Remember when..
Comments
-
Interesting. All good points. Indeed, if the term p***y is supposed to be in reference to the female genitalia, I agree. It's like "stop being such a girl" and other awful comments like that. I mean Jesus, how insulting can it get?? However, I actually always thought of the word in terms of cats. I.e. scaredy cat. Nervous like a pussy cat. That's why I never thought the term in that context was offensive. So this caused me to look the origin of the word usage, and it turns out we're all wrong. Supposedly the origin of the term pussy as a synonym of coward comes from the word "pusillanimous", which means "lacking courage and resolution : marked by contemptible timidity" according to Merriam-Webster. So the term is actually not offensive to cats nor sexist.HesCalledDyer said:
I say wussification.dankind said:I like Clint Eastwood and RogueStoner and all, but based on my experience with the men and women in my life, "pussification" should mean make stronger, not make weaker.
To say otherwise is not only sexist but, in my opinion, it's incredibly ignorant.
But if someone who used the word pussy to call someone a coward actually thinks that it means female genitalia, then that person is obviously an asshole.... pun intended.With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata0 -
That is honestly very good information. So now I can use it at the dinner table without being reprimanded. Thank you.PJ_Soul said:
Interesting. All good points. Indeed, if the term p***y is supposed to be in reference to the female genitalia, I agree. It's like "stop being such a girl" and other awful comments like that. I mean Jesus, how insulting can it get?? However, I actually always thought of the word in terms of cats. I.e. scaredy cat. Nervous like a pussy cat. That's why I never thought the term in that context was offensive. So this caused me to look the origin of the word usage, and it turns out we're all wrong. Supposedly the origin of the term pussy as a synonym of coward comes from the word "pusillanimous", which means "lacking courage and resolution : marked by contemptible timidity" according to Merriam-Webster. So the term is actually not offensive to cats nor sexist.HesCalledDyer said:
I say wussification.dankind said:I like Clint Eastwood and RogueStoner and all, but based on my experience with the men and women in my life, "pussification" should mean make stronger, not make weaker.
To say otherwise is not only sexist but, in my opinion, it's incredibly ignorant.
But if someone who used the word pussy to call someone a coward actually thinks that it means female genitalia, then that person is obviously an asshole.... pun intended.0 -
mrussel1 said:
That is honestly very good information. So now I can use it at the dinner table without being reprimanded. Thank you.PJ_Soul said:
Interesting. All good points. Indeed, if the term p***y is supposed to be in reference to the female genitalia, I agree. It's like "stop being such a girl" and other awful comments like that. I mean Jesus, how insulting can it get?? However, I actually always thought of the word in terms of cats. I.e. scaredy cat. Nervous like a pussy cat. That's why I never thought the term in that context was offensive. So this caused me to look the origin of the word usage, and it turns out we're all wrong. Supposedly the origin of the term pussy as a synonym of coward comes from the word "pusillanimous", which means "lacking courage and resolution : marked by contemptible timidity" according to Merriam-Webster. So the term is actually not offensive to cats nor sexist.HesCalledDyer said:
I say wussification.dankind said:I like Clint Eastwood and RogueStoner and all, but based on my experience with the men and women in my life, "pussification" should mean make stronger, not make weaker.
To say otherwise is not only sexist but, in my opinion, it's incredibly ignorant.
But if someone who used the word pussy to call someone a coward actually thinks that it means female genitalia, then that person is obviously an asshole.... pun intended.
I SAW PEARL JAM0 -
Ha! More hilarity!dankind said:mrussel1 said:
That is honestly very good information. So now I can use it at the dinner table without being reprimanded. Thank you.PJ_Soul said:
Interesting. All good points. Indeed, if the term p***y is supposed to be in reference to the female genitalia, I agree. It's like "stop being such a girl" and other awful comments like that. I mean Jesus, how insulting can it get?? However, I actually always thought of the word in terms of cats. I.e. scaredy cat. Nervous like a pussy cat. That's why I never thought the term in that context was offensive. So this caused me to look the origin of the word usage, and it turns out we're all wrong. Supposedly the origin of the term pussy as a synonym of coward comes from the word "pusillanimous", which means "lacking courage and resolution : marked by contemptible timidity" according to Merriam-Webster. So the term is actually not offensive to cats nor sexist.HesCalledDyer said:
I say wussification.dankind said:I like Clint Eastwood and RogueStoner and all, but based on my experience with the men and women in my life, "pussification" should mean make stronger, not make weaker.
