Thumb Sucking......

PJPixiePJPixie Posts: 3,026
edited November 2010 in All Encompassing Trip
...........ugh. I have two sons, ages 11 and 15 and they both STILL suck their thumbs!!
I see no end to it. The orthodontist bills are starting and nothing stops these kids. I don't know what to do!!
Any Advice?
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    chop their thumbs off... thatll learn 'em.

    my 2nd eldest sucked her thumb til she was 8. when she stopped it took me a couple of months to notice. :lol:

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  • PJPixiePJPixie Posts: 3,026
    Yeah, my older son only does it at home, when he's tired.
    But it's in his mouth, just there.
    My younger son, he does it all the time. Doesn't matter where he's at. His thumb just ends up in his mouth.
    I've used all the home remedies and he's overcome them all, even that nasty nailpolish stuff they sell at the pharmacy, he got used to the taste.
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  • 8181 Posts: 58,276
    give me his phone number, i'll have a talk with them.

    i'd be like really? you are 15 and you suck your thumb? really?

    and if that doesn't work, tell his dates that he is a thumb sucker.
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  • PJPixiePJPixie Posts: 3,026
    81 wrote:
    give me his phone number, i'll have a talk with them.

    i'd be like really? you are 15 and you suck your thumb? really?

    and if that doesn't work, tell his dates that he is a thumb sucker.


    I'm PMing you his numbah right now!
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  • It could be worse, they could still be nursing.
  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    81 wrote:
    give me his phone number, i'll have a talk with them.

    i'd be like really? you are 15 and you suck your thumb? really?

    and if that doesn't work, tell his dates that he is a thumb sucker.
    i agree with 81...
    it's either 81 or me

    let me talk to your children
    in 3 minutes they will both be men
    hairy chested
    their voices will have deepened
    and no more thumb sucking

    instantaneously they will
    start producing their own incomes
    they will each own a $133.00 car out in your driveway
    and each will have 3 or 7 g/fs by midnight.

    thumb sucking is for dipshits
    the end

    you may print this message if it will help :twisted:
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  • RKCNDYRKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    do their teeth look like:

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    and their thumb look like:

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  • PJPixie wrote:
    ...........ugh. I have two sons, ages 11 and 15 and they both STILL suck their thumbs!!

    Yikes, dude. I sucked my thumb till I was 7 (which is entirely too old) and my mom made an appointment with the guidance counselor and he got me to stop...though I don't quite remember how he did it.
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  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    PJPixie wrote:
    ...........ugh. I have two sons, ages 11 and 15 and they both STILL suck their thumbs!!

    Yikes, dude. I sucked my thumb till I was 7 (which is entirely too old) and my mom made an appointment with the guidance counselor and he got me to stop...though I don't quite remember how he did it.

    he said

    "get some hair on your ass and get your thumb out of your face" - guidance counselor
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • Have you tried rewarding them if they manage to not do it? I think you need to offer an incentive to give it up since general social disapproval doesn't seem to be working!! Or maybe punish them if you catch them doing it?! I think it's time to take a harder line!
  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    Have you tried rewarding them if they manage to not do it? I think you need to offer an incentive to give it up since general social disapproval doesn't seem to be working!! Or maybe punish them if you catch them doing it?! I think it's time to take a harder line!
    yeah like verbally...

    big boys & girls don't suck on their thumbs
    little babies do though
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    chadwick wrote:
    Have you tried rewarding them if they manage to not do it? I think you need to offer an incentive to give it up since general social disapproval doesn't seem to be working!! Or maybe punish them if you catch them doing it?! I think it's time to take a harder line!
    yeah like verbally...

    big boys & girls don't suck on their thumbs
    little babies do though

    i dont think belittling your kids is the way to go.
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  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    chadwick wrote:
    Have you tried rewarding them if they manage to not do it? I think you need to offer an incentive to give it up since general social disapproval doesn't seem to be working!! Or maybe punish them if you catch them doing it?! I think it's time to take a harder line!
    yeah like verbally...

    big boys & girls don't suck on their thumbs
    little babies do though

    i dont think belittling your kids is the way to go.
    in a fun way it is not belittling them is it?
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • chadwick wrote:
    PJPixie wrote:
    ...........ugh. I have two sons, ages 11 and 15 and they both STILL suck their thumbs!!

    Yikes, dude. I sucked my thumb till I was 7 (which is entirely too old) and my mom made an appointment with the guidance counselor and he got me to stop...though I don't quite remember how he did it.

    he said

    "get some hair on your ass and get your thumb out of your face" - guidance counselor

    Leave my hairy ass out of this. I'm self-conscious about it when I'm in sexual situations.
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    chadwick wrote:
    chadwick wrote:
    yeah like verbally...

    big boys & girls don't suck on their thumbs
    little babies do though

    i dont think belittling your kids is the way to go.
    in a fun way it is not belittling them is it?

    in a fun way for who.. you or them???
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  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    Leave my hairy ass out of this. I'm self-conscious about it when I'm in sexual situations.
    i almost typed in nuts instead of ass but i am trying to be wholesome and stuff
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    in a fun way for who.. you or them???
    now stop it...
    you're being ridiculous & looking for confrontation
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • I was never a thumb sucker or nail biter...I'm a germ-a-phobe so I don't put things in my mouth without them being clean



    Try this though....


