A mother’s Craigslist plea brings her kids a Christmas they’ll never forget
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A mother’s Craigslist plea brings her kids a Christmas they’ll never forget
Tyshika Britten tosses gifts to one of her sons waiting with open arms. (Michael S. Williamson/The Washington Post)
By Michael S. Rosenwald and Theresa Vargas December 25 at 4:44 PM
Donnell Booker Jr. tore through the wrapping paper on Christmas morning, revealing a seven-inch Kindle Fire and a smile nearly as wide.
“This is my tablet,” the 8-year-old said. “My tablet. Who got me this?”
It wasn’t his mother or father, even though they were dressed as elves.
“We don’t know,” said his father, Donnell Booker Sr. “It was someone very generous. That’s all we know.”
The tablet showed up one day last week after Booker’s mother, Tyshika Britten, posted a message on Craigslist saying her family of five boys and a baby girl were facing eviction from their home in Oxon Hill, Md. There probably wouldn’t be Christmas gifts, maybe not even a tree.
“I’m such a failure right now,” she wrote. “Please help me.”
Her message, thanks in part to a Washington Post article about her family’s troubles, went viral, generating hundreds of offers to help from around the world. Someone sent a PlayStation 4. Someone dropped off a puppy.
And someone named Eddie Vedder sent a check for $10,000.
“Is he in a band?” Britten asked.
Pearl Jam, Google told her. When the bank teller saw his name and the amount, his head dropped into his hands. The family has been watching his concerts online.
“I was just so moved by the story and what this mother did for her children,” Vedder said in an interview Sunday. “I thought those kids must be so proud of their mother for reaching out. That takes a lot of courage.”
Vedder said he saw some of his own childhood in their story.
Desperate parents plead for toys for children.
“There were years there were toys from Santa, but they were used and they came from garage sales and they didn’t always work,” he said. Vedder knows there are complex social issues beyond the range of his check, but he wanted to provide, as he put it, “a tourniquet” to help the family gain some control and normalcy.
A Christmas with presents helps, too.
Britten watched her kids tear the wrapping off video games, shirts, remote-control cars, winter coats, science sets, Legos, footballs, basketballs, and more — arriving at all hours in dozens of UPS truck deliveries, which was a new experience for the family. They have never ordered anything online.
The elves took the packages to the basement, where they divided them up and wrapped. And wrapped.
“Oh my Jesus, oh my Jesus, oh my Jesus,” 15-year-old Vashon said, unwrapping the PlayStation.
Chase, 3, gave a play-by-play of his presents.
Opening a car, he said, “A car.” Then he dropped it.
Opening a truck, he said, “A truck.” Then he dropped it.
Morgan, his 1-year-old sister, cradled a new baby doll. Asked the baby’s name, Morgan laughed.
The puppy, named Phoenix, looked tired. Nearby, hanging on the wall, was a sticker that read, “Bless the God Before Us And the Love Between Us.”
As they unwrapped the love, Britten suspected the hate was waiting for her on social media and in messages from a GoFundMe page she set up because people were requesting a way to send cash.
Online trolls have questioned her parenting ability and demanded she “close her legs.”
A friend on Facebook offered support.
“Don’t let the devil mess with your head,” she wrote.
Others criticized Britten for exposing and embarrassing her family. But the hairdresser and Booker, her longtime boyfriend and a struggling construction worker, don’t hide their financial problems.
Anyway, it would be impossible: They’ve moved multiple times and once ran a hose to a neighbor’s home for water.
“I’m not exposing my family,” she said in front of her children. “I’m exposing how a lot of people have to live. There are people all over this country who have the same problems we have. This is real life.”
Now the family is hoping this windfall — in addition to Vedder’s check, the GoFundMe page has raised nearly $18,000 — will give them, as Britten put it, “a head start” at securing a stable living situation. The landlord wants them out and is planning to visit them Tuesday, probably marking the end of their Christmas miracle.
They have dreams of buying their own home, of not living in the dark and cold in winter to conserve money for rent, of owning cars that don’t require the Lord’s Prayer to start.
They have regrets but don’t dwell on them.
“We are not perfect people,” Britten said. “We have made mistakes and that’s life, that’s what happens.”
And they think that in asking for help, and getting so much of it, they have given their children a present they can all share — a message that, no matter what, life is life and love is love.
“I am a proud mother of six,” she said. “I love my children. And I will take care of them, and I will get them what they need, any way I can.”
Torn wrapping paper was strewn everywhere. Outside, one of her sons squirted a toy fire extinguisher. The others were trying on new clothes, setting up their games, opening batteries for remote-control cars.
