Life can be so fucking cruel...

dimitrispearljam

hope u are feeling better

dcfaithful

Hey Sian,
Just wanted to check in. Hope your Sunday is treating you better.

Sian-of-the-dead

Thanks guys so much, for thinking of us.

I had a good weekend, considering. We looked after Urbanhippie's older two kids last night and Friday and on Saturday we went to fancy dress party... becoming Marc Bolan for the evening was a welcome distraction.

Saturday afternoon I heard news that my friend's uncle had died suddenly of a heart attack on Friday. That set me back a lot... but I stayed strong for her.

I'm having good days and bad days at the moment. Today is a bad day. I just don't want to do anything and saying goodbye to UH's daughter this morning, before she heads back down to Bournemouth, was hard. I loved her being here and I hadn't realised how much I missed the moody 13 year old.

I'm trying everything to perk myself up though... I've vowed today that i'm only going to listen to old music, so Neil Young, Jefferson Airplane, Big Brother and The Holding Company and Jethro Tull are all lined up on my ipod ready to go... It may seem pathetic but it's little things that are getting me through at the moment. I'm safe in the knowedge that you guys are always here, that Dave's only a text/call away when I need him and work are being incredibly supportive. I know how lucky I am.

I'm going to a tai chi class tonight if I feel up to it, hopefully that might alleviate some stress and help me sleep.

Thanks again everyone xxxx

Sian-of-the-dead

Just to let you all know, Boris is doing well. He's home and things are looking ok for him. He's on a special diet and tablets but he's in the clear. This isn't to say he won't have problems with the same thing again in the future but we'll cross that bridge should we come to it.

Chazz

Hi Sian

So sorry to hear you are going through such a tough time at the moment......things will get better

{{{{Sending you postive vibes}}}}

Love

Valerie

dimitrispearljam

Sian-of-the-dead wrote:

Just to let you all know, Boris is doing well. He's home and things are looking ok for him. He's on a special diet and tablets but he's in the clear. This isn't to say he won't have problems with the same thing again in the future but we'll cross that bridge should we come to it.

great news..keep on

decides2dream

Sian wrote:

It may seem pathetic but it's little things that are getting me through at the moment. I'm safe in the knowedge that you guys are always here, that Dave's only a text/call away when I need him and work are being incredibly supportive. I know how lucky I am.

that will all help you, enormously. i wish you well.


also glad to read that dave's dad is on the mend. small steps forward. good stuff!

norm

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-6xV0uAVpk

adropinthepark

I can't believe how much you guys are having to deal with. My god. Enough is enough. You and Dave have been two of the brightest spots in my year. All of this coming to you at once is a testament to how unfair life can be. I know you're strong, though and I'm glad for it. There will be a time when you'll be throwing back pints and reflecting on this as "that one shitty period of time".

For now, this shitty time can fuck right off, yeah?


((((Hugs))))

dimitrispearljam

have a great day with good news only

Jennytree

Sian-of-the-dead wrote:

... before she heads back down to Bournemouth

*giggles at Dunk trying to pronounce Bournemouth*

Hope you are having a better day today I wish I could do more for you

Sian-of-the-dead

Jennytree wrote:

Sian-of-the-dead wrote:

... before she heads back down to Bournemouth

*giggles at Dunk trying to pronounce Bournemouth*

Hope you are having a better day today I wish I could do more for you

I am Jenny, thank you. (the memory of Dunk pronouncing Bournemouth made me BIG LOLZ! Good times... )

I'm feeling a lot better and a lot more positive now. As D-ream famously said, Things Can Only Get Better... Hopefully.

My friends are being a massive support and daily i'm getting texts asking how i'm doing. Dave is being incredible as always and keeping the smile on my face. I'm a lucky gal to have to people I have in my life.

I'm not too mobile today though, thanks to pinching the sciatic nerve in my back again :roll:

I'm about due for the knackers yard I reckon...

decides2dream

no matter how cold the winter there's a spring time ahead...
sounds about right...;)
happy to read things are, slowly, improving. has a lot to do with your own attitude, kudos....and yes, being blessed with so many wonderful people around you.

hope your back heals quickly, and life gets better and better....

Claireack

Also glad things are improving a little. Bit of a bugger about your back, try getting Dave to massage towards the rear of your heels on the sole of your foot, it's where the sciatic nerve is in reflexology, it might help (plus it feels nice anyway).

Take care.

dunkman

Jennytree wrote:

Sian-of-the-dead wrote:

... before she heads back down to Bournemouth

*giggles at Dunk trying to pronounce Bournemouth*

Hope you are having a better day today I wish I could do more for you

i do it with all places ending in mouth except Plymouth for some reason.

like to see you lot pronounce
Aberdour
Anstruther
Auchenshuggle
Athelstaneford
Auchtermuchty
Balluchullish

:evil: :evil:

dunkman

Sian-of-the-dead wrote:

Jennytree wrote:

Sian-of-the-dead wrote:

... before she heads back down to Bournemouth

*giggles at Dunk trying to pronounce Bournemouth*

Hope you are having a better day today I wish I could do more for you

I am Jenny, thank you. (the memory of Dunk pronouncing Bournemouth made me BIG LOLZ! Good times... )

alright already ya fuckers!!

i will actually call it Bournemooth from now on :oops:

chime

dunkman wrote:

Jennytree wrote:

Sian-of-the-dead wrote:

... before she heads back down to Bournemouth

*giggles at Dunk trying to pronounce Bournemouth*

Hope you are having a better day today I wish I could do more for you

i do it with all places ending in mouth except Plymouth for some reason.

like to see you lot pronounce
Aberdour
Anstruther
Auchenshuggle
Athelstaneford
Auchtermuchty
Balluchullish

:evil: :evil:

I'll take up that challenge

Sian sorry to hear about everything :( ... bug hugs as always

dunkman

chime wrote:

dunkman wrote:

Jennytree wrote:

*giggles at Dunk trying to pronounce Bournemouth*

Hope you are having a better day today I wish I could do more for you

i do it with all places ending in mouth except Plymouth for some reason.

like to see you lot pronounce
Aberdour
Anstruther
Auchenshuggle
Athelstaneford
Auchtermuchty
Balluchullish

:evil: :evil:

I'll take up that challenge

Sian sorry to hear about everything :( ... bug hugs as always

I see your challenge and raise you Ruthwell?!!

I move to a wee village in 4 weeks.... wait till you see its name!