What does your significant other do that......

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  • PureandEasy
    PureandEasy Posts: 5,818
    pandora wrote:
    Ayedavanita wrote:
    1. What does your bf/gf, husband/wife, partner do that makes you feel loved?

    2. What do you do that you think shows your significant other they are loved?

    3.What are the things you overlook in this person or have forgiven in the name of love?

    Doesn't have to be something big, share all the little things too.

    My husband and I have been together for 31 years and what makes us feel loved is that we are both very expressive with our love, verbally and physically. We are tender to each other and say nice things to each other. I guess you would say we are pretty "mushy".
    We listen and are interested and laugh a lot. He rubs my feet, I his back.
    We think ahead as to what would make the other happy. Like we have another old weathered table, he tells me the other day he is planning to make it into another Pearl Jam table for me. He gave me an Eddie one for Mothers Day a few years back, it is one of my favorite possessions. I think that is way thoughtful.
    Of course I cook for him and he thinks I'm a real good cook. I'm so so he is easy to please.
    He drives- I cook, thats the deal. I like that especially on PJ trips- I don't have to cook but he still drives, I did drive to Columbia though.
    One thing a little irksome is he remember things a little different from me or not at all. Like I have this huge pilsner glass- its like 2 feet tall. It says-"Bet You Can't" on it. It was mine from my Mama's house, growing up. He thinks he bought it at a rummage sale. The only way that will get settled is to get one of my sisters down here :) but its not important just a little bothersome. With us getting older now thats gonna get worse for both of us. Ah yes, the test of time and I feel a little dementia coming on.

    that is very sweet, God bless your marriage
    Don't come closer or I'll have to go
  • pandora
    pandora Posts: 21,855
    Thank you PureandEasy for the God Bless, very kind of you :)
  • comebackgirl
    comebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    Been married for a year and together 3.5...still have never heard him fart. I just took it for granted, but now I'm starting to think maybe that's another way he shows he loves me :lol:
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    "I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
  • mysticweed
    mysticweed Posts: 3,710
    Ayedavanita wrote:
    1. What does your bf/gf, husband/wife, partner do that makes you feel loved?

    2. What do you do that you think shows your significant other they are loved?

    3.What are the things you overlook in this person or have forgiven in the name of love?

    Doesn't have to be something big, share all the little things too.

    1- puts up with me
    2- put up with him
    3- a-I finally quit caring that he uses the refrigerator as a night light
    b-I finally quit caring that the toothpaste is the ONLY thing he closes right
    c-I block out his CONSTANT backseat driving and put the passenger seat in full recline when he drives.

    btw #3 is a recipe for a lasting marriage
    fuck 'em if they can't take a joke

    "what a long, strange trip it's been"
  • Claireack
    Claireack Posts: 13,561
    comebackgirl wrote:
    Been married for a year and together 3.5...still have never heard him fart. I just took it for granted, but now I'm starting to think maybe that's another way he shows he loves me :lol:

    Possibly they are silent but deadly ones?
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  • haffajappa
    haffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    1. Cleans my room when i'm working on a big term project :D
    (and various other times when I'm too busy to clean it)

    2. Make him dinner when he gets off the late late shift at work... its still dinner at 1am right?

    3.We're both dramatic.
    live pearl jam is best pearl jam
  • comebackgirl
    comebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    Claireack wrote:

    Possibly they are silent but deadly ones?
    never smelled one either! This must be love! :P
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    "I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    comebackgirl wrote:
    Been married for a year and together 3.5...still have never heard him fart. I just took it for granted, but now I'm starting to think maybe that's another way he shows he loves me :lol:

    That's just weird as you two should be more comfortable with each other at this point...I don't think I let one rip till about the 4th month, and then the floodgates opened....so you guys hold it in around each other all day and night? fuck that, life's too short ;) ..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • comebackgirl
    comebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    I'm kind of hoping we never get that comfortable :P. Actually I don't think I've ever heard my brother fart either. Or my dad. Maybe we're all anally retentive! :lol:
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    "I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
  • Claireack
    Claireack Posts: 13,561
    comebackgirl wrote:
    I'm kind of hoping we never get that comfortable :P. Actually I don't think I've ever heard my brother fart either. Or my dad. Maybe we're all anally retentive! :lol:

    Do corks go missing for no apparent reason in your house?
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  • comebackgirl
    comebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    Claireack wrote:

    Do corks go missing for no apparent reason in your house?
    :lol:
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    "I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
  • Danimal
    Danimal Posts: 2,000
    comebackgirl wrote:
    I'm kind of hoping we never get that comfortable :P. Actually I don't think I've ever heard my brother fart either. Or my dad. Maybe we're all anally retentive! :lol:

    I find it funny that your location is "In Thin Air".
    "I don't believe in PJ fans but I believe there is something, not too sure what." - Thoughts_Arrive


  • Jo
    Jo Posts: 2,098
    After being Childhood sweethearts for 25 years.......

    I knew I should't have opened this Thread. It looks like a can of worms.

    Bugga. :?
  • comebackgirl
    comebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    Danimal wrote:
    comebackgirl wrote:
    I'm kind of hoping we never get that comfortable :P. Actually I don't think I've ever heard my brother fart either. Or my dad. Maybe we're all anally retentive! :lol:

    I find it funny that your location is "In Thin Air".
    haha - The air is clear here :mrgreen:
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    "I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
  • Ayedavanita
    Ayedavanita Posts: 1,443
    You guys are cracking me up!!! :lol:
    "You think I got my eyes closed but I'm lookin' at you the whole fuckin' time..."
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    comebackgirl wrote:
    Been married for a year and together 3.5...still have never heard him fart. I just took it for granted, but now I'm starting to think maybe that's another way he shows he loves me :lol:

    you get him comfortable by way of live AFL, beers and him thinking youre not around and i guarantee the silent but deadly killer will make an appearance. ;)
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  • nuffingman
    nuffingman Posts: 3,014
    1. Her expressions
    2. My expressions... and rock hard boner
    3. She hates most of my music.
  • comebackgirl
    comebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    catefrances wrote:
    comebackgirl wrote:
    Been married for a year and together 3.5...still have never heard him fart. I just took it for granted, but now I'm starting to think maybe that's another way he shows he loves me :lol:

    you get him comfortable by way of live AFL, beers and him thinking youre not around and i guarantee the silent but deadly killer will make an appearance. ;)
    lol Well as long as I'm not around I don't mind :lol:
    He would kill for some live AFL!
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    "I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
  • JordyWordy
    JordyWordy Posts: 2,261
    decides2dream wrote:
    oral
    oral
    farting

    Both in context and out of context, this is my favourite post i have ever read here.

    Funny, Vulgar and Endearing. A True art d2d!!
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    comebackgirl wrote:
    Danimal wrote:
    comebackgirl wrote:
    I'm kind of hoping we never get that comfortable :P. Actually I don't think I've ever heard my brother fart either. Or my dad. Maybe we're all anally retentive! :lol:

    I find it funny that your location is "In Thin Air".
    haha - The air is clear here :mrgreen:
    when did jersey get clean air. i must have missed that. :mrgreen:
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