollee time." Not only is he creepy, he is at least 60 years old. He constantly calls me sweety and baby which is just weird, but this was a bit worse.

I really didn't know what to do, so I laughed it off and said, "Yeah, okay crazy man!"

And also, two days ago, I had another regular client who is 13 years old, telling me that he spent the day in in-school suspension for stealing an autistic boys hat and throwing in a tree and also for slapping a girl's ass. I told him that I wished the girls would have kicked him in the balls because that is completely unacceptable. He then told me that she belonged in the kitchen, just like I should be as well.... right where I belonged. I looked him square in the face and told him, "Look around, you over-privelaged little shit... you're surrounded by women. You say shit like that again, I WILL cut you and punch you in the face. I am not going to allow you to speak that way. And I hope that you cock off to the wrong person and hope you get yours." He didn't have anything else to say after that....

Some people's kids... :roll:

Anyways, speak up! You win some, you lose some.
I have yet to figure out what to do about the old fuck, but he doesn't worry me.
Luckily, we have the right to refuse service and but also aren't aloud to remain on site solo. I have had to ask my boss to speak to clients before if what I was saying wasn't working. Be safe though. I wouldn't feel comfortable being alone with someone like that.

Uhm what kind of work do you do that you can speak to a 13-year-old client that way?? :? or well any client Don't get me wrong what he said was wrong and he sounds like a douche for stealing some autistic kid's hat etc but still....

ugh on the creepy old man.

One, of which I don't have to take people's shit- I don't get paid enough for that. He is constantly bragging about stealing things and selling it to his friends, mis-treating girls, and talking about breaking into people's houses. I am not afraid to talk that way to a little punk kid after him continuously being rude to me and other patrons. Perhaps he will listen to me because he obviously isn't listening to his parents or learning any other lessons form the trouble he finds.

Franny

Dissidentman wrote:

Sounds like some Scottish dude who posts often on this site...Can't put my finger on a name...

fud???

small town beck

ms. wes c.addle wrote:

small town beck wrote:

ms. wes c.addle wrote:

I had a regular client come up behind me yesterday, as I was with a different client, put his hand on my back and whisper very silently in my ear, "Just so you know, even though I will be with her, I will be thinking about you the whoooollee time." Not only is he creepy, he is at least 60 years old. He constantly calls me sweety and baby which is just weird, but this was a bit worse.

I really didn't know what to do, so I laughed it off and said, "Yeah, okay crazy man!"

And also, two days ago, I had another regular client who is 13 years old, telling me that he spent the day in in-school suspension for stealing an autistic boys hat and throwing in a tree and also for slapping a girl's ass. I told him that I wished the girls would have kicked him in the balls because that is completely unacceptable. He then told me that she belonged in the kitchen, just like I should be as well.... right where I belonged. I looked him square in the face and told him, "Look around, you over-privelaged little shit... you're surrounded by women. You say shit like that again, I WILL cut you and punch you in the face. I am not going to allow you to speak that way. And I hope that you cock off to the wrong person and hope you get yours." He didn't have anything else to say after that....

Some people's kids... :roll:

Anyways, speak up! You win some, you lose some.
I have yet to figure out what to do about the old fuck, but he doesn't worry me.
Luckily, we have the right to refuse service and but also aren't aloud to remain on site solo. I have had to ask my boss to speak to clients before if what I was saying wasn't working. Be safe though. I wouldn't feel comfortable being alone with someone like that.

Uhm what kind of work do you do that you can speak to a 13-year-old client that way?? :? or well any client Don't get me wrong what he said was wrong and he sounds like a douche for stealing some autistic kid's hat etc but still....

ugh on the creepy old man.

One, of which I don't have to take people's shit- I don't get paid enough for that. He is constantly bragging about stealing things and selling it to his friends, mis-treating girls, and talking about breaking into people's houses. I am not afraid to talk that way to a little punk kid after him continuously being rude to me and other patrons. Perhaps he will listen to me because he obviously isn't listening to his parents or learning any other lessons form the trouble he finds.

Nor should you. I hate rude people and this kid sounds like a proper little shit, however, I don't know many professions where you can tell a client you will cut them and punch them in the face....well there are some I guess

eyedclaar

small town beck wrote:

Nor should you. I hate rude people and this kid sounds like a proper little shit, however, I don't know many professions where you can tell a client you will cut them and punch them in the face....well there are some I guess

Ahhh, as you guys know, I'll tell my friends that I'm gonna cut them and punch them in the face. Try to imagine what I say to me enemies... :twisted:

small town beck

eyedclaar wrote:

small town beck wrote:

Nor should you. I hate rude people and this kid sounds like a proper little shit, however, I don't know many professions where you can tell a client you will cut them and punch them in the face....well there are some I guess

Ahhh, as you guys know, I'll tell my friends that I'm gonna cut them and punch them in the face. Try to imagine what I say to me enemies... :twisted:

Do you make them listen to Celine Dion?? :shock:

Cree Nations

i always find that if I tell someone I am going to hit them with a glass bottle or stab them in the face.....that they tend to back off a little

eyedclaar

small town beck wrote:

eyedclaar wrote:

small town beck wrote:

Nor should you. I hate rude people and this kid sounds like a proper little shit, however, I don't know many professions where you can tell a client you will cut them and punch them in the face....well there are some I guess

Ahhh, as you guys know, I'll tell my friends that I'm gonna cut them and punch them in the face. Try to imagine what I say to me enemies... :twisted:

Do you make them listen to Celine Dion?? :shock:

Good God, woman! What do you mistake me for, some kind of heartless monster? I'm more a fun-lovin', drug you up, drag your body back to my basement, kind of guy.

small town beck

eyedclaar wrote:

Good God, woman! What do you mistake me for, some kind of heartless monster? I'm more a fun-lovin', drug you up, drag your body back to my basement, kind of guy.

Been there, done that, and got the t-shirt.

chadwick

ms. wes c.addle wrote:

I had a regular client come up behind me yesterday, as I was with a different client, put his hand on my back and whisper very silently in my ear, "Just so you know, even though I will be with her, I will be thinking about you the whoooollee time." Not only is he creepy, he is at least 60 years old. He constantly calls me sweety and baby which is just weird, but this was a bit worse.

I really didn't know what to do, so I laughed it off and said, "Yeah, okay crazy man!"

And also, two days ago, I had another regular client who is 13 years old, telling me that he spent the day in in-school suspension for stealing an autistic boys hat and throwing in a tree and also for slapping a girl's ass. I told him that I wished the girls would have kicked him in the balls because that is completely unacceptable. He then told me that she belonged in the kitchen, just like I should be as well.... right where I belonged. I looked him square in the face and told him, "Look around, you over-privelaged little shit... you're surrounded by women. You say shit like that again, I WILL cut you and punch you in the face. I am not going to allow you to speak that way. And I hope that you cock off to the wrong person and hope you get yours." He didn't have anything else to say after that....

Some people's kids... :roll:

Anyways, speak up! You win some, you lose some.
I have yet to figure out what to do about the old fuck, but he doesn't worry me.
Luckily, we have the right to refuse service and but also aren't aloud to remain on site solo. I have had to ask my boss to speak to clients before if what I was saying wasn't working. Be safe though. I wouldn't feel comfortable being alone with someone like that.

thank you for posting this.
you're all over it.

the old man is a pain in the ass
the kid... little prick
both are bullshit...