what? my dad immature? how dare you! dead baby jokes and farts are of the highest class!
Oh yeah men like that humor, if you want my menfolk to laugh tell a fart joke or better yet just fart!
This boy seems like a player to me. One who knows what to say and to whom to say it to impress and get what he wants. Sincerity is also a sign of maturity and also having a conscience. You both have a lot to learn but probably not together. Look around. I bet there is a nice young man with his eye on you. He might not be the fella you think you would want, but give it a chance. Love blossoms and people look different once they are in your heart. Respect is the most important thing right now as a young women, always demand respect. The good men will have this for you and all the other women in their life.
1. Most of us will never understand each other, but in the end we realize that's all right because most if us don't understand ourselves
2. You can't change a person
3. This guy is playing you, intentionally or otherwise
4. You deserve better
thanks too all i'll remember what i've learned here and make sure i find someone who's nice and right for me. i just got back from my aunt's wedding and one guy was telling everyone how pretty and "phenomenal" i looked. too bad he's married with kids and is about 35 :roll: and he was dancing around with this chick while his family wasn't there... guys crack me up!
Jaysis I would in my eye give up front row seats to PJ to some fella who didn't buy me beer all night!
Men are silly. They like to believe they are simple creatures, but in reality they're as complicated as we are. That's what makes life interesting, I guess. You'll have your head wrecked with the "does he like me? does he not like me?" thoughts floating around in your brain. It can be very annoying but also fun at the same time!
but i thought he was nice. he was the nicest guy i've known (what does that say about me? ) he was polite and said i was important to him and seemed genuinely upset that he didn't have money. my dad was there to see him talk to me way before i thought i liked him and he told me the way he was acting, genuinely excited to see me and calling me over every time i went into his store, he said boys don't normally act that way and that that meant he liked me. i even asked my cousin who's around the same age as him about him and he said the same thing. and everyone said that newark show was a date even though i didn't think so. everyone was saying that it was obvious to them that he liked me. so i went with it and it backfired. sigh. i think i'm more upset that i finally thought i found someone i liked who genuinely liked me back as a person and as more than a friend but i guess not.
and i'm not going to wait more years to get a boyfriend! i'm freaking going to be 22, i'm supposed* to be engaged in a few years i have to get cracking!
*note: as a sociology major i know it doesn't have to be this way but i don't care!
he's immature...he might grow out of it but you'll suffer waiting for that day which may never come...move on and wait until you find someone that truly wants to be with you
and don't even think about getting married until at least 30...just my perspective but you should enjoy your 20's without being tied down (unless you're into that :P )
i agree. one of the reasons why i didn't like him was because i thought he was immature, but my mom told me "18, 35, 70, it doesn't matter what their age is all men are immature" and she told me to give him a chance because she thought he liked me and i should give him a chance. ohhhhhhh wellllllll.....
and i always told myself i wouldn't be those kinds of people who have kids at 35... no offense who those who have kids at 35
Hey now I'm 35 and childless
Luckily my GF has a few years before she's 35, so I'll go by her age instead of mine.
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SG: 10/4/08<-- MET STONE!!!
This boy seems like a player to me. One who knows what to say and to whom to say it to impress and get what he wants. Sincerity is also a sign of maturity and also having a conscience. You both have a lot to learn but probably not together. Look around. I bet there is a nice young man with his eye on you. He might not be the fella you think you would want, but give it a chance. Love blossoms and people look different once they are in your heart. Respect is the most important thing right now as a young women, always demand respect. The good men will have this for you and all the other women in their life.
2. You can't change a person
3. This guy is playing you, intentionally or otherwise
4. You deserve better
eV: 8/4/08, 8/5/08, 6/21/11
SG: 10/4/08<-- MET STONE!!!
Men are silly. They like to believe they are simple creatures, but in reality they're as complicated as we are. That's what makes life interesting, I guess. You'll have your head wrecked with the "does he like me? does he not like me?" thoughts floating around in your brain. It can be very annoying but also fun at the same time!
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SMELL YER MA!
I just had Nutella for the 1st time last week... And I still don't understand boys.
Metsy you're slippin'!
It took you 14 posts to say it. This never would have happened with the old metsy. It would have been within the 1st 5 posts
Hey now I'm 35 and childless
Luckily my GF has a few years before she's 35, so I'll go by her age instead of mine.