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28yr old dude kissed my 57yr old mother - Ew!

adropintheparkadropinthepark Posts: 475
edited March 2010 in All Encompassing Trip
My world is feeling all topsy turvy. First my new 57yr old roommate shows me his boob shots of barely legal dates/acquaintances, now my mom is telling me about some kid kissing her.

This thing with my mom is a trip. She says he's a nice looking kid who has a good job. He went to visit her the other night and freakin' kissed her as he was leaving!!! :shock:
And, my mom is talking like she's going to give it a go. Now, I'm really confused about what men look for in women and the world of dating in general. :?

I can kind of understand age differences in couples of up to about 15yrs, but whatever happened to dating your peers???
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  • JoJo Posts: 2,098
    Good luck to your mum. :P

    ...what about a 20 yrld dude kissing a 39 yrld woman? 8-)
  • BinauralJamBinauralJam Posts: 14,158
    this is why i don't post on all encompassing trip.
  • adropintheparkadropinthepark Posts: 475
    Jo wrote:
    Good luck to your mum. :P

    ...what about a 20 yrld dude kissing a 39 yrld woman? 8-)

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oedipus ;)

    Honestly, people get a lot of different things out of relationships, I get that. Whatever works.
    I just hope this guy isn't trying to get permanent residency out of my mother. See, I can't help but think there's more to it than he simply likes her when there's that kind of age difference.
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  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    KO282453 wrote:
    this is why i don't post on all encompassing trip.


    holy fuck...i am laughing out loud right now!
    :lol:


    eh well...i hereya a drop, i do. age differences are a-ok, but there comes a point... :?
    however, go mom!
    :D
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  • madtowndavemadtowndave Minneapolis, MN Posts: 4,013
    No clue on your mom's situation, but my mom was a single parent, and she hasn't been in a relationship since I have been alive (almost 30 years). If she found someone or "something", I'd be pretty damn happy for her.
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  • StarfallStarfall Posts: 548
    Last I checked it was perfectly legal for a 28 year old to kiss a 57 year old. Good on your mom for actually going for it and taking care of her needs.
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    adropinthepark wrote:
    My world is feeling all topsy turvy. First my new 57yr old roommate shows me his boob shots of barely legal dates/acquaintances, now my mom is telling me about some kid kissing her.

    This thing with my mom is a trip. She says he's a nice looking kid who has a good job. He went to visit her the other night and freakin' kissed her as he was leaving!!! :shock:
    And, my mom is talking like she's going to give it a go. Now, I'm really confused about what men look for in women and the world of dating in general. :?

    I can kind of understand age differences in couples of up to about 15yrs, but whatever happened to dating your peers???

    he could end up being your new stepdaddy. :lol::lol:
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  • redrockredrock Posts: 18,341
    Way to go Mom!!!!

    **wonders if a 28yr old will snog me when I'm 57**
  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam Posts: 139,721
    adropinthepark wrote:
    Jo wrote:
    Good luck to your mum. :P

    ...what about a 20 yrld dude kissing a 39 yrld woman? 8-)

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oedipus ;)

    Honestly, people get a lot of different things out of relationships, I get that. Whatever works.
    I just hope this guy isn't trying to get permanent residency out of my mother. See, I can't help but think there's more to it than he simply likes her when there's that kind of age difference.
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  • i_lov_iti_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    redrock wrote:
    Way to go Mom!!!!

    **wonders if a 28yr old will snog me when I'm 57**

    lol... :lol:
  • FrannyFranny Posts: 2,054
    Gawd even people old enough to my parents are getting more than me with people younger than me! :cry::cry:

    Sure you might feel uncomfortable, but if it was my mum/dad....yeah I'd probably feel a tad the same way you do.BUT,,,,if she is happy then just be happy for her and be there to support her. Hell I would be feeling pretty special if I was 57 and scored a 28yo guy....HIGH FIVE MUM!! May she inspire women around the world! LOL :D
  • pjfan31pjfan31 Posts: 7,335
    Geez. if I'm 57 and (not married) and a 28 year lady old kissed me, I'd be so pumped. I probably would cancel my prescription for those little blue pills. Wouldn't need em
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  • FirstExitFirstExit Los Angeles Posts: 973
    You're wrong dude, I'm 18, not 28. People commonly say I look older for my age though.
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    FirstExit wrote:
    You're wrong dude, I'm 18, not 28. People commonly say I look older for my age though.

    bwahahaha you wish. :P :lol::lol:
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  • rival.rival. Chicago Posts: 7,775
    cougar on the prowl!
  • CHANGEinWAVESCHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    wtf... I can't even snag a 28 yr old and I'm 29! :?

    if they like each other who are we to judge? I probably would be weirded out but wouldn't think they shouldn't be together.
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  • DissidentmanDissidentman Posts: 15,378
    This thread is useless without pictures
  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Is your Mom hot ?
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  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    wtf... I can't even snag a 28 yr old and I'm 29! :?

    if they like each other who are we to judge? I probably would be weirded out but wouldn't think they shouldn't be together.

    maybe a 57 y/o man then ?

