Tips On How To Be a Better Friend...

...when you feel damn near dead inside. How does that work? 
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  • Annafalk
    Annafalk Sweden Posts: 4,004
    I have a feeling you are a great friend  :) 
  • Just listen i guess 


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • Just listen i guess 
    Yes.  
  • dankind
    dankind Posts: 20,841
    A friend in need is a ...



    ... pain in the ass! :lol:
    I SAW PEARL JAM
  • rgambs
    rgambs Posts: 13,576
    Annafalk said:
    I have a feeling you are a great friend  :) 
    +1

    I feel like all you have to do to be a good friend is just keep trying!
    Monkey Driven, Call this Living?
  • rgambs said:
    Annafalk said:
    I have a feeling you are a great friend  :) 
    +1

    I feel like all you have to do to be a good friend is just keep trying!
    Yes and stay out of the left lane...
  • Annafalk
    Annafalk Sweden Posts: 4,004
    Bring food.
  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    Say you are sorry, but accept it if it's not accepted. 
    2014: Cincinnati
    2016: Lexington and Wrigley 1
  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,812
    Same advice as with any relationship when you feel it needs to be better -- make it about the other person.
    (Course, I don't feel damn near dead inside, so I cannot truly consider that factor.)
    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • This is a really good list so far! I'm glad I didn't scrap this idea.

    Annafalk said:
    I have a feeling you are a great friend  :) 
    Thank you!
  • Hobbes
    Hobbes Pacific Northwest Posts: 6,438
    Your heart is true, you're a pal and a confidant.
  • :lol:
  • Hobbes said:
    Your heart is true, you're a pal and a confidant.
    If there was a card attached, what would it say?
  • brianlux
    brianlux Moving through All Kinds of Terrain. Posts: 43,663
    Be honest when the situation calls for honesty, be discreet when the situation calls for discretion.
    "It's a sad and beautiful world"
    -Roberto Benigni

  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    Chocolate. Always. 
    2014: Cincinnati
    2016: Lexington and Wrigley 1
  • deadendp said:
    Chocolate. Always. 
    Milk, Dark or both?  White is not an option so don't even think about it.  No self respected connoisseur of chocolate considers white part of the club...
  • Say "yes" when you can do something or be somewhere.
    Say "no" if you can't make it or are uninterested in doing something.
    Eliminate "maybe" and "we'll see".
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    First figure out why you're near-dead inside?

    For true friendships, honesty and acceptance seem to work for me.  Being there, even just to listen, makes a difference.

    And while it goes both ways, never does quid pro quo come into play.
  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    deadendp said:
    Chocolate. Always. 
    Milk, Dark or both?  White is not an option so don't even think about it.  No self respected connoisseur of chocolate considers white part of the club...
    White is not chocolate. It is wax. It is gross. 

    Dark chocolate, please. Milk is acceptable, but dark is most definitely preferred. :smiley:
    2014: Cincinnati
    2016: Lexington and Wrigley 1
  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    edited November 2019

    I wasn't completely correct. 
    2014: Cincinnati
    2016: Lexington and Wrigley 1