How many of you women

pjfan31

comebackgirl wrote:

pjfan31 wrote:

comebackgirl wrote:

I did - and it was someone from the old board :shock: Not sure if he's still around. It was after I first joined...he had posted about some anxiety and depression and I replied to his post...he sent a few PMs and then asked if we could chat online...seemed harmless. The first time was fine - all relevent to the topic...the second time he tells me he is so depressed he can't masturbate :? errr ok...then the next thing I know he starts jerking off :shock: Deleted that account so damn fast. I should have reported him, but it wasn't really much to look at anyway Freak

Oh, so you got them then????

(jokes)

:shock: :shock: It was you!!! :evil:




It was a little small :P

No no not, me. Question is, so random sickos send these pictures,we've established this. But why would you send a picture if your 'sausage' was the size of a little 'chipolata?' No wonder the guy was depressed.

comebackgirl

pjfan31 wrote:

No no not, me. Question is, so random sickos send these pictures,we''vesbllished this. But why would you send a picture if your 'sausage' was a little 'chipolata?' No wonder the guy was depressed.

That's the only time it's happened to me. He was definitely a socially awkward guy...probably his only chance to have any kind of sexual contact with a real woman :P I'm not sure why other guys do it. Like I've said before...penises are functional, but they're sure as hell not cute to look at. Definitely not what you want to lead with. Maybe some guys like the reaction? Like an exhibitionist kind of thing.

the wolf

scb wrote:

So I was talking with my friend about this last night and she directed me to check out Craigslist singles ads. Did you know that people actually post pictures of their penises right in the ads???? Why?? Seriously!! Why? Seems somewhat similar to the guys we're talking about, except they're desparate/kinky enough to actually place ads. I just really don't get it.

I used to work at a crisis hotline / listening center and people would call up to talk about their problems. On SEVERAL occassions we had men call up to masturbate while talking to us. What's wrong with these people? You never hear of women doing this. Also, what about that guy I read about in a news story a few weeks ago who called 911 to masturbate while talking to the 911 operator, and actually tried to get her to come to his house to sleep with him?? Why?? :?

(Sorry - I think this post may belong in the other thread.)

just so you know, there are plenty of woman out there that post naked pics on craigslist too.

and really, everyone here are really fooling thier self if they don't believe that women do this sort of thing too. I have been sent nude pics of women more than once.

some people just get off on this sort of thing, and it's really unfair to pretend its just the men that are doing this.

norm

the wolf wrote:

scb wrote:

So I was talking with my friend about this last night and she directed me to check out Craigslist singles ads. Did you know that people actually post pictures of their penises right in the ads???? Why?? Seriously!! Why? Seems somewhat similar to the guys we're talking about, except they're desparate/kinky enough to actually place ads. I just really don't get it.

I used to work at a crisis hotline / listening center and people would call up to talk about their problems. On SEVERAL occassions we had men call up to masturbate while talking to us. What's wrong with these people? You never hear of women doing this. Also, what about that guy I read about in a news story a few weeks ago who called 911 to masturbate while talking to the 911 operator, and actually tried to get her to come to his house to sleep with him?? Why?? :?

(Sorry - I think this post may belong in the other thread.)

just so you know, there are plenty of woman out there that post naked pics on craigslist too.

and really, everyone here are really fooling thier self they if they don't believe that women do this sort of thing too. I have been sent nude pics of women more than once.

some people just get off on this sort of thing, and it really unfair to pretend its just the men that are doing this.

thing is, as guys, we welcome chicks sending us naked pics...girls, as we've seen, not fans of the process

the wolf

norm wrote:

the wolf wrote:

scb wrote:

So I was talking with my friend about this last night and she directed me to check out Craigslist singles ads. Did you know that people actually post pictures of their penises right in the ads???? Why?? Seriously!! Why? Seems somewhat similar to the guys we're talking about, except they're desparate/kinky enough to actually place ads. I just really don't get it.

I used to work at a crisis hotline / listening center and people would call up to talk about their problems. On SEVERAL occassions we had men call up to masturbate while talking to us. What's wrong with these people? You never hear of women doing this. Also, what about that guy I read about in a news story a few weeks ago who called 911 to masturbate while talking to the 911 operator, and actually tried to get her to come to his house to sleep with him?? Why?? :?

