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  • JWPearl
    JWPearl Posts: 19,893
    I guess exs can be usefull for some things..
  • njnancy
    njnancy Posts: 5,096
    JWPearl said:

    I guess exs can be usefull for some things..

    Not mine, can't think of a damn thing...





  • JWPearl
    JWPearl Posts: 19,893
    lol cant be that bad..
  • njnancy
    njnancy Posts: 5,096
    =)) trust me.
  • JWPearl
    JWPearl Posts: 19,893
    Well I hope it gets sorted for your childrens sakes...
  • njnancy
    njnancy Posts: 5,096
    thank you, I appreciate the thought but it's best if i stay as far away from him as possible. On a lighter note, your ex does have usefulness - I am sincerely happy for you. I'm the idiot that picked the rotten fruit.
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    njnancy said:

    JWPearl said:

    I guess exs can be usefull for some things..

    Not mine, can't think of a damn thing...





    mine could be used for a punching bag...that's a good use, right?
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • njnancy
    njnancy Posts: 5,096
    I like how your mind works. Sorry you picked from the same sort of tree as me.
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    I just think of it as, "if I didn't know the bad, I wouldn't appreciate the good"
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • JWPearl
    JWPearl Posts: 19,893
    RKCNDY said:

    njnancy said:

    JWPearl said:

    I guess exs can be usefull for some things..

    Not mine, can't think of a damn thing...





    mine could be used for a punching bag...that's a good use, right?
    lol some people are not used to holes and lifts like us not used to lousy ex's my ex didnt even find out I was really a piece of sunshine till he had split up with me and hung out with my dad then I caught his eye and he was speechless but it was too late.
    Strange memories I remember I bought him a pocket knife he wanted it was yellow and silver and he wanted it bad so I stupid bought it for him we went fishing one day and he somehow clumsilly.....lost it between the cracks of the jetty into the ocean, I felt sad for him bc it was a quality knife but now I look back and am greatful bc it could have been used on me.. I guess he probably looks back now and thinks its a good thing I lost it, perhaps not...
  • JWPearl
    JWPearl Posts: 19,893
    njnancy said:

    JWPearl said:

    I guess exs can be usefull for some things..


    Not mine, can't think of a damn thing...





    While I hate my ex I also love him in a brother like way bc we grew up together and I dont wish any bad upon him even if I do think hes a lousy dad I also know he had a hard life and if he would fall sick or die I would feel a sad loss bc although he was an asshole at times, we did still have good times and we knew each other well I have good memories growing up with him after all he was just 19 and I was 14 we broke up when I turned 21 got back together briefly but it didnt work out..
    But I really love him like a brother, you know your brother gets on your nerves but you still care for their wellfair even if they make useless daddys and tick you off or repulse you lol I wish him well and happiness just not with me lol
  • njnancy
    njnancy Posts: 5,096
    I don't hate my ex; I want nothing to do with him and I fear the evil he can still inflict. He made my life miserable for over 10 years and I had a reprieve until he got his hands on our son and turned him against me. Some exes are assholes; some exes are cool; some exes are just not around and then there are exes who relish in causing pain at any cost, just for kicks. Now he's ruining my son's life. I wouldn't use him as a punching bag because I would wind up with the black eye. It was one of the worst choices I have ever made in my life. And people want to know why I haven't dated after all this time; I have no illusions that I could figure out who is a good guy and who is a psychopath. And you don't need to explain why you feel for your ex - it is perfectly normal. I am sincerely glad that you do not have this experience; no one should.
  • JWPearl
    JWPearl Posts: 19,893
    Im sorry for your experience and I hope it does not put you off finding the love of your life, remember if your on fire hes most of the time the right one its about chemistry. As for my ex I dont hate him its not like he is a killer or involved as such scum then I have no reason to like or have anything to do with such one
  • marilor
    marilor St Etienne, France Posts: 618
    To njnancy : No matter how cold the winter, there's a springtime ahead...
    Sorry for your "bad" choice in the past, it reminds me some of mine...
    "We were but stones, ...Your light made us stars"
  • FrankieG
    FrankieG Abingdon MD Posts: 9,100
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  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    I wish I could automatically reject stupid people...but i have to give everybody 'a fair chance'... *sigh*
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • OMGkatwoman
    OMGkatwoman Posts: 3,230
    RKCNDY said:

    I wish I could automatically reject stupid people...but i have to give everybody 'a fair chance'... *sigh*

    It is hard to know who you can trust nowadays that's for sure....

    :(
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    OMGkatwoman said:

    RKCNDY said:

    I wish I could automatically reject stupid people...but i have to give everybody 'a fair chance'... *sigh*

    It is hard to know who you can trust nowadays that's for sure....

    :(
    for sure! people are pretty good at 'faking it'. Right now I'm interviewing potential renters, and some people are just unbelievable...makes me wonder how they hold a job. image
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • OMGkatwoman
    OMGkatwoman Posts: 3,230
    RKCNDY said:

    OMGkatwoman said:

    RKCNDY said:

    I wish I could automatically reject stupid people...but i have to give everybody 'a fair chance'... *sigh*

    It is hard to know who you can trust nowadays that's for sure....

    :(
    for sure! people are pretty good at 'faking it'. Right now I'm interviewing potential renters, and some people are just unbelievable...makes me wonder how they hold a job. image
    Well hopefully it will work out better with the next one. I got stiffed before by a renter and after trying to reason, etc....including reasonable payment plan offer, heard every excuse in the book and had, had enough and went and filed for a summary judgement.
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    OMGkatwoman said:



    Well hopefully it will work out better with the next one. I got stiffed before by a renter and after trying to reason, etc....including reasonable payment plan offer, heard every excuse in the book and had, had enough and went and filed for a summary judgement.

    tell me more about this 'summary judgement'...our last renter skipped out on rent and utility bills...
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless

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