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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    chadwick wrote:
    in a fun way for who.. you or them???
    now stop it...
    you're being ridiculous & looking for confrontation

    no. im just wondering why youd think a thumbsucking child would be unaware that only babies suck their thumbs. bringing that to their attention doesnt particularly help. it just makes them feel like theyre doing something wrong.
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  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    chadwick wrote:
    in a fun way for who.. you or them???
    now stop it...
    you're being ridiculous & looking for confrontation

    no. im just wondering why youd think a thumbsucking child would be unaware that only babies suck their thumbs. bringing that to their attention doesnt particularly help. it just makes them feel like theyre doing something wrong.
    all i know is the world/this life, is quite often a rough road.
    "only a baby sucks its thumb" is not a big deal for a parent to tell their child.
    it's the damn truth
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • BinauralJamBinauralJam Posts: 14,158
    So here's my naughty thought of the day, little girls that suck there thumbs to long, grow up to be porn stars.

    Yes/No?
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    chadwick wrote:
    all i know is the world/this life, is quite often a rough road.
    "only a baby sucks its thumb" is not a big deal for a parent to tell their child.
    it's the damn truth

    its only acceptable for babies to suck their thumb. it is socially unacceptable for everyone else. at what age does it become unacceptable to suck ones thumb i wonder.
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  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    So here's my naughty thought of the day, little girls that suck there thumbs to long, grow up to be porn stars.

    Yes/No?
    what about when its boys?
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    chadwick wrote:
    all i know is the world/this life, is quite often a rough road.
    "only a baby sucks its thumb" is not a big deal for a parent to tell their child.
    it's the damn truth

    its only acceptable for babies to suck their thumb. it is socially unacceptable for everyone else. at what age does it become unacceptable to suck ones thumb i wonder.
    i was just thinking this
    as i sat down and ate two slices of toast
    with peanut butter (old fashion PB) and honey.

    i was wrong in my earlier statements.
    let the kids suck on their thumbs forever.
    everyone should do as they will to their own body and body parts; suck thumbs, chew fingernails, pick your nose or ass...dig at your crotch if you so wish
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    chadwick wrote:
    chadwick wrote:
    all i know is the world/this life, is quite often a rough road.
    "only a baby sucks its thumb" is not a big deal for a parent to tell their child.
    it's the damn truth

    its only acceptable for babies to suck their thumb. it is socially unacceptable for everyone else. at what age does it become unacceptable to suck ones thumb i wonder.
    i was just thinking this
    as i sat down and ate two slices of toast
    with peanut butter (old fashion PB) and honey.

    i was wrong in my earlier statements.
    let the kids suck on their thumbs forever.
    everyone should do as they will to their own body and body parts; suck thumbs, chew fingernails, pick your nose or ass...dig at your crotch if you so wish

    :roll:

    as far as ive seen babies suck their thumbs for comfort. looking at why older kids continue to suck their thumbs would be of more value than just telling them only babies suck their thumbs. do they continually suck their thumb? do they do it only in the privacy of their own home? do they do it in stressful times? do they do it when theyre bored? looking at why someone does something is often key in getting them to desist.
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  • dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    81 wrote:
    give me his phone number, i'll have a talk with them.

    i'd be like really? you are 15 and you suck your thumb? really?

    and if that doesn't work, tell his dates that he is a thumb sucker.

    Yeah, that would get me to stop. Telling his dates that he's a thumbsucker would be embarrassing enough to get him to stop, I'm sure.
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  • 8181 Posts: 58,276
    chadwick wrote:
    Have you tried rewarding them if they manage to not do it? I think you need to offer an incentive to give it up since general social disapproval doesn't seem to be working!! Or maybe punish them if you catch them doing it?! I think it's time to take a harder line!
    yeah like verbally...

    big boys & girls don't suck on their thumbs
    little babies do though

    i dont think belittling your kids is the way to go.

    nothing wrong with telling a kid to grow the fuck up and stop being a baby. oh wait, these are 11 and 15 years olds that are stilll sucking their thumbs. perhaps they need the coddeling.



    on second thought, just email them a link to this thread
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    81 wrote:
    i dont think belittling your kids is the way to go.

    nothing wrong with telling a kid to grow the fuck up and stop being a baby....

    will you be phrasing it that way??? cause thats awesome communication skills youve got there. :thumbup:
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  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    81 wrote:
    i dont think belittling your kids is the way to go.

    nothing wrong with telling a kid to grow the fuck up and stop being a baby....

    will you be phrasing it that way??? cause thats awesome communication skills youve got there. :thumbup:
    that is exactly how i was talked to 99.79% of the time
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    chadwick wrote:
    81 wrote:
    nothing wrong with telling a kid to grow the fuck up and stop being a baby....

    will you be phrasing it that way??? cause thats awesome communication skills youve got there. :thumbup:
    that is exactly how i was talked to 99.79% of the time

    and your point is??
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