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thefixer9 wrote:any good girl problems?
this forum is a great place to help on those
Well yeah, the problem is I can't get a girl...
Either one is too close of a friend, or one just got a boyfriend or that I'm too much of a wimp to ask...
Girls find confidence very sexy.. Never be to much of a wimp to ask!!!.. a girl might shut you down, that is ok..
Other girls will notice or find out that you had the balls to ask, and they will find that sexy!! trust me!!
The girl might say yes! and in that case, you are golden because A.) you got what you wanted and 2.) chicks like guys that get chicks!!.. and even if she shuts you down later, you got at least 2 or 3 chicks waiting to take her place! because you got balls!!
if it happens, getting shut down isn't bad.. DONT be afraid of it!! like I said, other chicks will notice you are in the game.. and the next time you get shut down, it stings less.. and the next, less..
but the more you man up and put yourself out there, the more dates you will get..
remember, you are a good guy. you are worth something. and any chick that shuts you down doesn't deserve you anyway..
So get out there!!
grab her hand,
look her straight into the eyes (BE SURE TO DO THIS!!)
and say "hello, I am Rico.. Would you like to go have a coffee sometime?"
it works.. more times than not..None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe that they are free.
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Caveeze wrote:thefixer9 wrote:any good girl problems?
this forum is a great place to help on those
Well yeah, the problem is I can't get a girl...
Either one is too close of a friend, or one just got a boyfriend or that I'm too much of a wimp to ask...
Girls find confidence very sexy.. Never be to much of a wimp to ask!!!.. a girl might shut you down, that is ok..
Other girls will notice or find out that you had the balls to ask, and they will find that sexy!! trust me!!
The girl might say yes! and in that case, you are golden because A.) you got what you wanted and 2.) chicks like guys that get chicks!!.. and even if she shuts you down later, you got at least 2 or 3 chicks waiting to take her place! because you got balls!!
if it happens, getting shut down isn't bad.. DONT be afraid of it!! like I said, other chicks will notice you are in the game.. and the next time you get shut down, it stings less.. and the next, less..
but the more you man up and put yourself out there, the more dates you will get..
remember, you are a good guy. you are worth something. and any chick that shuts you down doesn't deserve you anyway..
So get out there!!
grab her hand,
look her straight into the eyes (BE SURE TO DO THIS!!)
and say "hello, I am Rico.. Would you like to go have a coffee sometime?"
it works.. more times than not..
It's a good think you put this awesome advice here and not in the helpless thread I just started...But this sounds like great advice, thanks!
Tres Mts- 3/16/2011
Eddie Vedder- 7/16/11
Brad- 4/21/12 (RSD Performance), 4/27/12, 8/10/12
Flight To Mars- 5/23/12
RNDM- 11/27/12
PEARL JAM- 12/6/13 I have finally seen Pearl Jam live!0 -
Rico...ignore him. go with the Screech advice!I LOVE MUSIC.
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mfc2006 wrote:Rico...ignore him. go with the Screech advice!
Man, I am telling you.. Chicks LOVE confidence!! more than anything else..
Be sure of yourself. know exactly what you are.
and again, eye contact is HUGE!! dont be some wishy-washy bitch, stuttering your words.. Sound firm, sound confident, and act like if they say "no" , its no big deal because you got another one dying to take their place..
it works...None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe that they are free.
Abrn Hlls '98 - Clarkston 2 '03 - Grd Rpds '06 - Abrn Hlls '06 - Clvd '10 - PJ20 - Berlin 1+2 '12 - Wrigley '13 - Pitt '13- buff '13- Philly 1+2 '13 - Seattle '130 -
Caveeze wrote:mfc2006 wrote:Rico...ignore him. go with the Screech advice!
Man, I am telling you.. Chicks LOVE confidence!! more than anything else..
Be sure of yourself. know exactly what you are.
and again, eye contact is HUGE!! dont be some wishy-washy bitch, stuttering your words.. Sound firm, sound confident, and act like if they say "no" , its no big deal because you got another one dying to take their place..
it works...
