Thanks to all and an update on my wife

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  • kce8
    kce8 Posts: 1,636
    My best wishes for your family and I hope 2015 will really be a better and peaceful year for you!
    Merry Christmas !
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    edited December 2014
    You guy's are the best. I mean really. The fact that you took the time out of your day to send Christmas wishes to me and my family proves a few things here.

    1). You are the greatest and most thoughtful people on this site.
    2). Nobody compares to your BIG hearts. The Love you give is equal to the love you will receive.
    3). We love you guy's the most
    4). Just like all those e-mails you get through the years that state if you pass this on you will be rewarded in life by good health, riches and everlasting love. Only on this site you will get it 20 times greater.

    I guess I woke up in a goofy mood. Having fun with the kids and they all agreed that I should post this. To all who didn't post we truly wish you the best in the upcoming year and still feel tremendous love for you as well.

    Merry Christmas everybody from the Pauley's
    Post edited by paysonites on
    John and Shawna
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    Good afternoon,
    I've come here for support before and was blessed with plenty. Life has continued to be hard and things are worse than they ever have been. At least emotionally. My mother is deathly ill, my wife spends most days bedridden from her pain. I am at a crossroads with my job. It's honestly nothing due to my part. It is a work app. that does not work in my area and has caused things to be extremely stressful and difficult. I had to get on some depression medicine which hasn't worked. My doctor is all booked up and is unable to see me today. At this point I am having a nervous breakdown. My wife is in so much pain since this last procedure that she is crying and in severe pain and nothing seems to ease or comfort her. Within the hour I am taking her in to see another doctor. This song I attached has become an emotional favorite and it explains exactly how we feel. Most of the time when it gets hard it is manageable. Sometimes I feel like reaching out to all of you good people. I'm having shakes and chest pains and I am just hoping for a little love and support.

    Sincerely,
    John

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YJs5eoqoVYU
    John and Shawna
  • SD48277
    SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    John, I am so sorry to hear that things are not going well. My heart goes out to you, Shawna, your boys, and your mom.
    ELITIST FUK
  • jjflash
    jjflash Posts: 5,031
    John, Fantastic song:) Thoughts: (sometimes) alone in this together....but we can't be together and alone. Keep on hoping, my friend. Sorry to hear of your difficult times and I hope they soon change for the better. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,835
    Hi John,
    So sorry to hear things are this way and the updates about your mother, Shawna, and your current stress and the toll it is taking. I know we keep saying hang in there but I know that you can & will continue to be the hero that your family knows you are. We love you guys and wish the best. I hope that you can get in to the doctor tomorrow and allow them to try and work with putting together some temporary relief to the anxiety you are feeling. Makes me shake and sweat just trying to put myself into your shoes old friend.
    Glad there is your old friend Music continuing to provide some outlet for your feelings -- please continue to let us know how things are going. We care and truly are thinking of you all.

    B&M
    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    edited February 2015
    Thank you for thinking of us. We really appreciate your pm's
    Post edited by paysonites on
    John and Shawna
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Please know you're not a burden to anyone here. There are shoulders and ears in abundance for you. And while I know the catharsis of typing, writing...please also look after yourself, replenish all you've given much as you can. Maybe have someone spell you for a bit so you can breathe, or seek out some of the resources that can bring you respite, release. It's not selfish, it's survivalism and needed.

    Many well-wishes from this stranger to you and your family, all that you're bearing.

    (and not to sound like a mother hen, keep an eye on those chest pains)
  • axellaire8
    axellaire8 Belgium Posts: 235
    Wish you the best this year for you and your familiy. :-*

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  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,835
    Hi John & Shawna,

    Wanted to write and wish you both a Happy Anniversary today and hope that things are going better for the both of you in the long time since we have heard from you. Hope the kids are doing well and know that we think of you guys often and really hope that today is a day of celebration in honor of the strength of your marriage and all it has seen you through.
    Happy Anniversary!

    B&M
    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,725
    Much love buddy..be stronge
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,835
    To the Anniversary Couple (Sunday!) I wanted to make sure and post a message here before it fled my mind again. Still thinking about your family frequently and hope things are going better right now. Happy Anniversary John & Shawna!
    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • SD48277
    SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    Happy Anniversary!! (Thanks for the reminder, F Me.) I hope you both are well and are enjoying the summer.
    ELITIST FUK
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    F Me In The Brain said:

    To the Anniversary Couple (Sunday!) I wanted to make sure and post a message here before it fled my mind again. Still thinking about your family frequently and hope things are going better right now. Happy Anniversary John & Shawna!

    We can't tell you enough how much it means to hear from our dear friends. Thank you for remembering our special day. We'll be married six years together for 14 years. What a story we've had already and what a story to be told. Still going through procedures and still in love. Lol... We love each other so much. Our lives have brought us together in ways we never thought possible. Happy anniversary to my love, Shawna. Thank you my friend.
    John and Shawna
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    SD48277 said:

    Happy Anniversary!! (Thanks for the reminder, F Me.) I hope you both are well and are enjoying the summer.

    Thank you so much for remembering our special day. You are always thought of in a special way my friend. You are such a wonderful person to us. Our boys 14 and 17 now are just now going back to school. What a great summer we've had. Lots of fun these past months. Good to hear from you... Much love

    John and Shawna
    John and Shawna
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    dimitrispearljam said:

    Much love buddy..be stronge

    Wow!!! Thank you so much for taking the time to say hello. This brings back so many good memories for us. The love and strength that you gave us back then. Hope all is well with you. Thank you our friend.
    John and Shawna
    John and Shawna
  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,835
    Hope you guys have a wonderful day -- still think of you both and your lovely family as well.  Happy Anniversary!!
    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,725
    thinking of u guys  today...hope u guys are great..much love
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,835
    Happy Anniversary to John & Shawna -- has been too long.  Hope that you both, and the boys, are happy and healthy.

    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,835
    Happy Anniversary John & Shawna.  Been a wild 2020, hopefully you have all been together & are doing well.

    The love he receives is the love that is saved

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