To say otherwise is not only sexist but, in my opinion, it's incredibly ignorant.
But if someone who used the word pussy to call someone a coward actually thinks that it means female genitalia, then that person is obviously an asshole.... pun intended.
In all honesty PJ_Soul, my guess is the vast majority of men who use that word believe it is slang for the female part. That's what I thought it was.0 -
"My brain's a good brain!"0
-
You're all right. Men do use that word with females in mind. I agree, it is degrading. I guess I've heard it so much I didn't even consider that aspect but still no excuse to be an ignoramous and use that term myself.
PJS, thanks for looking that up. That's interesting. And I'll be sure to drop that in conversation sometime and look hella smart.0 -
it really bugs me when people talk about "today's youth" and how spoiled they are and weak they are and whatnot. how did that happen? they didn't just come out of the womb that way. they were TAUGHT that way by the generation bitching about them! as someone else said, each generation has it easier than the last as a result of technology and innovation. it doesn't mean they are weaker, it means they are used to fewer hardships. I'm sure they'd be just as resiliant in a time of crisis as any of us. it's not like millenials are that much different from gen x-ers. a school cancelling for a snow day isn't because the kids are whiners. it's because the adults making the rules think the kids can't handle it. and that's whose fault it is.
I think we also tend to suffer from revisionist history a bit. did I have to walk to school in the freezing cold and blizzard like conditions? yep. did I whine about it? of course I did. I wasn't walking to school with a pipe in my mouth and my fists clenched and a scowl shouting "you won't beat me!" to the heavens.
and I'm from the coldest shithole in NA.
anyway, back to the thread.Your boos mean nothing to me, for I have seen what makes you cheer0 -
I guess so! I always thought they were two different words altogether. It's a word for female genitalia (a term that I don't find offensive when used that way; it's just slang with no other context, like a partner of the word schlong or whatever, lol). And then I just thought the other use of the word - the one used for wusses - is unrelated. I guess that makes me naive.mrussel1 said:
Ha! More hilarity!dankind said:mrussel1 said:
That is honestly very good information. So now I can use it at the dinner table without being reprimanded. Thank you.PJ_Soul said:
Interesting. All good points. Indeed, if the term p***y is supposed to be in reference to the female genitalia, I agree. It's like "stop being such a girl" and other awful comments like that. I mean Jesus, how insulting can it get?? However, I actually always thought of the word in terms of cats. I.e. scaredy cat. Nervous like a pussy cat. That's why I never thought the term in that context was offensive. So this caused me to look the origin of the word usage, and it turns out we're all wrong. Supposedly the origin of the term pussy as a synonym of coward comes from the word "pusillanimous", which means "lacking courage and resolution : marked by contemptible timidity" according to Merriam-Webster. So the term is actually not offensive to cats nor sexist.HesCalledDyer said:
I say wussification.dankind said:I like Clint Eastwood and RogueStoner and all, but based on my experience with the men and women in my life, "pussification" should mean make stronger, not make weaker.
To say otherwise is not only sexist but, in my opinion, it's incredibly ignorant.
But if someone who used the word pussy to call someone a coward actually thinks that it means female genitalia, then that person is obviously an asshole.... pun intended.
In all honesty PJ_Soul, my guess is the vast majority of men who use that word believe it is slang for the female part. That's what I thought it was.Post edited by PJ_Soul onWith all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata0 -
Just for the record... snow days are complete linked to risk: keeping everyone off the roads until they are safe to travel (at least here they are).HughFreakingDillon said:it really bugs me when people talk about "today's youth" and how spoiled they are and weak they are and whatnot. how did that happen? they didn't just come out of the womb that way. they were TAUGHT that way by the generation bitching about them! as someone else said, each generation has it easier than the last as a result of technology and innovation. it doesn't mean they are weaker, it means they are used to fewer hardships. I'm sure they'd be just as resiliant in a time of crisis as any of us. it's not like millenials are that much different from gen x-ers. a school cancelling for a snow day isn't because the kids are whiners. it's because the adults making the rules think the kids can't handle it. and that's whose fault it is.
