Technically the 1st Pearl Jam fan?

Tonybalsamo
Tonybalsamo Montlake, Seattle, WA Posts: 20
edited February 2024 in The Porch
Hello. My mom owned a restaurant in San Diego called Sicilia Restaurant near the San Diego State University area.

I was 13 years old at the time. A few doors down from our restaurant was a record shop called “Off The Wall Records” which I frequented often. 

One day in the early Summer if 1991, I went to off the wall and the worker there was telling me about this band called “Pearl Jam” and they would be eating at my moms restaurant that night for the release of their new album… he gave me a circular poster of their album ‘ten’ and he said, get this signed, this band is going to be huge.

that evening, they in fact came to my moms restaurant and sat at table B2. 
I shyly approached the table and asked if I could have their autograph. Little did I know at the time, but Eddie Vedder said loudly “our first official fan”. Not only did they sign the poster, but they also signed a CD for me. In a kind gesture, I asked my mom if we could cover their drinks on their bills which she approved…

As they were leaving, Eddie asked who was my favorite band at the time which I said Alice In Chains… several weeks later I received this care package from Eddie with several items from Alice In Chains (special shirts, cd’s, etc). I was so amazed by this gesture, even at 13 did not know what to make of it and of course, crazily excited. he recognized our kind gesture and was Thoughtful to repay the gesture… gone are these acts of generosity and kindness. 

A few months go by and Eddie shows up with his brothers to eat -as he was playing a show that weekend down the street at a place called Winters. They sat at table C4. In return for the very kind care package, I asked my mom if we could comp their dinner, which she approved. 

In 1993 we sold the restaurant. The new owners contacted me saying someone stopped by and wrote me a letter on the back of a paper place mat. Of course, it was Eddie. I had no way to connect as I did not have his contact details. The restaurant was sold again to a new owner. He stopped by once more to visit and left me another letter with cosmic and inspirational worlds. I still have both letters.

just a crazy special experience in life with a truly talented group, and a very thoughtful and generous being. 



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  • on2legs
    on2legs Posts: 15,990
    I’m in awe!  So amazing… thank you for sharing it with everyone here!  
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  • Awesome story! Thanks for sharing:)
  • Go Animal
    Go Animal Posts: 7,360
    This is the coolest thing I've ever read on here🙌
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  • Jimmydean55
    Jimmydean55 Posts: 1,563
    Wow. Simply amazing. Thanks for sharing!
  • igotid88
    igotid88 Posts: 28,657
    Cool
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  • JOEJOEJOE
    JOEJOEJOE Posts: 10,827
    Ed seems to put a lot of thought into his words 
  • 2-feign-reluctance
    2-feign-reluctance TigerTown, USA Posts: 23,462
    Amazing OP! This is what I love about this place! 
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  • mcgruff10
    mcgruff10 New Jersey Posts: 29,131
    Wow! 
    I'll ride the wave where it takes me......
  • danlee1095
    danlee1095 Posts: 1,316
    Absolutely epic story. EV really such a good person. Amazing stuff Tony!
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  • primussucks
    primussucks Posts: 2,365
    This is awesome!  Thanks for sharing!
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  • MDYoung
    MDYoung Michigan Posts: 78
    Beautiful, thanks for sharing!
  • gotthebottle
    gotthebottle San Diego Posts: 3,803
    As a San Diegan myself our city will always have a special connection to the band... really great story/ memory to have
  • Spunkie
    Spunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 7,095
    Hello. My mom owned a restaurant in San Diego called Sicilia Restaurant near the San Diego State University area.

    I was 13 years old at the time. A few doors down from our restaurant was a record shop called “Off The Wall” which I frequented often. 

    One day in the early Summer if 1991, I went to off the wall and the worker there was telling me about this band called “Pearl Jam” and they would be eating at my moms restaurant that night for the release of their new album… he gave me a circular poster of their album ‘ten’ and he said, get this signed, this band is going to be huge.

    that evening, they in fact came to my moms restaurant and sat at table B2. 
    I shyly approached the table and asked if I could have their autograph. Little did I know at the time, but Eddie Vedder said loudly “our first official fan”. Not only did they sign the poster, but they also signed a CD for me. In a kind gesture, I asked my mom if we could cover their drinks on their bills which she approved…

    As they were leaving, Eddie asked who was my favorite band at the time which I said Alice In Chains… several weeks later I received this care package from Eddie with several items from Alice In Chains (special shirts, cd’s, etc). I was so amazed by this gesture, even at 13 did not know what to make of it and of course, crazily excited. he recognized our kind gesture and was Thoughtful to repay the gesture… gone are these acts of generosity and kindness. 

    A few months go by and Eddie shows up with his brothers to eat -as he was playing a show that weekend down the street at a place called Winters. They sat at table C4. In return for the very kind care package, I asked my mom if we could comp their dinner, which she approved. 

    In 1993 we sold the restaurant. The new owners contacted me saying someone stopped by and wrote me a letter on the back of a paper place mat. Of course, it was Eddie. I had no way to connect as I did not have his contact details. The restaurant was sold again to a new owner. He stopped by once more to visit and left me another letter with cosmic and inspirational worlds. I still have both letters.

    just a crazy special experience in life with a truly talented group, and a very thoughtful and generous being. 

    ?

    So what you're saying is - he writes like he sings? 😆

    I think that's a fantastic, Tony,  but I am not going to try to read those words!
    I'm glad you shared your snapshot of his beautifu, lovely, kindnesses.
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  • BLACK35
    BLACK35 Hanover, Ontario Posts: 22,975
    So very cool, thanks for sharing your story! That’s amazing 
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  • CROJAM95
    CROJAM95 Posts: 10,881
    edited January 2024
    90s were so much cooler, no reality stars…. Just the ones on COPS 🤣

    thanks for sharing

    very sweet stuff
  • BF25394
    BF25394 Posts: 4,940
    CROJAM95 said:
    90s were so much cooler, no reality stars…. Just the ones on COPS 🤣

    thanks for sharing

    very sweet stuff
    "The Real World" debuted the same year Pearl Jam showed up on MTV, 1992.
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  • CROJAM95
    CROJAM95 Posts: 10,881
    BF25394 said:
    CROJAM95 said:
    90s were so much cooler, no reality stars…. Just the ones on COPS 🤣

    thanks for sharing

    very sweet stuff
    "The Real World" debuted the same year Pearl Jam showed up on MTV, 1992.
    We in 1991… let’s just roll with Cops 🤣 when the fuckin dog got a mouth full of ass in some random open lot at night 🤣🤣
  • deb1211
    deb1211 Posts: 2,061
    Such a great story. Ed always such a great person. 
  • The Juggler
    The Juggler Posts: 49,598
    "Do you know Red Hot Chili Peppers?" --ha...this is great. Thanks for sharing. 
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  • This gave me goosebumps

    Fantastic
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