Britten took it all in.
“This year,” Britten said, “they got everything they wanted.”
A mother’s Craigslist plea brings her kids a Christmas they’ll never forget
Tyshika Britten tosses gifts to one of her sons waiting with open arms. (Michael S. Williamson/The Washington Post)
By Michael S. Rosenwald and Theresa Vargas December 25 at 4:44 PM
Donnell Booker Jr. tore through the wrapping paper on Christmas morning, revealing a seven-inch Kindle Fire and a smile nearly as wide.
“This is my tablet,” the 8-year-old said. “My tablet. Who got me this?”
It wasn’t his mother or father, even though they were dressed as elves.
“We don’t know,” said his father, Donnell Booker Sr. “It was someone very generous. That’s all we know.”
The tablet showed up one day last week after Booker’s mother, Tyshika Britten, posted a message on Craigslist saying her family of five boys and a baby girl were facing eviction from their home in Oxon Hill, Md. There probably wouldn’t be Christmas gifts, maybe not even a tree.
“I’m such a failure right now,” she wrote. “Please help me.”
Her message, thanks in part to a Washington Post article about her family’s troubles, went viral, generating hundreds of offers to help from around the world. Someone sent a PlayStation 4. Someone dropped off a puppy.
And someone named Eddie Vedder sent a check for $10,000.
“Is he in a band?” Britten asked.
Pearl Jam, Google told her. When the bank teller saw his name and the amount, his head dropped into his hands. The family has been watching his concerts online.
“I was just so moved by the story and what this mother did for her children,” Vedder said in an interview Sunday. “I thought those kids must be so proud of their mother for reaching out. That takes a lot of courage.”
Vedder said he saw some of his own childhood in their story.
Desperate parents plead for toys for children.
“There were years there were toys from Santa, but they were used and they came from garage sales and they didn’t always work,” he said. Vedder knows there are complex social issues beyond the range of his check, but he wanted to provide, as he put it, “a tourniquet” to help the family gain some control and normalcy.
A Christmas with presents helps, too.
Britten watched her kids tear the wrapping off video games, shirts, remote-control cars, winter coats, science sets, Legos, footballs, basketballs, and more — arriving at all hours in dozens of UPS truck deliveries, which was a new experience for the family. They have never ordered anything online.
The elves took the packages to the basement, where they divided them up and wrapped. And wrapped.
“Oh my Jesus, oh my Jesus, oh my Jesus,” 15-year-old Vashon said, unwrapping the PlayStation.
Chase, 3, gave a play-by-play of his presents.
Opening a car, he said, “A car.” Then he dropped it.
Opening a truck, he said, “A truck.” Then he dropped it.
Morgan, his 1-year-old sister, cradled a new baby doll. Asked the baby’s name, Morgan laughed.
The puppy, named Phoenix, looked tired. Nearby, hanging on the wall, was a sticker that read, “Bless the God Before Us And the Love Between Us.”
As they unwrapped the love, Britten suspected the hate was waiting for her on social media and in messages from a GoFundMe page she set up because people were requesting a way to send cash.
Online trolls have questioned her parenting ability and demanded she “close her legs.”
A friend on Facebook offered support.
“Don’t let the devil mess with your head,” she wrote.
Others criticized Britten for exposing and embarrassing her family. But the hairdresser and Booker, her longtime boyfriend and a struggling construction worker, don’t hide their financial problems.
Anyway, it would be impossible: They’ve moved multiple times and once ran a hose to a neighbor’s home for water.
“I’m not exposing my family,” she said in front of her children. “I’m exposing how a lot of people have to live. There are people all over this country who have the same problems we have. This is real life.”
Now the family is hoping this windfall — in addition to Vedder’s check, the GoFundMe page has raised nearly $18,000 — will give them, as Britten put it, “a head start” at securing a stable living situation. The landlord wants them out and is planning to visit them Tuesday, probably marking the end of their Christmas miracle.
They have dreams of buying their own home, of not living in the dark and cold in winter to conserve money for rent, of owning cars that don’t require the Lord’s Prayer to start.
They have regrets but don’t dwell on them.
“We are not perfect people,” Britten said. “We have made mistakes and that’s life, that’s what happens.”
And they think that in asking for help, and getting so much of it, they have given their children a present they can all share — a message that, no matter what, life is life and love is love.
“I am a proud mother of six,” she said. “I love my children. And I will take care of them, and I will get them what they need, any way I can.”
Torn wrapping paper was strewn everywhere. Outside, one of her sons squirted a toy fire extinguisher. The others were trying on new clothes, setting up their games, opening batteries for remote-control cars.
