Standing up in seated sections....

PP193448 · July 2018

sheri zona said:

If a person is disabled and behind me, I'd just swap seats. I don't care if I'm a foot farther back. They enjoy the show, I enjoy the show. Otherwise, if they just want to sit...that's their prerogative but geez...I wait sometimes years to see the boys perform, I can't bottle that shit up!!

This

aidt17 · July 2018

I remember we we went to a Matt Good show in Hamilton at a venue that was all seated. Some people standing (my wife and I included but no one seated around us wanted us to sit down, or atleast they didnt voice their opinion) Matt Good stops playing pulls out a stool and starts playing some slow music sitting down (not even sure it was his song) gets midway through and goes "how do you fucking people like it, this is a rock show, why is everyone sitting, is it better if I sit as well???!!) That got pretty much everyone standing and he got back into rocking out. It was funny to see his reaction to the majority of people sitting, almost like it was insulting to him (only my opinion) but thats what it seemed like.

milan · July 2018

Bruce Springsteen in Perth Arena W.A.

2 Tours 4 shows. Other than a small pit it was all seated.

Having travelled half way round the world I was for standing.

Hardly anyone in the seats stood up at all 4 shows.

1st show I was threatended with knife across the neck action if I didn't sit.

2nd Show I was back row of the flat and stood all night. This night he opened with Highway to Hell to get every one up. Not a chance. Later in the show they put a 30 secend countdown on the big screens and he said they would quit if people were not standing by the end of the 30 seconds. On the last 2 or 3 seconds people stood for that song then sat again.

3rd show side stage and no around us standing so many complaints when we stood. So we headed down to a disabled section much nearer the stage and stood behind the wheelchairs etc and rocked out. Looked back up to our section and even during the climax of the show they were still all seated.

4th show luckily in the pit but rest of the arena seated.

Some people eh?

Gern Blansten · July 2018

I stand unless the people in front of me are sitting....doesn't happen often

mace1229 · July 2018

texasistheSTEVEN said:

facepollution said:

dingers said:

F Me In The Brain said:

Sit if you like but don't be bummed when people stand.
I get that some cannot stand for three hours. That is unfortunate...but that should not deter others from standing. I sat during Bee Girl. And Yellow Poon. And Parachutes. Any and all times I saw them.
Not much else that I can recall. Those were nice rest songs, though.

See this I don't get ... shows like last night there for those who want to stand there was general admission standing ... if you buy a seated ticket you should fully expect people to want to sit, how would people feel if those st the rail decided to sit? There's be uproar but it's the same logic, becusse they want to sit they should be allowed....

I had to take the tickets I could get at the time they went on sale, the show sold out in no time. Also, it does say in the terms and conditions that "other people might stand up around you during the event". Also, to those with disabilities, the arena will usually accommodate your needs if you speak to them. And finally, like I said, the majority of the arena was standing anyway, so I think it's a bit unreasonable/unrealistic to expect just a few people to sit down.

Playing devils advocate, but what if you have a hidden disability and dont want to be in a "disabled section" or want any special treatment?Or what if you simply have trouble standing?

You don’t want special treatment, but want to make others sit when they want to stand?
10c made it very clear GA was very limited, so the argument that if you want to stand go with GA doesn’t hold up.

i don’t think there’s a perfect answer do the exceptions. I’ve never sat at a PJ show and don’t plan to. I’d feel bad if the person behind me has a physical disability preventing them from standing. But as others said, there are accommodations for that. If you are to ashamed to ask for those accommodations then I guess it isn’t fair to ask someone to sit.
sometimes they may not be available or whatever, and if someone told me they physically couldn’t stand then I may switch with them.
But how is that any different from me being 5’9” getting stuck behind someone 6’6” in GA?

KC138045 · July 2018

I've never had anyone sit down around me at a Pearl Jam show. Only time i was in a section where everyone was sitting was at a Black Keys show and we were in the 300 level at the opposite end from the stage. Did not seem right to be sitting during a concert.

