Why do men...

__ Posts: 6,651
edited December 2009 in All Encompassing Trip
(and I use that word loosely) ever feel the need/desire to send women unsolicited pictures of their penises, abs, or any other part of their bodies?
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  • hinxhinx Posts: 416
    I'd love to know the answer to this :lol:
  • g under pg under p Surfing The far side of THE Sombrero Galaxy Posts: 18,201
    scb wrote:
    (and I use that word loosely) ever feel the need/desire to send women unsolicited pictures of their penises, abs, or any other part of their bodies?

    They do :?:
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  • mookeywrenchmookeywrench Posts: 5,940
    edited December 2009
    that's news to me... but here you all go anyway.

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  • 8181 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    pm sent.
    81 is now off the air

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  • hinxhinx Posts: 416
    I got one too. I signed up for okcupid and the first "normal" guy that contacted me on there ended up sending me a totally unsolicited penis picture like 4 days later. Out of nowhere, lol. Evidently he was not as normal as our initial conversations led me to believe. I laugh about it now, but at the time it was pretty creepy.

    Is this some kind of epidemic? :lol:
  • PRL1JAMPRL1JAM Posts: 787
    women do it too, I have received unrequested, unexpected naked body part shots on occasion. I didn't mind it though one bit.
  • Thorns2010Thorns2010 Posts: 2,201
    Wait, so this sexting craze isn't limited to just the under 25 crowd? Yikes!

    Anyway, ummm, I have no idea why a man would send an unsolicited picture.
  • smarcheesmarchee Windsor, Ontario Posts: 14,539
    there are people who get off on exposing their privates to other people

    thats the reason
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  • g under pg under p Surfing The far side of THE Sombrero Galaxy Posts: 18,201
    smarchee wrote:
    there are people who get off on exposing their privates to other people

    thats the reason

    That text, can't it be traced back to who sent it?

    Peace
    *We CAN bomb the World to pieces, but we CAN'T bomb it into PEACE*...Michael Franti

    *MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
    .....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti

    *The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)


  • smarcheesmarchee Windsor, Ontario Posts: 14,539
    g under p wrote:
    smarchee wrote:
    there are people who get off on exposing their privates to other people

    thats the reason

    That text, can't it be traced back to who sent it?

    Peace

    ya a text can be directly traced back to the sender

    did the original poster get it via text? i just assumed in the mail but maybe that shows my naiveity
    1998 ~ Barrie
    2003 ~ Toronto
    2005 ~ London, Toronto
    2006 ~ Toronto
    2008 ~ Hartford, Mansfied I,
    2009 ~ Toronto, Chicago I, Chicago II
    2010 ~ Cleveland, Buffalo
    2011 ~ Toronto I, Toronto II, Ottawa, Hamilton
    2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
    2014 - Detroit
    2019 - Chicago X 2
  • __ Posts: 6,651
    g under p wrote:
    scb wrote:
    (and I use that word loosely) ever feel the need/desire to send women unsolicited pictures of their penises, abs, or any other part of their bodies?

    They do :?:

    They do. Grown men. In their 20s, 30s, 40s. Teachers, engineers, mechanics, law students. Men you've known for years. Men you you just started casually dating. Men you've never even met in person. Men you've met in bars, on airplanes, at work. Men your friends set you up with because they're such nice guys.

    I wonder, do they expect you to completely lose all control and have sex with them immediately? Do they hope for a reciprocal photo of one of your body parts? Are they just under the assumption that they have something impressive and want to show it off? (If so, do they think you've never seen a better one?) And do they expect you to refrain from showing all your friends and co-workers? (Now, personally, I'm not the type to kiss & tell. But does it really count as kissing & telling if it wasn't a mutual event?)
  • scb wrote:
    (and I use that word loosely) ever feel the need/desire to send women unsolicited pictures of their penises, abs, or any other part of their bodies?




    what did the dude who was texting you everyday send you a picture of his package?

    :lol: sorry about laughing!
  • __ Posts: 6,651
    81 wrote:
    pm sent.

