What happens when you date a married man..

yahamita

I really appreciate all the feedback. Its part of the healing process for me..I'm still in shock, but trying to mentally talk my head into tuning it all out and shutting the fuck up, while my gut is still in knots, I can't eat or sleep, and the heart is racing, but am trying deperately to get a grip. It's been less than 24 hours..I hear it takes 3 weeks to break a bad habit..

pearljgirl2010

CHANGEinWAVES wrote:

norm wrote:

i told my heart to shut the fuck up a long time ago

I've been trying... though it doesn't listen to me, just like everyone else.

yeah. stupid hearts!

soulsinging

yahamita wrote:

I really appreciate all the feedback. Its part of the healing process for me..I'm still in shock, but trying to mentally talk my head into tuning it all out and shutting the fuck up, while my gut is still in knots, I can't eat or sleep, and the heart is racing, but am trying deperately to get a grip. It's been less than 24 hours..I hear it takes 3 weeks to break a bad habit..

Yeah, no shame in reeling when it's that fresh. Hopefully that 3 week mark will do it for you. I'm 3 years out from my ex leaving me for a guy she met on vacation and I'm still not over the damage.

CHANGEinWAVES

yahamita wrote:

.I hear it takes 3 weeks to break a bad habit..

if only.... it took me much much longer then that.

_Crazy_Mary_

I think the fact that he was married has nothing to do with this. The guy was not right for you, that's the bottom line.

yahamita

soulsinging wrote:

yahamita wrote:

I really appreciate all the feedback. Its part of the healing process for me..I'm still in shock, but trying to mentally talk my head into tuning it all out and shutting the fuck up, while my gut is still in knots, I can't eat or sleep, and the heart is racing, but am trying deperately to get a grip. It's been less than 24 hours..I hear it takes 3 weeks to break a bad habit..

Yeah, no shame in reeling when it's that fresh. Hopefully that 3 week mark will do it for you. I'm 3 years out from my ex leaving me for a guy she met on vacation and I'm still not over the damage.

OMG! That is horrible, I am sooooooo sorry. Is she still with that guy??? Do you date now? does it still fuck with your head to where you can't move on?

jimed14

this thread needs a drink ... and some fresh PJ dates.

soulsinging

yahamita wrote:

soulsinging wrote:

yahamita wrote:

I really appreciate all the feedback. Its part of the healing process for me..I'm still in shock, but trying to mentally talk my head into tuning it all out and shutting the fuck up, while my gut is still in knots, I can't eat or sleep, and the heart is racing, but am trying deperately to get a grip. It's been less than 24 hours..I hear it takes 3 weeks to break a bad habit..

Yeah, no shame in reeling when it's that fresh. Hopefully that 3 week mark will do it for you. I'm 3 years out from my ex leaving me for a guy she met on vacation and I'm still not over the damage.

OMG! That is horrible, I am sooooooo sorry. Is she still with that guy??? Do you date now? does it still fuck with your head to where you can't move on?

She's engaged to him now. I just found that out 2 weeks ago. I have a gf, but I still think about the ex all the time, so yeah, it messes with my head.

South of Seattle

soulsinging wrote:

yahamita wrote:

I really appreciate all the feedback. Its part of the healing process for me..I'm still in shock, but trying to mentally talk my head into tuning it all out and shutting the fuck up, while my gut is still in knots, I can't eat or sleep, and the heart is racing, but am trying deperately to get a grip. It's been less than 24 hours..I hear it takes 3 weeks to break a bad habit..

Yeah, no shame in reeling when it's that fresh. Hopefully that 3 week mark will do it for you. I'm 3 years out from my ex leaving me for a guy she met on vacation and I'm still not over the damage.

My best friend's GF cheated on him when she went to Mexico with her friend. It was a little too Convenient that he was from the same town as us. It's been almost 3 years for him and he is still pretty damaged.


Sorry Lisa, that sucks

olderman

i confess to being the 'married man' some years back, although i did not lead (and i did not lie about a future) her on as he seems to have done with you.

nonetheless -

sorry for your heartbreak..

i've had my share.

you'll be ok.

"here's the reason that i'm so free...
my lovin' baby is through with me"

Horos

I'm sorry to hear this. I know for a while you very happy with that relationship and I'm sorry to hear you got hurt. There's plenty more good guys out there and I'm sure you'll overcome this and end up with a wonderful gentleman. I know if I hadn't been married for the last 22 years I'd be on my way over the pass to offer you some comfort. Hopefully this message will make you feel better. Just keep your head up and the right guy will find you.

