Yeah, sometimes I wonder if it's even possible to find/have an intelligent conversation with a single, straight man anymore.
but my mind would also be on how beautiful you are and would you be a perfect match for me. Guys can't be just friends, sorry.
What if you don't know how beautiful I am?
First, I would never text a picture of my penis to a woman who was not my partner. Second, I am able to talk and be friends but I'm single right now so my thought process automatically goes to weather this girl could be the one. Not knowing what a girl looks like wouldn't matter because I would know if we hit it off eventually we would meet. But the difference in me and most guys is they would act like they "only" want to be friends. I would make it clear I was looking for someone to share my life with. The question you asked was "was it possible to have an intelligent conversation with a straight guy". The answer is yes, I can have an intelligent classy conversation with a girl I was dating or hopefully gonna date.
-I'm saying to much personal stuff I think. :oops:
but my mind would also be on how beautiful you are and would you be a perfect match for me. Guys can't be just friends, sorry.
What if you don't know how beautiful I am?
First, I would never text a picture of my penis to a woman who was not my partner. Second, I am able to talk and be friends but I'm single right now so my thought process automatically goes to weather this girl could be the one. Not knowing what a girl looks like wouldn't matter because I would know if we hit it off eventually we would meet. But the difference in me and most guys is they would act like they "only" want to be friends. I would make it clear I was looking for someone to share my life with. The question you asked was "was it possible to have an intelligent conversation with a straight guy". The answer is yes, I can have an intelligent classy conversation with a girl I was dating or hopefully gonna date.
-I'm saying to much personal stuff I think. :oops:
awww
mushy
makes much more sense to live in the present tense
Well . . . I know sexting is supposedly becoming more popular. I just read something about it a couple of days ago and the number of people who take part in it but still . . . . After reading this thread all I can say is HOLY SHIT!!! :shock: :wtf: :crazy:
Well . . . I know sexting is supposedly becoming more popular. I just read something about it a couple of days ago and the number of people who take part in it but still . . . . After reading this thread all I can say is HOLY SHIT!!! :shock: :wtf: :crazy:
See, I always thought of "sexting" as something two people did together, but I guess people can sext without their consent!
(and I use that word loosely) ever feel the need/desire to send women unsolicited pictures of their penises, abs, or any other part of their bodies?
They do :?:
They do. Grown men. In their 20s, 30s, 40s. Teachers, engineers, mechanics, law students. Men you've known for years. Men you you just started casually dating. Men you've never even met in person. Men you've met in bars, on airplanes, at work. Men your friends set you up with because they're such nice guys.
I wonder, do they expect you to completely lose all control and have sex with them immediately? Do they hope for a reciprocal photo of one of your body parts? Are they just under the assumption that they have something impressive and want to show it off? (If so, do they think you've never seen a better one?) And do they expect you to refrain from showing all your friends and co-workers? (Now, personally, I'm not the type to kiss & tell. But does it really count as kissing & telling if it wasn't a mutual event?)
I have never done that, nor will I ever. I don't want a woman sending me a pic of her goods as well, I'd rather see it in person!
Honestly I don't know why guys do that, but then again, I don't know why women date D-bags and wonder why it turns out bad. There is nothing sexy about the nice guy I guess.
I have never done that, nor will I ever. I don't want a woman sending me a pic of her goods as well, I'd rather see it in person!
Honestly I don't know why guys do that, but then again, I don't know why women date D-bags and wonder why it turns out bad. There is nothing sexy about the nice guy I guess.
Because females "" D O N ' T "" like ***NICE GUYS*** that's why!!!!!
I have never done that, nor will I ever. I don't want a woman sending me a pic of her goods as well, I'd rather see it in person!
Honestly I don't know why guys do that, but then again, I don't know why women date D-bags and wonder why it turns out bad. There is nothing sexy about the nice guy I guess.
Because females "" D O N ' T "" like ***NICE GUYS*** that's why!!!!!
BULLSHIT.
It drives me crazy to hear men say this although I can see from your perspective why you might think it.
Women may go with "bad boys" initially for thrills or out of rebellion but sometimes it's just because they're naive or inexperienced and think that's the way things are supposed to be.