:thumbup:Tres Mts- 3/16/2011
Eddie Vedder- 7/16/11
Brad- 4/21/12 (RSD Performance), 4/27/12, 8/10/12
Flight To Mars- 5/23/12
RNDM- 11/27/12
PEARL JAM- 12/6/13 I have finally seen Pearl Jam live!0 -
Caveeze wrote:mfc2006 wrote:Rico...ignore him. go with the Screech advice!
Man, I am telling you.. Chicks LOVE confidence!! more than anything else..
Be sure of yourself. know exactly what you are.
and again, eye contact is HUGE!! dont be some wishy-washy bitch, stuttering your words.. Sound firm, sound confident, and act like if they say "no" , its no big deal because you got another one dying to take their place..
it works...
he's right...be true to yourself & be honest.
be comfortable in your own skin first. once you are, the world opens up.
i was just trying to let loose & be a smartass for once.I LOVE MUSIC.
www.cluthelee.com
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mfc2006 wrote:Caveeze wrote:mfc2006 wrote:Rico...ignore him. go with the Screech advice!
Man, I am telling you.. Chicks LOVE confidence!! more than anything else..
Be sure of yourself. know exactly what you are.
and again, eye contact is HUGE!! dont be some wishy-washy bitch, stuttering your words.. Sound firm, sound confident, and act like if they say "no" , its no big deal because you got another one dying to take their place..
it works...
he's right...be true to yourself & be honest.
be comfortable in your own skin first. once you are, the world opens up.
i was just trying to let loose & be a smartass for once.
You should try being a smartass some more Matt..Tres Mts- 3/16/2011
Eddie Vedder- 7/16/11
Brad- 4/21/12 (RSD Performance), 4/27/12, 8/10/12
Flight To Mars- 5/23/12
RNDM- 11/27/12
PEARL JAM- 12/6/13 I have finally seen Pearl Jam live!0 -
rico.. People named Matt know shit that others dont.. listen to them..None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe that they are free.
Abrn Hlls '98 - Clarkston 2 '03 - Grd Rpds '06 - Abrn Hlls '06 - Clvd '10 - PJ20 - Berlin 1+2 '12 - Wrigley '13 - Pitt '13- buff '13- Philly 1+2 '13 - Seattle '130 -
Caveeze wrote:rico.. People named Matt know shit that others dont.. listen to them.."I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"0
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Tres Mts- 3/16/2011
Eddie Vedder- 7/16/11
Brad- 4/21/12 (RSD Performance), 4/27/12, 8/10/12
Flight To Mars- 5/23/12
RNDM- 11/27/12
PEARL JAM- 12/6/13 I have finally seen Pearl Jam live!0 -
CHANGEinWAVES wrote:Caveeze wrote:rico.. People named Matt know shit that others dont.. listen to them..
These two Matts are the exception!Tres Mts- 3/16/2011
Eddie Vedder- 7/16/11
Brad- 4/21/12 (RSD Performance), 4/27/12, 8/10/12
Flight To Mars- 5/23/12
RNDM- 11/27/12
PEARL JAM- 12/6/13 I have finally seen Pearl Jam live!0 -
CHANGEinWAVES wrote:I disagree with this statement... and not because of anything from the boards. :nono:
:wave:I LOVE MUSIC.
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mfc2006 wrote:CHANGEinWAVES wrote:I disagree with this statement... and not because of anything from the boards. :nono:
:wave:"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"0 -
CHANGEinWAVES wrote:mfc2006 wrote:CHANGEinWAVES wrote:I disagree with this statement... and not because of anything from the boards. :nono:
:wave:
i hear ya....there are a couple of female names that i hate b/c of exgf's of people that just ruined the name for me.I LOVE MUSIC.
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mfc2006 wrote:
i hear ya....there are a couple of female names that i hate b/c of exgf's of people that just ruined the name for me."I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"0 -
CHANGEinWAVES wrote:mfc2006 wrote:
i hear ya....there are a couple of female names that i hate b/c of exgf's of people that just ruined the name for me.
very true!!good to see ya again!!! off to turn the record over & keep unpacking! cheers!
I LOVE MUSIC.
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