(Sorry - I think this post may belong in the other thread.)

just so you know, there are plenty of woman out there that post naked pics on craigslist too.

and really, everyone here are really fooling thier self they if they don't believe that women do this sort of thing too. I have been sent nude pics of women more than once.

some people just get off on this sort of thing, and it really unfair to pretend its just the men that are doing this.

thing is, as guys, we welcome chicks sending us naked pics...girls, as we've seen, not fans of the process

of course we do

stardust1976

the wolf wrote:

scb wrote:

So I was talking with my friend about this last night and she directed me to check out Craigslist singles ads. Did you know that people actually post pictures of their penises right in the ads???? Why?? Seriously!! Why? Seems somewhat similar to the guys we're talking about, except they're desparate/kinky enough to actually place ads. I just really don't get it.

I used to work at a crisis hotline / listening center and people would call up to talk about their problems. On SEVERAL occassions we had men call up to masturbate while talking to us. What's wrong with these people? You never hear of women doing this. Also, what about that guy I read about in a news story a few weeks ago who called 911 to masturbate while talking to the 911 operator, and actually tried to get her to come to his house to sleep with him?? Why?? :?

(Sorry - I think this post may belong in the other thread.)

just so you know, there are plenty of woman out there that post naked pics on craigslist too.

and really, everyone here are really fooling thier self if they don't believe that women do this sort of thing too. I have been sent nude pics of women more than once.

some people just get off on this sort of thing, and it's really unfair to pretend its just the men that are doing this.

Personally, I don't think the issue is whether men OR women do it...(as I'm sure BOTH do)..the real issue, is WHY anyone, (male or female) would send UNSOLICITED pictures? I mean...someone said earlier about webcam chats and the only reason they could think of would be for a sexual type thing.....but if it's consentual then the issue is null and void, the issue is when people feel the need to do it totally off their own back...without first having permission. Just my take on it...Like I already said, seems kinda bizarre to do it unsolicited, and perhaps the people that do that DO need some kind of help? Cause that doesn't strike me as socially normal behaviour..

comebackgirl

stardust1976 wrote:

the wolf wrote:

scb wrote:

So I was talking with my friend about this last night and she directed me to check out Craigslist singles ads. Did you know that people actually post pictures of their penises right in the ads???? Why?? Seriously!! Why? Seems somewhat similar to the guys we're talking about, except they're desparate/kinky enough to actually place ads. I just really don't get it.

I used to work at a crisis hotline / listening center and people would call up to talk about their problems. On SEVERAL occassions we had men call up to masturbate while talking to us. What's wrong with these people? You never hear of women doing this. Also, what about that guy I read about in a news story a few weeks ago who called 911 to masturbate while talking to the 911 operator, and actually tried to get her to come to his house to sleep with him?? Why?? :?

(Sorry - I think this post may belong in the other thread.)

just so you know, there are plenty of woman out there that post naked pics on craigslist too.

and really, everyone here are really fooling thier self if they don't believe that women do this sort of thing too. I have been sent nude pics of women more than once.

some people just get off on this sort of thing, and it's really unfair to pretend its just the men that are doing this.

Personally, I don't think the issue is whether men OR women do it...(as I'm sure BOTH do)..the real issue, is WHY anyone, (male or female) would send UNSOLICITED pictures? I mean...someone said earlier about webcam chats and the only reason they could think of would be for a sexual type thing.....but if it's consentual then the issue is null and void, the issue is when people feel the need to do it totally off their own back...without first having permission. Just my take on it...Like I already said, seems kinda bizarre to do it unsolicited, and perhaps the people that do that DO need some kind of help? Cause that doesn't strike me as socially normal behaviour..

I agree - huge difference between solicited and unsolicited pictures, etc. In my situation the conversation was not sexual in nature at all. It was all about antidepressant meds and coping techniques, etc until he made the comment about not being able to masturbate. I have to think it's gotta be a control issue - more about wanting a reaction or to manipulate someone than a consensual thing. I'm sure there are online forums where people can connect if they want that sort of thing - why spring it on someone that way unless you get off on the reaction?

the wolf

stardust1976 wrote:

Personally, I don't think the issue is whether men OR women do it...(as I'm sure BOTH do)..the real issue, is WHY anyone, (male or female) would send UNSOLICITED pictures? I mean...someone said earlier about webcam chats and the only reason they could think of would be for a sexual type thing.....but if it's consentual then the issue is null and void, the issue is when people feel the need to do it totally off their own back...without first having permission. Just my take on it...Like I already said, seems kinda bizarre to do it unsolicited, and perhaps the people that do that DO need some kind of help? Cause that doesn't strike me as socially normal behaviour..