Britten took it all in.
“This year,” Britten said, “they got everything they wanted.”
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Warms the heartlooking to hear of the earth0
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Fantastic. If I had a lot of money, the best part of it to me, would be doing things like this for other people.
The members of Pearl Jam exemplify generous, good-hearted people.0 -
Love the giving this band gives forth, whether monetary or of themselves, their energy.
My husband's recent hospital stay has given us a lovely bill of near $100K.
If the fellas are willing to help out.......not like we'd argue
(kidding - not expected, and we will find a way to get that shit paid)
As to toys for children, on a personal front, I'd rather they get whatever the hell makes them happy and feel safe.
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That's really freaking cool. Bravo Mr. Vedder and all those that donated.Soldier Field, Chicago, IL 7-11-1995; United Center, Chicago, IL 6-29-1998; MGM Grand, Las Vegas, NV 10-22-2000 ~PJ10~; Pepsi Center, Denver, CO 4-1-2003; Cricket Pavilion, Phoenix, AZ 6-7-2003; United Center, Chicago, IL 6-18-2003; Alpine Valley, East Troy, WI 6-21-2003; Fox Theatre, St. Louis, MO 10-5-2004; The Gorge, George, WA 9-1-2005; United Center, Chicago, IL 5-16-2006; United Center, Chicago, IL 5-17-2006; Pepsi Center, Denver, CO 7-2-2006; Pepsi Center, Denver, CO 7-3-2006; United Center, Chicago, IL 8-23-2009; United Center, Chicago, IL 8-24-2009; Rogers Arena, Vancouver, BC 12-4-2013; Key Arena, Seattle, WA 12-6-2013; iWireless Arena, Moline, IL 10-17-2014 ~No Code Show~; Xcel Energy Center, St. Paul, MN 10-19-2014; Bradley Center, Milwaukee, WI 10-20-2014 ~Yield Show~; Pepsi Center, Denver, CO 10-22-2014 ~PJ24~: Wrigley Field 1 & 2, 2016; Safeco Field, Seattle Home Shows 1 & 2; Wrigley Field, Chicago Away Shows 1 & 2....0
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Well done.I LOVE MUSIC.
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And that's why Ed is the kick-ass person that he is. Beautiful story. Glad that family received some hope.0
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It's another PJ Christmas miracle!-Seattle,Wash-Key Arena-9/21/9 -Vancouver,B.C-Rogers Arena-12/4/13 -Vancouver,BC-Rogers Arena-5/6/24
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very nice gesture for sure. amazing actually.
i'd hope the family would put most of the funds towards keeping their shelter and putting food on the table rather than presents and such. hopefully things work out for the long term0 -
And this is what Christmas is all about.Mansfield 06.28.2008 | Boston 05.17.2010 | Boston 06.19.2011 EV solo | Wrigley Field 07.19.2013 | Worcester 10.15.2013 | Worcester 10.16.2013 | Hartford 10.25.2013
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EV had 2 wonderful stories on Xmas Day. So heartwarming to read yesterday.0
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I opened this up thinking it was a good, unPJ-related Christmas story. What a happy surprise to read that this was on the PJ board because Mr Vedder was part of the story. It was kind of him to help these people!
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This times 1000.RunIntoTheRain said:Fantastic. If I had a lot of money, the best part of it to me, would be doing things like this for other people.
The members of Pearl Jam exemplify generous, good-hearted people.
Thanks, Ed and the rest of the band, for continuing to set a good example for others.All those who seek to destroy the liberties of a democratic nation ought to know that war is the surest and shortest means to accomplish it.0 -
Awesome gesture Ed!I'll ride the wave where it takes me......0
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Ed is a good man0
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I haven't posted here in a very long time, but just wanted to say thanks for this. This matters.0
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Ed
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Good people doing good things. That's what it's all about. Things like this are what inspire others to do little things to help improve the days/lives of others on a more routine basis.
What's extra cool, is the donation did not need to be delivered in front of cameras. It was the grateful woman who didn't know who he was trying to make sure others knew how impactful and gracious this man's donation is to her and her family.
To this story, I say "good on you world!" This is a win."A smart monkey doesn't monkey around with another monkey's monkey" - Darwin's Theory0 -
We are going to need a lot more compassion like this in the world over the next 4 years. It aint coming from the government6/26/98 & 6/27/98 - Alpine Valley, 10/9/00 - Allstate Arena - Rosemont, IL 6/18/2003 - United Center, 5/16/2006 - United Center,
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