    :lol::lol:
  • scb wrote:



    Do they hope for a reciprocal photo of one of your body parts?


    Ding Ding Ding, we have a winner!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • __ Posts: 6,651
    hinx wrote:
    I got one too. I signed up for okcupid and the first "normal" guy that contacted me on there ended up sending me a totally unsolicited penis picture like 4 days later. Out of nowhere, lol. Evidently he was not as normal as our initial conversations led me to believe. I laugh about it now, but at the time it was pretty creepy.

    Is this some kind of epidemic? :lol:

    Haha... maybe we should start sending them penis pictures and see how they like it! :lol:
  • __ Posts: 6,651
    smarchee wrote:
    g under p wrote:
    smarchee wrote:
    there are people who get off on exposing their privates to other people

    thats the reason

    That text, can't it be traced back to who sent it?

    Peace

    ya a text can be directly traced back to the sender

    did the original poster get it via text? i just assumed in the mail but maybe that shows my naiveity

    Yes, I was referring to text pictures. No need to trace them because they come from people we know, who usually then text or call to confirm that we got the picture. (I say "we" because this happens to plenty of other women I know as well)
  • smarcheesmarchee Windsor, Ontario Posts: 14,539
    scb wrote:
    hinx wrote:
    I got one too. I signed up for okcupid and the first "normal" guy that contacted me on there ended up sending me a totally unsolicited penis picture like 4 days later. Out of nowhere, lol. Evidently he was not as normal as our initial conversations led me to believe. I laugh about it now, but at the time it was pretty creepy.

    Is this some kind of epidemic? :lol:

    Haha... maybe we should start sending them penis pictures and see how they like it! :lol:

    this is your best option lol; that will teach em
    1998 ~ Barrie
    2003 ~ Toronto
    2005 ~ London, Toronto
    2006 ~ Toronto
    2008 ~ Hartford, Mansfied I,
    2009 ~ Toronto, Chicago I, Chicago II
    2010 ~ Cleveland, Buffalo
    2011 ~ Toronto I, Toronto II, Ottawa, Hamilton
    2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
    2014 - Detroit
    2019 - Chicago X 2
  • Thorns2010Thorns2010 Posts: 2,201
    scb wrote:

    They do. Grown men. In their 20s, 30s, 40s. Teachers, engineers, mechanics, law students. Men you've known for years. Men you you just started casually dating. Men you've never even met in person. Men you've met in bars, on airplanes, at work. Men your friends set you up with because they're such nice guys.

    I wonder, do they expect you to completely lose all control and have sex with them immediately? Do they hope for a reciprocal photo of one of your body parts? Are they just under the assumption that they have something impressive and want to show it off? (If so, do they think you've never seen a better one?) And do they expect you to refrain from showing all your friends and co-workers? (Now, personally, I'm not the type to kiss & tell. But does it really count as kissing & telling if it wasn't a mutual event?)


    Wait, are you saying this isn't the first time it has happened to you? Dear lord!
  • __ Posts: 6,651
    scb wrote:
    (and I use that word loosely) ever feel the need/desire to send women unsolicited pictures of their penises, abs, or any other part of their bodies?




    what did the dude who was texting you everyday send you a picture of his package?

    :lol: sorry about laughing!

    Ding ding ding! Another winner! :lol:
  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    scb wrote:
    then text or call to confirm that we got the picture. (I say "we" because this happens to plenty of other women I know as well)


    :wtf:


    "Hey Jane, it's Ted. Did ya get the picture of my crank?"


    really? :crazy:
  • smarcheesmarchee Windsor, Ontario Posts: 14,539
    ya why not not texting back or calling to confirm you got the picture of his wang

    maybe ignore it and don;t bring it up so the awkwardness of it kills it thinking it went to a different number
    1998 ~ Barrie
    2003 ~ Toronto
    2005 ~ London, Toronto
    2006 ~ Toronto
    2008 ~ Hartford, Mansfied I,
    2009 ~ Toronto, Chicago I, Chicago II
    2010 ~ Cleveland, Buffalo
    2011 ~ Toronto I, Toronto II, Ottawa, Hamilton
    2013 - London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
    2014 - Detroit
    2019 - Chicago X 2
  • scb wrote:
    scb wrote:
    (and I use that word loosely) ever feel the need/desire to send women unsolicited pictures of their penises, abs, or any other part of their bodies?




    what did the dude who was texting you everyday send you a picture of his package?