    :);) :twisted:
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  • 12345AGNST112345AGNST1 Posts: 4,906
    Jo wrote:

    ...what about a 20 yrld dude kissing a 39 yrld woman? 8-)

    That's what I would call JACKPOT!
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    Dissidentman wrote:
    This thread is useless without pictures


    come on youve got an imagination im sure... use it. 8-)
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  • Who PrincessWho Princess out here in the fields Posts: 7,305
    Youngsters . . . . they think sex is only for them. :lolno: ;)

    To the OP, I'm just a coupla years shy of your mom's age and believe me, us oldsters like to get it on too. I've been married (all my life) but I see nothing strange about what might be going on with your mom and the "younger" man. I understand from some of my single friends that there are young guys who like the experience and self-confidence of older women. If your mom is happy with it, be happy for her. :thumbup:
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  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    whoprincess wrote:
    Youngsters . . . . they think sex is only for them. :lolno: ;)

    To the OP, I'm just a coupla years shy of your mom's age and believe me, us oldsters like to get it on too. I've been married (all my life) but I see nothing strange about what might be going on with your mom and the "younger" man. I understand from some of my single friends that there are young guys who like the experience and self-confidence of older women. If your mom is happy with it, be happy for her. :thumbup:



    sure....you're just now thinking, hmmmmm......28 year old!
    :mrgreen:

    haha.
    seriously, we all get it, but yea...it IS a big age difference. i say the same for ANY large age difference, no matter who is older. tho you bet, i agree....go mom! :D
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  • StarfallStarfall Posts: 548
    This thread is rapidly turning into MILF Hunter :lol:

    Although in the interests of full disclosure, I've been in relationships where the age gap was pretty extreme - one in particular happened when I was 43... she was 19. :oops:
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  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    Starfall wrote:
    This thread is rapidly turning into MILF Hunter :lol:

    Although in the interests of full disclosure, I've been in relationships where the age gap was pretty extreme - one in particular happened when I was 43... she was 19. :oops:


    :shock:
    whoa!

    go you!
    :mrgreen:




    seriously, my parents had a 15 year age difference. mom was 19, dad 34 when they married.
    the really freaky part is his daughter from his first marriage was 14 at the time he married my mom. :o
    however, it's funny really.......their difference in ages really made NO difference for them as a couple, at all. mom did leave after 36 years of marriage, but again, nothing to do with age.
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  • A satellite forever orbitingA satellite forever orbiting Posts: 1,888
    Starfall wrote:
    This thread is rapidly turning into MILF Hunter :lol:

    Although in the interests of full disclosure, I've been in relationships where the age gap was pretty extreme - one in particular happened when I was 43... she was 19. :oops:

    i'm not 43 yet (getting there), but i've been seeing someone around that age.
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  • StarfallStarfall Posts: 548
    decides2dream wrote:
    Starfall wrote:
    This thread is rapidly turning into MILF Hunter :lol:

    Although in the interests of full disclosure, I've been in relationships where the age gap was pretty extreme - one in particular happened when I was 43... she was 19. :oops:
    :shock:
    whoa!
    go you!
    :mrgreen:
    seriously, my parents had a 15 year age difference. mom was 19, dad 34 when they married.
    the really freaky part is his daughter from his first marriage was 14 at the time he married my mom. :o
    however, it's funny really.......their difference in ages really made NO difference for them as a couple, at all. mom did leave after 36 years of marriage, but again, nothing to do with age.

    LOL, I don't particularly look at it as any sort of accomplishment, just the way it went down. Pardon the pun. :lol: She was way smarter and more mature than most people in her age group.

    My parents have an 8 year gap between them, so it's never been an issue for me. And my ex wife was 5 years older than me. And nowadays I have my heart set on a gal in her early 30s (I turn 46 in April). *crosses fingers*
    A satellite forever orbiting wrote:
    i'm not 43 yet (getting there), but i've been seeing someone around that age.

    Awesome. :D
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  • facepollutionfacepollution Posts: 6,834
    I'm sorry but there is all kinds of Oedipal shit going on there. My mates' mums are around that age, as is my own mother for that matter, and I'm 28, there is just no way that kind of age gap is normal. I'm sure in the short term these things can work out, but when he's just turning 40 and your mum is pushing 70.........wrong diddly wrong!
  • g under pg under p Surfing The far side of THE Sombrero Galaxy Posts: 18,201
    adropinthepark wrote:
    My world is feeling all topsy turvy. First my new 57yr old roommate shows me his boob shots of barely legal dates/acquaintances, now my mom is telling me about some kid kissing her.

    This thing with my mom is a trip. She says he's a nice looking kid who has a good job. He went to visit her the other night and freakin' kissed her as he was leaving!!! :shock:
    And, my mom is talking like she's going to give it a go. Now, I'm really confused about what men look for in women and the world of dating in general. :?

    I can kind of understand age differences in couples of up to about 15yrs, but whatever happened to dating your peers???

    Way to go for your Mom, maybe she's just looking for a good time with a young stud. My question if this was your Dad with a 28 year old beauty would you have a problem with that?

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  • __ Posts: 6,651
    A 15 year age difference is something I can understand. I have a much harder time understanding a 30 year age difference. My rule is to not date anyone who's too young to get into a bar or older than my parents.
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