I think we also tend to suffer from revisionist history a bit. did I have to walk to school in the freezing cold and blizzard like conditions? yep. did I whine about it? of course I did. I wasn't walking to school with a pipe in my mouth and my fists clenched and a scowl shouting "you won't beat me!" to the heavens.
and I'm from the coldest shithole in NA.
anyway, back to the thread.
Winterpeg. Eesh. Was there coaching a few years back. Sorry, Hugh. It never left a great impression with me. It was cold. And flat. I wanted out of there."My brain's a good brain!"0 -
Easy TB.Thirty Bills Unpaid said:
Just for the record... snow days are complete linked to risk: keeping everyone off the roads until they are safe to travel (at least here they are).HughFreakingDillon said:it really bugs me when people talk about "today's youth" and how spoiled they are and weak they are and whatnot. how did that happen? they didn't just come out of the womb that way. they were TAUGHT that way by the generation bitching about them! as someone else said, each generation has it easier than the last as a result of technology and innovation. it doesn't mean they are weaker, it means they are used to fewer hardships. I'm sure they'd be just as resiliant in a time of crisis as any of us. it's not like millenials are that much different from gen x-ers. a school cancelling for a snow day isn't because the kids are whiners. it's because the adults making the rules think the kids can't handle it. and that's whose fault it is.
I think we also tend to suffer from revisionist history a bit. did I have to walk to school in the freezing cold and blizzard like conditions? yep. did I whine about it? of course I did. I wasn't walking to school with a pipe in my mouth and my fists clenched and a scowl shouting "you won't beat me!" to the heavens.
and I'm from the coldest shithole in NA.
anyway, back to the thread.
Winterpeg. Eesh. Was there coaching a few years back. Sorry, Hugh. It never left a great impression with me. It was cold. And flat. I wanted out of there.
Winterpeg isn't a tourist hotspot but damn can they handle the cold.
Not as well as people from Saskatchewan though.
0 -
I agree with you that keeping everyone safe until roads are safe to travel is necessary. 6-8 inches of snow, yes delay school or call it off until the plows roll through. Calling school off when it rains just because they said it might snow, on the other hand, is taking it too far.Thirty Bills Unpaid said:
Just for the record... snow days are complete linked to risk: keeping everyone off the roads until they are safe to travel (at least here they are).HughFreakingDillon said:it really bugs me when people talk about "today's youth" and how spoiled they are and weak they are and whatnot. how did that happen? they didn't just come out of the womb that way. they were TAUGHT that way by the generation bitching about them! as someone else said, each generation has it easier than the last as a result of technology and innovation. it doesn't mean they are weaker, it means they are used to fewer hardships. I'm sure they'd be just as resiliant in a time of crisis as any of us. it's not like millenials are that much different from gen x-ers. a school cancelling for a snow day isn't because the kids are whiners. it's because the adults making the rules think the kids can't handle it. and that's whose fault it is.
I think we also tend to suffer from revisionist history a bit. did I have to walk to school in the freezing cold and blizzard like conditions? yep. did I whine about it? of course I did. I wasn't walking to school with a pipe in my mouth and my fists clenched and a scowl shouting "you won't beat me!" to the heavens.
and I'm from the coldest shithole in NA.
anyway, back to the thread.
Winterpeg. Eesh. Was there coaching a few years back. Sorry, Hugh. It never left a great impression with me. It was cold. And flat. I wanted out of there.Star Lake 00 / Pittsburgh 03 / State College 03 / Bristow 03 / Cleveland 06 / Camden II 06 / DC 08 / Pittsburgh 13 / Baltimore 13 / Charlottesville 13 / Cincinnati 14 / St. Paul 14 / Hampton 16 / Wrigley I 16 / Wrigley II 16 / Baltimore 20 / Camden 22 / Baltimore 24 / Raleigh I 25 / Raleigh II 25 / Pittsburgh I 250 -
Proud to say I was born in Saskatchewan (Saskatoon)!PJfanwillneverleave1 said:
Easy TB.Thirty Bills Unpaid said:
Just for the record... snow days are complete linked to risk: keeping everyone off the roads until they are safe to travel (at least here they are).HughFreakingDillon said:it really bugs me when people talk about "today's youth" and how spoiled they are and weak they are and whatnot. how did that happen? they didn't just come out of the womb that way. they were TAUGHT that way by the generation bitching about them! as someone else said, each generation has it easier than the last as a result of technology and innovation. it doesn't mean they are weaker, it means they are used to fewer hardships. I'm sure they'd be just as resiliant in a time of crisis as any of us. it's not like millenials are that much different from gen x-ers. a school cancelling for a snow day isn't because the kids are whiners. it's because the adults making the rules think the kids can't handle it. and that's whose fault it is.