It's not much different then people that used to go naked under coats and flash other people. why do girls show their boobs to people to get beads at mardi gras ? I'm not saying it's right in any way. but i would guess for some that its just the thrill of sending it that gets them off. Some people, couples , like to have sex outside in semi public places. the thrill of maybe getting caught turns them on. I actually went out with a girl a few times that had trouble getting off without the chance of getting caught. she wanted me to do her in the laundry room of her apartment building. I noticed she would always make sure the lights were on in the bedroom and the window shades were open so if someone in the building across the way looked over they would be able to see everything. some people just get off on being seen.
I agree, I would also not call this socially normal behaviour.

blondieblue227

yea

me and my guy were on a break.
i was chatting with guys on myspace.

i never understood why.
i'm not goona swoon over a pic of a penis.
i don't even know you. is this what you think gets women interested? :roll:

stardust1976

comebackgirl wrote:

stardust1976 wrote:

Personally, I don't think the issue is whether men OR women do it...(as I'm sure BOTH do)..the real issue, is WHY anyone, (male or female) would send UNSOLICITED pictures? I mean...someone said earlier about webcam chats and the only reason they could think of would be for a sexual type thing.....but if it's consentual then the issue is null and void, the issue is when people feel the need to do it totally off their own back...without first having permission. Just my take on it...Like I already said, seems kinda bizarre to do it unsolicited, and perhaps the people that do that DO need some kind of help? Cause that doesn't strike me as socially normal behaviour..

I agree - huge difference between solicited and unsolicited pictures, etc. In my situation the conversation was not sexual in nature at all. It was all about antidepressant meds and coping techniques, etc until he made the comment about not being able to masturbate. I have to think it's gotta be a control issue - more about wanting a reaction or to manipulate someone than a consensual thing. I'm sure there are online forums where people can connect if they want that sort of thing - why spring it on someone that way unless you get off on the reaction?

I totally get where you are coming from - it would freak me out as well....Personally I'm baffled....i suppose it could be a control thing, or it could be that you are just inadvertently talking to a freak, and you did the right thing by just closing it down instantly...

comebackgirl

blondieblue227 wrote:

yea

me and my guy were on a break.
i was chatting with guys on myspace.

i never understood why.
i'm not goona swoon over a pic of a penis.
i don't even know you. is this what you think gets women interested? :roll:

haha - so sad isn't it? If that's what they think there must be a whole lot of lonely guys.

pjfan31

comebackgirl wrote:

pjfan31 wrote:

No no not, me. Question is, so random sickos send these pictures,we''vesbllished this. But why would you send a picture if your 'sausage' was a little 'chipolata?' No wonder the guy was depressed.

That's the only time it's happened to me. He was definitely a socially awkward guy...probably his only chance to have any kind of sexual contact with a real woman :P I'm not sure why other guys do it. Like I've said before...penises are functional, but they're sure as hell not cute to look at. Definitely not what you want to lead with. Maybe some guys like the reaction? Like an exhibitionist kind of thing.

Definitely not mine. Mine is cute, and functional. Here I'll send you a picture

comebackgirl

pjfan31 wrote:

comebackgirl wrote:

pjfan31 wrote:

No no not, me. Question is, so random sickos send these pictures,we''vesbllished this. But why would you send a picture if your 'sausage' was a little 'chipolata?' No wonder the guy was depressed.

That's the only time it's happened to me. He was definitely a socially awkward guy...probably his only chance to have any kind of sexual contact with a real woman :P I'm not sure why other guys do it. Like I've said before...penises are functional, but they're sure as hell not cute to look at. Definitely not what you want to lead with. Maybe some guys like the reaction? Like an exhibitionist kind of thing.

Definitely not mine. Mine is cute, and functional. Here I'll send you a picture

:shock:

I'll pass :P

the wolf

a friend of mine is a manager at a fast food place. he said at least once a month they have to call the cops because someone comes through the drive through with their junk out of their pants. :?

some people are just weird ! plain and simple.

stardust1976

the wolf wrote:

stardust1976 wrote:

Personally, I don't think the issue is whether men OR women do it...(as I'm sure BOTH do)..the real issue, is WHY anyone, (male or female) would send UNSOLICITED pictures? I mean...someone said earlier about webcam chats and the only reason they could think of would be for a sexual type thing.....but if it's consentual then the issue is null and void, the issue is when people feel the need to do it totally off their own back...without first having permission. Just my take on it...Like I already said, seems kinda bizarre to do it unsolicited, and perhaps the people that do that DO need some kind of help? Cause that doesn't strike me as socially normal behaviour..