Hi! · July 2018

This happened to me recently. I didn't even say anything to the person. I immediately walked up to security and told them person behind me is harassing me to sit down. The security said no problem and went over to the sitter and told him to shut up or get out. Fucker, think I'm sitting at a rock show, no thanks.

crookedcross · July 2018

Communicate respectfully. I stand and if the energy gets me going, I jump and headbang. A lot. All while being mindful of others around me. I don't bump, I don't spill. The problem I've had with this is the few times I've been asked, people came at me very aggressively right off the bat, like I'm a dick for standing up. Depending on the crowd in front of me, I will consider sitting for those unable to stand if they ask nicely. However, if you talk to me in a I'm-gonna-tell-you-how-to-live-your-life kinda tone, I will just say no and remain standing up for the rest of the time. Ok, I know we're watching the Avengers in a theater! And?!

know1 · July 2018

It's never occurred to me to sit down in a Pearl Jam concert ever (other than between encores). I'll admit that if I'm the only one standing in my section or nobody is standing in front of me, I do feel a bit self conscious, but I'm not sure it would even be possible for me to sit.

PP193448 · July 2018

Yeah, I’ve never seen anyone sit at a PJ show, but I’ve only been to 13 of them. Saw plenty of dudes standing with arms crossed motionless in the GA section. Maybe they should trade with people who want to jump around, sing, dance, and show some emotion. Geez. You’re at a fucking rock concert.

HesCalledDyer · July 2018

I was in the upper level at Charlottesville. My entire section was sitting. Except for me and my friends. I even tried coaxing everyone up off their asses. Turned around, faced them all, waving my arms upward. People just smiled and laughed and kept sitting. Bums.

Poncier · July 2018

milan said:

Bruce Springsteen in Perth Arena W.A.
2 Tours 4 shows. Other than a small pit it was all seated.
Having travelled half way round the world I was for standing.
Hardly anyone in the seats stood up at all 4 shows.

1st show I was threatended with knife across the neck action if I didn't sit.

Next time don't sit in front of this guy...

Poncier · July 2018

PP193448 said:

Yeah, I’ve never seen anyone sit at a PJ show, but I’ve only been to 13 of them. Saw plenty of dudes standing with arms crossed motionless in the GA section. Maybe they should trade with people who want to jump around, sing, dance, and show some emotion. Geez. You’re at a fucking rock concert.

They were probably musicians.

fizzyade · July 2018

Just to weigh in on this. We had seated tickets for last night and I remained seated throughout the show.

I have a number of hidden disabilities and normally we'd buy disabled access tickets, but when the tickets went back on sale for the second night there were none available so I grabbed what I could knowing that I'd have to remain seated (use a wheelchair for gigs).

I spent the whole evening in considerable pain because I forgot to bring my morphine, but still had an ace time. I've learned to accept that people want to stand at some gigs in seated areas, so it's my lookout and it's for that very reason that we buy accessible tickets so that I can remain seated.

I pretty much had an unobstructed view of the screens all night and the people in front would sit down or nip out every so often so I got to see the stage as well occasionally.

What was slightly annoying was that there were loads of spaces on the platform, so if I'd bought my wheelchair I probably could have sorted it out.

It is what it is, I don't think I have any more particular right to have people sit down in front of me just because I have to remain seated.

What was funny though was that my seat had been sold twice, somebody came along with a ticket with exactly the same seat number! Seemed to happen to a few folks as well.

texasistheSTEVEN · July 2018

mace1229 said:p

texasistheSTEVEN said:

facepollution said:

dingers said:

F Me In The Brain said:

Sit if you like but don't be bummed when people stand.
I get that some cannot stand for three hours. That is unfortunate...but that should not deter others from standing. I sat during Bee Girl. And Yellow Poon. And Parachutes. Any and all times I saw them.
Not much else that I can recall. Those were nice rest songs, though.

See this I don't get ... shows like last night there for those who want to stand there was general admission standing ... if you buy a seated ticket you should fully expect people to want to sit, how would people feel if those st the rail decided to sit? There's be uproar but it's the same logic, becusse they want to sit they should be allowed....

I had to take the tickets I could get at the time they went on sale, the show sold out in no time. Also, it does say in the terms and conditions that "other people might stand up around you during the event". Also, to those with disabilities, the arena will usually accommodate your needs if you speak to them. And finally, like I said, the majority of the arena was standing anyway, so I think it's a bit unreasonable/unrealistic to expect just a few people to sit down.

Playing devils advocate, but what if you have a hidden disability and dont want to be in a "disabled section" or want any special treatment?Or what if you simply have trouble standing?

You don’t want special treatment, but want to make others sit when they want to stand?
10c made it very clear GA was very limited, so the argument that if you want to stand go with GA doesn’t hold up.

i don’t think there’s a perfect answer do the exceptions. I’ve never sat at a PJ show and don’t plan to. I’d feel bad if the person behind me has a physical disability preventing them from standing. But as others said, there are accommodations for that. If you are to ashamed to ask for those accommodations then I guess it isn’t fair to ask someone to sit.
sometimes they may not be available or whatever, and if someone told me they physically couldn’t stand then I may switch with them.
But how is that any different from me being 5’9” getting stuck behind someone 6’6” in GA?