I think we also tend to suffer from revisionist history a bit. did I have to walk to school in the freezing cold and blizzard like conditions? yep. did I whine about it? of course I did. I wasn't walking to school with a pipe in my mouth and my fists clenched and a scowl shouting "you won't beat me!" to the heavens.
and I'm from the coldest shithole in NA.
anyway, back to the thread.
Winterpeg. Eesh. Was there coaching a few years back. Sorry, Hugh. It never left a great impression with me. It was cold. And flat. I wanted out of there.
Winterpeg isn't a tourist hotspot but damn can they handle the cold.
Not as well as people from Saskatchewan though.
Folks moved west before I knew my ass from a hole in the ground. Going back to visit relatives was always fun. Xmas was cold. Summer was nice."My brain's a good brain!"0 -
Probably.. but school systems build in snow days into the schedule now so if they don't use them, the kids actually end the school year earlier (at least in VA). So they are more likely to call off school if there is a chance of a safety risk considering the buffer. People are so litigious these days that if there is any sort of accident, the school system will be sued.HesCalledDyer said:
I agree with you that keeping everyone safe until roads are safe to travel is necessary. 6-8 inches of snow, yes delay school or call it off until the plows roll through. Calling school off when it rains just because they said it might snow, on the other hand, is taking it too far.Thirty Bills Unpaid said:
Just for the record... snow days are complete linked to risk: keeping everyone off the roads until they are safe to travel (at least here they are).HughFreakingDillon said:it really bugs me when people talk about "today's youth" and how spoiled they are and weak they are and whatnot. how did that happen? they didn't just come out of the womb that way. they were TAUGHT that way by the generation bitching about them! as someone else said, each generation has it easier than the last as a result of technology and innovation. it doesn't mean they are weaker, it means they are used to fewer hardships. I'm sure they'd be just as resiliant in a time of crisis as any of us. it's not like millenials are that much different from gen x-ers. a school cancelling for a snow day isn't because the kids are whiners. it's because the adults making the rules think the kids can't handle it. and that's whose fault it is.
I think we also tend to suffer from revisionist history a bit. did I have to walk to school in the freezing cold and blizzard like conditions? yep. did I whine about it? of course I did. I wasn't walking to school with a pipe in my mouth and my fists clenched and a scowl shouting "you won't beat me!" to the heavens.
and I'm from the coldest shithole in NA.
anyway, back to the thread.
Winterpeg. Eesh. Was there coaching a few years back. Sorry, Hugh. It never left a great impression with me. It was cold. And flat. I wanted out of there.0 -
Remember when you could dial a local number and not have to use the area code? Or! Remember when you could look at someone's phone number and know the section of town that they lived in? Not so much anymore.2014: Cincinnati
2016: Lexington and Wrigley 10 -
Clock radio with built in phone in my bedroom."My brain's a good brain!"0
-
Grab 'em by the pusillanimous?
:whistle:0 -
up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A, startI SAW PEARL JAM0
-
Categories
- All Categories
- 149K Pearl Jam's Music and Activism
- 110.1K The Porch
- 278 Vitalogy
- 35.1K Given To Fly (live)
- 3.5K Words and Music...Communication
- 39.2K Flea Market
- 39.2K Lost Dogs
- 58.7K Not Pearl Jam's Music
- 10.6K Musicians and Gearheads
- 29.1K Other Music
- 17.8K Poetry, Prose, Music & Art
- 1.1K The Art Wall
- 56.8K Non-Pearl Jam Discussion
- 22.2K A Moving Train
- 31.7K All Encompassing Trip
- 2.9K Technical Stuff and Help