If they continue to date guys who mistreat them, it's because they think they don't deserve any better. Once you get into that frame of mind it's hard to pull of it, but I know women who have and believe me, they will NEVER go there again.
The only way most people learn about dating is by--dating. If you have some bad experiences early on, you may just think that's what relationships are like.
It takes people a while to learn how to stand up for themselves and some people never learn.
But as for OffHeGoes29's comment, I'm married to the nicest guy in the world and for me, there is nobody sexier.
I have never done that, nor will I ever. I don't want a woman sending me a pic of her goods as well, I'd rather see it in person!
Honestly I don't know why guys do that, but then again, I don't know why women date D-bags and wonder why it turns out bad. There is nothing sexy about the nice guy I guess.
Because females "" D O N ' T "" like ***NICE GUYS*** that's why!!!!!
yeah
im ready to pull the bullshit card on that too
teenage girls dont like nice guyss
most females over 23 do :P
makes much more sense to live in the present tense
I LOVE nice guys! But if I don't feel like I'm ready to fall in love or settle down at this point in my life, I might be less likely to casually date a really nice guy for fear of hurting him when we inevitably break up or when he finds out I don't want to be exclusive/serious right then. How I feel about what I want or don't want at that point in my life has nothing to do with him, but it might ruin our friendship or be hurtful to him to start something I know I'm not going to follow-through with. I just don't want to lead nice guys on or hurt someone I really care about. Nice guys can tend to be more sensitive and vulnerable than other guys, which is one thing I like about them, but which also makes me more likely to "handle with care". (On the other hand, you can take a guy who's just out for a good time - whatever that means to you - have a good time with him, and then ditch him without feeling bad.)
there are people who get off on exposing their privates to other people
thats the reason
Jim Morrison and Paul Reubens for honorable mentions.
My best guess is that some guys are just dumb enough to think that a cock shot is going to be impressive? It's almost the same as the stories my girlfriend has told me about in her myspace days (prior to our relationship) where random douche bags would just send her messages asking to umm..."ejaculate on her face". :shock:
I couldn't really make an analogy out of that, so...yeah.
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just as inappropriate is someone sending msgs about how they beat of or how theyre randy
or how they always try screw people
when you just trying to have an intelligent convo :P
Yeah, sometimes I wonder if it's even possible to find/have an intelligent conversation with a single, straight man anymore.
It is, but too many men have difficulties determining the right time to use the right head...catch my drift?
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Any male that takes a picture of his junk is a little off to start with. If he then sends it to anyone other than his doctor, you may want to think about changing your phone # and email.
Just my 2 cents
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I have never done that, nor will I ever. I don't want a woman sending me a pic of her goods as well, I'd rather see it in person!
Honestly I don't know why guys do that, but then again, I don't know why women date D-bags and wonder why it turns out bad. There is nothing sexy about the nice guy I guess.
Because females "" D O N ' T "" like ***NICE GUYS*** that's why!!!!!
yeah
im ready to pull the bullshit card on that too
teenage girls dont like nice guyss
most females over 23 do :P
I know plenty of women over the age of 23 who date D-bags.....and it usually takes them a few divorces to see that. I say you are the rare ones who see through the superficial BS of those kinds of dudes.
Yeah, sometimes I wonder if it's even possible to find/have an intelligent conversation with a single, straight man anymore.
It is, but too many men have difficulties determining the right time to use the right head...catch my drift?
Haha!! Yes, I've noticed that. There are times when you just know he's got an intelligent conversation in there somewhere and can't figure out why he won't pull THAT out!
There should be a training they could take or something.
Any male that takes a picture of his junk is a little off to start with. If he then sends it to anyone other than his doctor, you may want to think about changing your phone # and email.
Just my 2 cents
Haha! I'd almost be MORE worried if he felt the need to send it to his doctor! :shock:
I got one too. I signed up for okcupid and the first "normal" guy that contacted me on there ended up sending me a totally unsolicited penis picture like 4 days later. Out of nowhere, lol. Evidently he was not as normal as our initial conversations led me to believe. I laugh about it now, but at the time it was pretty creepy.
Is this some kind of epidemic?
Haha... maybe we should start sending them penis pictures and see how they like it!
HAHAHA!! Yes! Do it!
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Any male that takes a picture of his junk is a little off to start with. If he then sends it to anyone other than his doctor, you may want to think about changing your phone # and email.
