I hate you

pandora

satans kitchen wrote:

pandora wrote:

that was very sweet and uplifting

what can i say...it happens sometimes









tho not very often

mmmm..... its nice

runaway

you women are cool...thanx for the advice
I'll keep my eyes and ears open on this board

supersonicyears

pandora wrote:

oh hate not good for your soul, the one it hurts is you
forgive and live
and love yourself you are very lovable you know

Great advice Pandora. Hope everything goes well, and life gets a lot better for you runaway.

runaway

Beach wrote:

pandora wrote:

oh hate not good for your soul, the one it hurts is you
forgive and live
and love yourself you are very lovable you know

Great advice Pandora. Hope everything goes well, and life gets a lot better for you runaway.

thank you

StillHere

i'm late to this post
and i don't know you runaway
except from this board
but i believe we are all
together here and friends
i hope that the words of at
least one of us will help to soothe your soul
we've all been there
not knowing your particular situation
i can only relate by my own life
but i know what hurt and betrayal lead to
and that is a life of loneliness
you say that you cannot forgive or forget
the forgiveness is for yourself
in forgiving someone else's actions
you also release yourself of any blame that you have taken upon yourself
this i know to be so
forgetting is not what its about
you must remember...you must learn
like pandi says from our mistakes and the mistakes of others
it is how we grow
be good to yourself
love yourself...loving yourself can be harder than loving or hating anyone else in the universe
but in learning to love yourself
you bring self-worth
and know you deserve better than what you've been dealt
and in loving yourself you will create your own destiny
i too am quite a bit older than yourself
and i have been through much pain
betrayal, death, loneliness, loss
at the time i too felt as if there was nothing worse
that could happen in my life
that i was at the bottom
and maybe i was
and maybe the bottom is a good place
to start
looking up from
look up dear runaway
look up and look in
see who you are
not who others see you as
and love who you are

i see you mention that you have a dog
your dog loves you unconditionally
am i not right?
and he/she loves you unconditionally
because he sees that you are a good
and just person worthy of
his love and trust

try to see yourself in the same light
as your beloved companion, your dog
he is right about you, you know

hugs and more hugs
peace, jo