Take care, Mike.

decides2dream

olderman wrote:

i confess to being the 'married man' some years back, although i did not lead (and i did not lie about a future) her on as he seems to have done with you.

nonetheless -

sorry for your heartbreak..

i've had my share.

you'll be ok.

"here's the reason that i'm so free...
my lovin' baby is through with me"

olderman.....off-topic but just have to comment:
excellent blind faith lyric in your sig!
i can *hear* steve winwood singing it just reading it. LOVE them. i love every band winwood and clapton have been in, together or seperately.



yahamita - all the BEST as you deal and recover!

yahamita

Horos wrote:

I'm sorry to hear this. I know for a while you very happy with that relationship and I'm sorry to hear you got hurt. There's plenty more good guys out there and I'm sure you'll overcome this and end up with a wonderful gentleman. I know if I hadn't been married for the last 22 years I'd be on my way over the pass to offer you some comfort. Hopefully this message will make you feel better. Just keep your head up and the right guy will find you.

Take care, Mike.

Awe, Thanks Mike..last night as soon as I got off of work, I went to a friends house to avoid being alone and having to drive by his house, he lives just down the street from me, I drank a few beers and got totally wasted since I hadn't eaten in 2 days. Just what I was trying to do so I could just get home and pass out. I was actually able to sleep last night. Still sick to the stomach today, and still telling the head to let it go. I feel this may take longer than 3 weeks to forget..

Wobbie

PureandEasy wrote:

oh wait now that I look at it, that's Mikey in the picture with you isn't it?

i need glasses BIG TIME.

yahamita was dating Mike????? Even though it didn't work out, that's awesome! 8-)

decides2dream

imalive wrote:

PureandEasy wrote:

oh wait now that I look at it, that's Mikey in the picture with you isn't it?

i need glasses BIG TIME.

yahamita was dating Mike????? Even though it didn't work out, that's awesome! 8-)

hahahahahahahaha.....awesome!
this is just how rumors get started...;)

soulsinging

yahamita wrote:

Horos wrote:

I'm sorry to hear this. I know for a while you very happy with that relationship and I'm sorry to hear you got hurt. There's plenty more good guys out there and I'm sure you'll overcome this and end up with a wonderful gentleman. I know if I hadn't been married for the last 22 years I'd be on my way over the pass to offer you some comfort. Hopefully this message will make you feel better. Just keep your head up and the right guy will find you.

Take care, Mike.

Awe, Thanks Mike..last night as soon as I got off of work, I went to a friends house to avoid being alone and having to drive by his house, he lives just down the street from me, I drank a few beers and got totally wasted since I hadn't eaten in 2 days. Just what I was trying to do so I could just get home and pass out. I was actually able to sleep last night. Still sick to the stomach today, and still telling the head to let it go. I feel this may take longer than 3 weeks to forget..

I hope you didn't drive back home... a dui or a dead body is not going to improve your mood.

yahamita

imalive wrote:

PureandEasy wrote:

oh wait now that I look at it, that's Mikey in the picture with you isn't it?

i need glasses BIG TIME.

yahamita was dating Mike????? Even though it didn't work out, that's awesome! 8-)

HAHAHAHAH!!!!!! A BIG thank you for the laugh out loud! Finally something to smile about.and I'll take a hit of whatever you have in that bong.

Released1980

dating a younger man would be the icing on the cake??? What cake? A man with daughter that is about to get divorced is a man that is being punished. And he tried to send you to your room....Fuck him, move on, have beer and play LUKIN loud as all hell.

Wobbie

yahamita wrote:

imalive wrote:

PureandEasy wrote:

oh wait now that I look at it, that's Mikey in the picture with you isn't it?

i need glasses BIG TIME.

yahamita was dating Mike????? Even though it didn't work out, that's awesome! 8-)

HAHAHAHAH!!!!!! A BIG thank you for the laugh out loud! Finally something to smile about.and I'll take a hit of whatever you have in that bong.

Bad thing is.....now I'm worried about both you AND Mike . Shit!!!

vedderoffdead

Hate to pee in your cheerios, but I actually left my cunt of a wife when I ran into the love of my life, and now we are happy, in love, & engaged. So, sometimes it pays to chase a married guy...