    :lol: sorry about laughing!

    Ding ding ding! Another winner! :lol:


    :lol: That is so funny! I personally knew it without really knowing much about it all but ya he sounded like a perv to me! Just be thankful it was something that was just pervy and he wasn't a psycho. Be careful with these "guy friends" dear!!!
  • scb wrote:
    scb wrote:
    (and I use that word loosely) ever feel the need/desire to send women unsolicited pictures of their penises, abs, or any other part of their bodies?




    what did the dude who was texting you everyday send you a picture of his package?

    :lol: sorry about laughing!

    Ding ding ding! Another winner! :lol:

    don't you mean.........ding ding ding, another WEINER! :lol:
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    personally i think unsolicited shots of penises and other body parts are fair game to be shared amongst friends.
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  • just as inappropriate is someone sending msgs about how they beat of or how theyre randy
    or how they always try screw people

    when you just trying to have an intelligent convo :P

    i got one once,
    i replied with
    i really wouldnt be showing that off if i were you

    :D
    makes much more sense to live in the present tense
  • __ Posts: 6,651
    :lol: That is so funny! I personally knew it without really knowing much about it all but ya he sounded like a perv to me! Just be thankful it was something that was just pervy and he wasn't a psycho. Be careful with these "guy friends" dear!!!

    The problem is that that kind of thing is something that normal, non-pervy, good guys actually do! It's hard when it's all relative. When everyone's doing it, it just becomes normalized. And it's not just about the penis pictures. A guy once sent me a picture of his six-pack abs out of nowhere. I was happy for him to have such nice abs and all, but it just made me want to go do some sit-ups. I still don't know why he sent it to me.

    Ah... I don't know. :?

    By the way, I wouldn't really call text man my "guy friend" considering that I've only been "talking" to him for a couple weeks and I've never even actually met him.
  • __ Posts: 6,651
    scb wrote:
    Ding ding ding! Another winner! :lol:

    don't you mean.........ding ding ding, another WEINER! :lol:

    Haha... funny thing is that I actually accidentally typed that at first and had to correct it! :lol:
  • __ Posts: 6,651
    missisles wrote:
    just as inappropriate is someone sending msgs about how they beat of or how theyre randy
    or how they always try screw people

    when you just trying to have an intelligent convo :P

    Yeah, sometimes I wonder if it's even possible to find/have an intelligent conversation with a single, straight man anymore.
  • scb wrote:
    :lol: That is so funny! I personally knew it without really knowing much about it all but ya he sounded like a perv to me! Just be thankful it was something that was just pervy and he wasn't a psycho. Be careful with these "guy friends" dear!!!

    The problem is that that kind of thing is something that normal, non-pervy, good guys actually do!

    I think the second a guy texts a picture of his penis to a girl who is not his partner without being asked by the girl he instantly becomes a pervert.
    scb wrote:
    missisles wrote:

    when you just trying to have an intelligent convo :P

    Yeah, sometimes I wonder if it's even possible to find/have an intelligent conversation with a single, straight man anymore.
    238.gif but my mind would also be on how beautiful you are and would you be a perfect match for me. Guys can't be just friends, sorry.
  • scb wrote:
    missisles wrote:

    when you just trying to have an intelligent convo :P

    Yeah, sometimes I wonder if it's even possible to find/have an intelligent conversation with a single, straight man anymore.
    238.gif but my mind would also be on how beautiful you are and would you be a perfect match for me. Guys can't be just friends, sorry.[/quote]


    thats rubbish
    im 29 and have 80% male friends
    they dont show me their love sticks
    makes much more sense to live in the present tense
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