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Black Diamond

Indeed
And NZ is awesome, probably #2 on my list...

Are you taking off time for the holidays?

Jukee

I have Dec 24th to the 29th off.

How about you?

Black Diamond

Just the 24th...

Going anywhere?

Jukee

We're not going anywhere out of town, sticking around here since the majority of my family lives here.

I know you're jewish and all but do you still have x-mas dinner with your family?

Black Diamond

Nope but us Jewish types love to go out to the city on Xmas day because we have the run of it
We like to call it Chinese/Movie Day

Are you having Xmas dinner at your place?

Jukee

No, we always have dinner at my Memere's (grandmother) place.

Was your wife brought up Jewish as well?

Black Diamond

She was... but in the south... so all her prayers have a nice lilt
It's funny, in all my life I only dated 2 jewish women... and married them both :roll:

How long did you date your hubby before you got married?

Jukee

We only dated about 1.5 years when he proposed and got married 11 months later.

How about you ?

Black Diamond

5 months :oops:

How did he propose?

Jukee

5 months and you were married? or you proposed after 5 months? Don't worry my parents were married 11 months after they met eachother and they've been married for 30 yrs.

He attached the ring to my stocking at x-mas. He thought I had no idea because I acted super surprised but a few months prior he was drinking and telling people and he thought I couldn't hear him. He still has no idea to this day.

How did you do it?

Black Diamond

Pretended I had a meeting in a hotel with Donald Trump and when she got in the hotel room, there was like 40 dozen roses... but we did not even get in the room, because she got suspicious... so I through in the closet at the entrance and got on my knees

Do you celebrate the day you got your ring?

Claireack

I didn't, and he didn't either. He just caved in after a lot of nagging.

Did you have a big fluffy dress?

Jukee

Well since it was x-mas night yes we do.

Have you ever been to a gay/lesbian wedding?

Black Diamond

I have, good friends... was really cool.

You?

Claireack

No, but keep insisting that a gay friend 'settle down' and get married/civil partnership.

Ever wonder if you were gay?

Jukee

No, but I do find women beautiful.

Is anybody in your family gay?

Black Diamond

Yep my first cousin

You?

Jearlpam0925

First cousin, and a great uncle.

Is it a taboo subject in your family?

Jukee

I don't think it's taboo. Nobody is gay in my family though...that we know of.

Who do you miss the most right now?

Claireack

Today, my friend living in Africa.

I've decided I want to go to a wedding right now, know anyone that is so I can gatecrash? This weekend maybe?