Last time i stood in seating i had a chat with people behind me to make sure they were going to stand and if not then i was going to offer to swap seats. Just taking care of those nearby really.

I think its stupid to sit at a gig in the same way i stand at football matches as i physically cant sit down because its too exciting.

BUT and this is the big but here, its not fair for anyone to assume anything about the people around them. If someone asks you to sit down then you can ask them to swap or ask them if they want to stand up. Standing in front of someone who has asked you to sit is so arrogant and not in the spirit id expect with PJ fans.

There is no perfect solution but being considerate of your neighbour isnt an unfair thing to ask.

Seems like the OP didnt make any provision, was asked to sit and almost told them to fuck off. That's so out of order.

Rock gig or not. Just consider others may have issues and be nice to people. Its not that tough is it

dionnesimone · July 2018

I think when going to a high energy rock show, as an attendee you need to expect that a large number of the crowd will be standing, singing and yelling. If you are a person with special needs that needs to stay seated, I think it's important to plan your seating location accordingly if possible. If you have no issues standing the whole time but are seated next to a handicap location, dude you really should sit or move to a different location.

Read the room, read the performers.

fizzyade · July 2018

dionnesimone said:

I think when going to a high energy rock show, as an attendee you need to expect that a large number of the crowd will be standing, singing and yelling. If you are a person with special needs that needs to stay seated, I think it's important to plan your seating location accordingly if possible. If you have no issues standing the whole time but are seated next to a handicap location, dude you really should sit or move to a different location.

Read the room, read the performers.

Unfortunately it's not quite as simple as that.

There are only limited spaces for accessible customers and they generally fall into 2 categories, ambulatory and non ambulatory. Priority for the platforms is given to wheelchair users, other disabled access customers may be given seats in general seating where there are limited steps, no guarantee of being on the front of a row or anything.

Last night was the first time for a long time that I've sat in normal seating, but being a seasoned gig goer I knew people would be standing around me and I knew this when I booked the tickets (as I couldn't get accessible ones in the resale) but the opportunity came up for tickets for the second night so couldn't resist.

The O2 is pretty good for access, they have a number of platforms but for popular gigs people are always going to lose out.

You have to make the best of the situation though.

In an ideal world there would be enough accessible seating spaces for everyone, but sadly there isn't.

PJWGIII · July 2018

Eddieredder said:

I think its OK for people to ask. But they should never have an expectation that someone will actually comply. Its a concert! Same at any sporting event. That dude has an unrealistic expectation.

100%.

People who don't want to stand are blessed with the official bootlegs, giving them the easy ability to hear the whole concert for a lower price, and they can do whatever they want. It blows my mind people actually expect anyone to sit down.

PJWGIII · July 2018

ZeldaZonk said:

Speaking as someone who usually sits the majority of any show, not all of us are able to physically endure standing for three or more hours. I go to multiple shows a month, but I couldn't do it if I had to stand. I shouldn't be expected to "go watch a f*ucking opera" or "stay home and watch on tv" or "go home and watch on youtube". That's pretty rude. I'd love to be able to hang out in GA like most of us would prefer, but it's not in the cards. Yet I don't want to miss out on an amazing live performance and shouldn't be expected to, so the seats are my option. And I'm definitely one of those who dances in the seats, so don't think I'm not having a blast just because I'm not standing. It's just not ideal to be trying to see the show when all you can see are the people's backs and butts in front of you. Watching it on the jumbo screens is NOT the same, but sometimes that's the only way to see.

And for those who think sitting during a concert is lame, I was at a rock show in Seattle two months ago. It was front row of the balcony, and I had two members of PJ sitting in the same row as me. One was directly next to me on my right, the other was a few seats down on my left side. Do you think either of them stood? NOPE! And out of respect for the guys, that's all I'm going to say about that evening.

This is completely a valid point of view, but you wouldn't have the expectation that people will sit down, correct?

Brisk. · July 2018

Pearl Jam feed off the energy which can make a show great. I guess people enjoy shows in their own way but I can't help to move around when they are playing. If you were seeing something more of a show with lights etc then I guess seating would be ok.

So not unreasonable but it's hard to get into the mindest of a casual fan.

Standing up in seated sections....

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