It's not much different then people that used to go naked under coats and flash other people. why do girls show their boobs to people to get beads at mardi gras ? I'm not saying it's right in any way. but i would guess for some that its just the thrill of sending it that gets them off. Some people, couples , like to have sex outside in semi public places. the thrill of maybe getting caught turns them on. I actually went out with a girl a few times that had trouble getting off without the chance of getting caught. she wanted me to do her in the laundry room of her apartment building. I noticed she would always make sure the lights were on in the bedroom and the window shades were open so if someone in the building across the way looked over they would be able to see everything. some people just get off on being seen.
I agree, I would also not call this socially normal behaviour.

I don't know if you can classify anything done between anyone, whether they be a couple or not, in the same category as what's being discused here though. I mean, what we are talking about here, is the people that consider sending pictures of their various naked body parts to others, totally unrequested and uncalled for. Yes it's the same as chicks (or guys) walking around naked under a coat, and flashing people...that's strange as well....strange also is the desire for women to flash themselves after copious (or not so copious) amounts of alcohol,....personally that's not something I have ever understood. But to classify couples wanting ohave sex in a semi public place in the same category is not something I would agree with. Couples that do that are most likely looking to up the excitement level, the fear of getting caught etc, adds to the adrenalin....but its CONSENTUAL...that's the difference I think.

_

comebackgirl wrote:

penises are functional, but they're sure as hell not cute to look at. Definitely not what you want to lead with.

It's comments like these that make me wish I knew how to do those fancy clapping smilies. I might have to use this as my signature!

blondieblue227

comebackgirl wrote:

haha - so sad isn't it? If that's what they think there must be a whole lot of lonely guys.

yeah. they need to catch on. it doesn't work.

guys like looking at naked boobs. some think it goes both ways. it doesn't.

boobs are pretty, penises are not.

comebackgirl

stardust1976 wrote:

comebackgirl wrote:

stardust1976 wrote:

Personally, I don't think the issue is whether men OR women do it...(as I'm sure BOTH do)..the real issue, is WHY anyone, (male or female) would send UNSOLICITED pictures? I mean...someone said earlier about webcam chats and the only reason they could think of would be for a sexual type thing.....but if it's consentual then the issue is null and void, the issue is when people feel the need to do it totally off their own back...without first having permission. Just my take on it...Like I already said, seems kinda bizarre to do it unsolicited, and perhaps the people that do that DO need some kind of help? Cause that doesn't strike me as socially normal behaviour..

I agree - huge difference between solicited and unsolicited pictures, etc. In my situation the conversation was not sexual in nature at all. It was all about antidepressant meds and coping techniques, etc until he made the comment about not being able to masturbate. I have to think it's gotta be a control issue - more about wanting a reaction or to manipulate someone than a consensual thing. I'm sure there are online forums where people can connect if they want that sort of thing - why spring it on someone that way unless you get off on the reaction?

I totally get where you are coming from - it would freak me out as well....Personally I'm baffled....i suppose it could be a control thing, or it could be that you are just inadvertently talking to a freak, and you did the right thing by just closing it down instantly...

I'm sure it's not the first or last time he's done it. I just felt so stupid - fell for the whole thing, talking to the guy about his problems only to find out he had an agenda. I laugh about it now - crazy introduction to the online world! But at the time it just really disturbed me.

Ledbetterman10

pjfan31 wrote:

comebackgirl wrote:

I did - and it was someone from the old board :shock: Not sure if he's still around. It was after I first joined...he had posted about some anxiety and depression and I replied to his post...he sent a few PMs and then asked if we could chat online...seemed harmless. The first time was fine - all relevent to the topic...the second time he tells me he is so depressed he can't masturbate :? errr ok...then the next thing I know he starts jerking off :shock: Deleted that account so damn fast. I should have reported him, but it wasn't really much to look at anyway Freak

Oh, so you got them then????

(jokes)

_

the wolf wrote:

just so you know, there are plenty of woman out there that post naked pics on craigslist too.

and really, everyone here are really fooling thier self if they don't believe that women do this sort of thing too. I have been sent nude pics of women more than once.

some people just get off on this sort of thing, and it's really unfair to pretend its just the men that are doing this.

Fair enough. I can acknowledge that women send "sexy" pictures of themselves to men and even post them online. (I put sexy in quotes because, chances are, men find these pictures of women sexy, though women don't usually find random penises sexy.)

But my comment about women not doing this was more about women not calling up randm hotlines to masturbate over the phone. This happened frequently enough at the hotline where I worked that it was part of our training. Never once did I ever hear of a woman doing this. Nor have a heard of women masturbating to 911 operators, exposing themselves at school playgrounds, etc. But perhaps this kind of behaviour isn't really comparable to the unsolicited pictures from people you know or to Craigslist ads. An argument could be made either way, I guess.