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jamingjamersjamingjamers Posts: 383
edited June 2011 in All Encompassing Trip
my girlfriend is posting personal details of my life on facebook
this shits me
should i leave her?
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  • iluvcatsiluvcats Posts: 5,153
    I think you should tell her that you saw it and ask why she did it.
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    so you post personal details of her life here? i'm just messing. like the person above said... did you ask her to stop?
  • jamingjamersjamingjamers Posts: 383
    i did ask her to stop
    but she has no regard for my wishes
  • ClaireackClaireack Posts: 13,561
    I think it's a bit disrespectful really, although I do put things in here about my hubby sometimes, but nothing he would be bothered about.

    Yes the only thing is talking about it and explaining how you feel. Then go from there.
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  • mfc2006mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,484
    brett0400 wrote:
    i did ask her to stop
    but she has no regard for my wishes

    i'd say that's a problem. how long have you been with her? do you see it going anywhere? that's pretty disrespectful if she'd continued to do it after you asked her to stop. the solution seems pretty clear to me. good luck.
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  • haffajappahaffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    this seems like a weird question to me, er, i mean the "should I leave her" rather than something like "what should i do?"

    I think if you're considering leaving her over that (of course i'm not saying that what she's doing is okay) then you probably shouldn't be with her...
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  • g under pg under p Surfing The far side of THE Sombrero Galaxy Posts: 18,205
    haffajappa wrote:
    this seems like a weird question to me, er, i mean the "should I leave her" rather than something like "what should i do?"

    I think if you're considering leaving her over that (of course i'm not saying that what she's doing is okay) then you probably shouldn't be with her...

    I agree that was my first thought *what should I do?* would have been my question. Seems you may already have your doubts about her and this subversive act of hers has taken you over the top. What she appears to have done is inappropriate and needs to stop, if she continues then put your foot down with an ultimatum. Either stop or we're through.

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  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    brett0400 wrote:
    i did ask her to stop
    but she has no regard for my wishes

    then it's time to move on
  • InHerOwnWorldInHerOwnWorld Posts: 592
    mfc2006 wrote:
    brett0400 wrote:
    i did ask her to stop
    but she has no regard for my wishes

    i'd say that's a problem. how long have you been with her? do you see it going anywhere? that's pretty disrespectful if she'd continued to do it after you asked her to stop. the solution seems pretty clear to me. good luck.

    I agree! Make it clear. Then move on.
  • dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    mfc2006 wrote:
    brett0400 wrote:
    i did ask her to stop
    but she has no regard for my wishes

    i'd say that's a problem. how long have you been with her? do you see it going anywhere? that's pretty disrespectful if she'd continued to do it after you asked her to stop. the solution seems pretty clear to me. good luck.

    These are my words of wisdom too...I'm sure you'll do what you think is right for yourself.
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  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,689
    haffajappa wrote:
    I think if you're considering leaving her over that (of course i'm not saying that what she's doing is okay) then you probably shouldn't be with her...
    I think that is a mild overreaction.
  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    What type of personal details?
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  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    What type of personal details?
    Seriously.. this is what I'm thinking.. STDs??? What could she post and why? Is she mad at you?
  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    What type of personal details?
    Seriously.. this is what I'm thinking.. STDs??? What could she post and why? Is she mad at you?

    Penis size maybe?
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  • PJFAN_seattlePJFAN_seattle Posts: 2,965
    could you please be more detailed?
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  • dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    What type of personal details?
    Seriously.. this is what I'm thinking.. STDs??? What could she post and why? Is she mad at you?

    Penis size maybe?

    It could even be a medical/health related, family issues, etc...
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  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    does it really matters what it is? he is obviously upset by what she is posting and should respect his wishes and stop it
  • dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    norm wrote:
    does it really matters what it is? he is obviously upset by what she is posting and should respect his wishes and stop it

    I don't think it's important. I also agree that his girlfriend is making a very disrespectful decision in doing this and then ignoring his wishes to stop. A significant other should be someone you can confide to, it sounds like she doesn't really understand that about a relationship? Or just chooses not to acknowledge common respect?

    OP, imo it doesn't matter really what she's spilling, if it's personal and she won't stop even after you asked her that crosses a pretty fine line. Once again, this is just my opinion.
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  • mrveddersonmrvedderson Posts: 784
    norm wrote:
    does it really matters what it is? he is obviously upset by what she is posting and should respect his wishes and stop it

    I think they were just trying to get him to do the same thing as his girlyfriend. Tell that specific personal information.
  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam Posts: 139,721
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    What type of personal details?
    Seriously.. this is what I'm thinking.. STDs??? What could she post and why? Is she mad at you?

    Penis size maybe?
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  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam Posts: 139,721
    without she respect your wishes u dont go anywhere..so u must :wave:
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  • Heatherj43Heatherj43 Posts: 1,254
    If someone who is suppose to be my mate, my partner, etc, is posting trash about me, I guess they aren't my partner, love, etc. Its over whether you know it or not.
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  • Thoughts_ArriveThoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
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    :lol::lol:
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    Bank account details?
    :lol:
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  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    dcfaithful wrote:
    norm wrote:
    does it really matters what it is? he is obviously upset by what she is posting and should respect his wishes and stop it

    I don't think it's important. I also agree that his girlfriend is making a very disrespectful decision in doing this and then ignoring his wishes to stop. A significant other should be someone you can confide to, it sounds like she doesn't really understand that about a relationship? Or just chooses not to acknowledge common respect?

    OP, imo it doesn't matter really what she's spilling, if it's personal and she won't stop even after you asked her that crosses a pretty fine line. Once again, this is just my opinion.

    I agree with both of you. I would have to have a heart to heart with her, and if she continues , i would have to say goodbye.

    or

    you could just start posting shit about her on your facebook ;)
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  • Indian SummerIndian Summer Posts: 2,296
    yeah, dump her. But break up after one last bedroom romp.
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  • dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    Indian Summer wrote:
    yeah, dump her. But break up after one last bedroom romp.

    I'm with Indian Summer...show her everything you've got and then hit the road. You should just get out of the bed and say something like; "Well, I gotta go get some groceries..." Then, you're gone :)
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  • WobbieWobbie Posts: 30,564
    could we get a link, please?
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  • WhizbangWhizbang Posts: 1,314
    dcfaithful wrote:
    Indian Summer wrote:
    yeah, dump her. But break up after one last bedroom romp.

    I'm with Indian Summer...show her everything you've got and then hit the road. You should just get out of the bed and say something like; "Well, I gotta go get some groceries..." Then, you're gone :)

    Oh! good one!!! I'm filing that away for future reference. ;)
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  • supersonicyearssupersonicyears Posts: 2,619
    brett0400 wrote:
    i did ask her to stop
    but she has no regard for my wishes
    I made the mistake of telling my ex something and he made it a point of bringing it up every chance he had. Notice I said ex.
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