Just my 2 cents
Haha! I'd almost be MORE worried if he felt the need to send it to his doctor! :shock:
That would be an odd physical the following year:
Doctor: "Alright, now if you'd just slide your shorts down for me and coug.....hey, that wart wasn't in the picture you sent me?"
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i likes me men hairy
beer bellied
and smart (yet simple)
seems to manage to avoi the douches
I've got everything but the beer belly, no matter how much beer I consume. I'll contact you in about 10 years when my metabolism comes to a screeching halt.
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I don't wanna get this thread back to where the other one was. Ummm I never said all men text penis pics, don't put words in my mouth.
What if you don't know how beautiful I am?
i was referring to the "guys cant be just friends"
not the doodle pictures
First, I would never text a picture of my penis to a woman who was not my partner. Second, I am able to talk and be friends but I'm single right now so my thought process automatically goes to weather this girl could be the one. Not knowing what a girl looks like wouldn't matter because I would know if we hit it off eventually we would meet. But the difference in me and most guys is they would act like they "only" want to be friends. I would make it clear I was looking for someone to share my life with. The question you asked was "was it possible to have an intelligent conversation with a straight guy". The answer is yes, I can have an intelligent classy conversation with a girl I was dating or hopefully gonna date.
-I'm saying to much personal stuff I think. :oops:
awww
mushy
See, I always thought of "sexting" as something two people did together, but I guess people can sext without their consent!
What about a picture of your six-pack abs? Or even just an unsolicited picture of yourself in general?
no i dont have a picture with my shirt off that i can remember anyway. why do you want one?
I have never done that, nor will I ever. I don't want a woman sending me a pic of her goods as well, I'd rather see it in person!
Honestly I don't know why guys do that, but then again, I don't know why women date D-bags and wonder why it turns out bad. There is nothing sexy about the nice guy I guess.
Because females "" D O N ' T "" like ***NICE GUYS*** that's why!!!!!
It drives me crazy to hear men say this although I can see from your perspective why you might think it.
Women may go with "bad boys" initially for thrills or out of rebellion but sometimes it's just because they're naive or inexperienced and think that's the way things are supposed to be.
If they continue to date guys who mistreat them, it's because they think they don't deserve any better. Once you get into that frame of mind it's hard to pull of it, but I know women who have and believe me, they will NEVER go there again.
The only way most people learn about dating is by--dating. If you have some bad experiences early on, you may just think that's what relationships are like.
It takes people a while to learn how to stand up for themselves and some people never learn.
But as for OffHeGoes29's comment, I'm married to the nicest guy in the world and for me, there is nobody sexier.
yeah
im ready to pull the bullshit card on that too
teenage girls dont like nice guyss
most females over 23 do :P
Jim Morrison and Paul Reubens for honorable mentions.
My best guess is that some guys are just dumb enough to think that a cock shot is going to be impressive? It's almost the same as the stories my girlfriend has told me about in her myspace days (prior to our relationship) where random douche bags would just send her messages asking to umm..."ejaculate on her face". :shock:
I couldn't really make an analogy out of that, so...yeah.
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9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
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It is, but too many men have difficulties determining the right time to use the right head...catch my drift?
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9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
Any male that takes a picture of his junk is a little off to start with. If he then sends it to anyone other than his doctor, you may want to think about changing your phone # and email.
Just my 2 cents
I know plenty of women over the age of 23 who date D-bags.....and it usually takes them a few divorces to see that. I say you are the rare ones who see through the superficial BS of those kinds of dudes.
Haha!! Yes, I've noticed that. There are times when you just know he's got an intelligent conversation in there somewhere and can't figure out why he won't pull THAT out!
There should be a training they could take or something.
Haha! I'd almost be MORE worried if he felt the need to send it to his doctor! :shock:
HAHAHA!! Yes! Do it!
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That would be an odd physical the following year:
Doctor: "Alright, now if you'd just slide your shorts down for me and coug.....hey, that wart wasn't in the picture you sent me?"
6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
beer bellied
and smart (yet simple)
seems to manage to avoi the douches
I've got everything but the beer belly, no matter how much beer I consume. I'll contact you in about 10 years when my metabolism comes to a screeching halt.
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8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2