Thread for those who had/have family members called up
Ms. Haiku
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for a year. At least it's not Iraq or Afganistan, but it's still sad for my twin and her family. I live 40 minutes away, so I'll be able to help her out with her family.
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The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
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sorry.
"To question your government is not unpatriotic --
to not question your government is unpatriotic."
-- Sen. Chuck Hagel
People seem to feel really sad when they know people are going away for service, but surely you are prepared for it a bit? if they join the army then you surely know there is a high chance of getting shipped off somewhere as thats what one of the main reasons is... obviously it will still be sad etc but i just get the impression sometimes on here that people are very suprised by this.
THen again i'm not in the army nor know anything about it so yeah just what i feel.
your twin's family especilly, i know how utterly close you are with them all.
wish them the best...
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
But as you say, at least it's not Iraq or Afganistan.
My brother got back earlier in the year from nearly 7 months in Afganistan. Not nice.
My thoughts are with you.
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The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
God bless your brother and I wish him a safe return.
I foresee it as a year of waiting, a year on hold - a year when my shitty job will pale in comparison to what's really important. How do you/did you view that year? Did you have someone to talk to? There are so many people going through this, not just being called up or sent over, but having to fill in the gaps when the person is gone.[/quote]
Well, it definitely gave me a different perspective on what really matters. for instance, I was starting my first semester at a university while he was over there, and the trivial things that my roommates would freak out over or stress about really got to me. like, I would be getting ready for school and watch on the news "3 more soldiers killed today in afghanistan" then every time the phone would ring I would brace myself for "that" phone call. not a fun way to spend a year. I don't think I realized until after he was back the constant state of stress I was in, mainly because my parents were in knots the entire time and I was always calming them down and telling them not to worry and such.
Well, I wish I could tell you that its going to be an easy time, but being family of a soldier is no picnic. if you ever need anyone to talk to or even just to vent about your fears please shoot me a pm. best wishes, hon.
The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
Is he in the Air Force?
Hail, Hail!!!
this is a fantastic idea, I think a seperate thread about family members of people overseas would be tremendously beneficial. I sure wish something like this was happening earlier. On a different note, I am a twin also! weird!
The worst thing about this is that he will be away from his family for a year. He will be in no more danger in Kuwait than he would be in Mexico.
The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
I totally agree with you ... that is what the army is after all,it's surely not a cake walk,the purpose of the army/forces is to go to war when governments decide ... when people sign up they know that ... there are some countries have some years of compulsory service .... my friends husband served 5 compulsory years in Nigerian Military .... this the case with this thread?
I have always been a concencious objector .... I'd go to prison rather than the forces
but jail is really hard..i prefer this one than jail..
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Oh Dimitris,please do not misunderstand me I agree with you.I had many friends leave school with little job prospects,the 80's in Britian was a miserable time.Many of these great friends chose the army as a career to get out of the mass unemployment that swept the country.
But I have a very personal view point about military ... I come from a family who have been concencious objectors .... my great grandad served time in prison for refusing to fight in WW1 .... My mum remembers him saying "I'll be a live coward than a dead hero" ....Britain has been in bed with American Military for decades ... where they start wars ... Britain is running behind them ... like a attention hungry child.
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The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
Of course ... I understand ... I wish everyone with family and loved ones involved a safe return home.
Thing is, it's their choice... your sister and her family will need support... so that's it... just support them.
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Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you