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But that someone else agreed to accommodate. They weren't made to. Unless they were required by the airline to switch seats, I don't see a problem. Zero tolerance for someone asking to trade seats doesn't really seem realistic to me. Don't get me wrong. As many here know, i have VERY strong feelings about the issue of inequality for women in religion. VERY. But this particular case... meh. No one was made to do anything, the offended woman didn't have to do anything.... I guess my outrage is saved for when religious beliefs (or men, or anyone or anything) impinges on women's rights and freedoms. That did not happen in this case, so I'm not really sure what to specifically be mad about. I mean, YES, I hate that any religion has these kinds of beliefs in the first place. It makes me sick. But I don't really get angry about such beliefs until they actually impact women in some way. Of course, if there were a conversation about these beliefs themselves and how they DO impact women, yeah, I'd be all over that. But the focus of this particular story is about a belief NOT impacting a woman....With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata0
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Soul, she WAS asked if she would. By staff.PJ_Soul said:
I guess. If the flight attendant had suggested that the woman move, then I'd be all over this incident. But since they didn't, and the woman actually wasn't put out at all, except for letting an Orthodox Jew offend her (and I would be offended too if it happened to me, although I wouldn't really want to sit next to someone from this faith myself, so wouldn't mind that much. I was on a flight once where there was an Orthodox Jew sitting across the isle from me, and even then it got a little annoying, because he kept having to get up and pray and do his leather strip wrapped around his arm thing and bob up and down and stuff in the aisle. It was distracting and annoying to have him doing that in such close quarters... but of course I didn't complain to him or anything. I figure he was just doing what he felt he had to do).PJfanwillneverleave1 said:
I guess we see things differently.PJ_Soul said:
But the airline never even considered moving this woman to accommodate a person's religious beliefs, did they?? I don't think there is any chipping away happening here at all.PJfanwillneverleave1 said:^^^
I am only stating that because of their interpersonal beliefs it is eroding away secular beliefs at a miniscule level (chipping away).
Soon there will be rules on airline pamphlets stating - In accordance with our airline policy if you are asked to change seats to accommodate a persons religious beliefs you must or may be subject to fines and removal from aircraft at your expense.
cheers
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"I said, 'This man is refusing to sit next to me because I am a woman.' At that point, another man behind ... offered to switch with me and the airline attendant said, 'Would you be willing to move? and I said, 'Absolutely not. This is ridiculous,'" she said. "I was without words."
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Sorry, I meant asked as in, "please get put of your seat so this man can sit here. Thank you." Not "uhhh, are you willing to?? No? Kay." In other words, sje was under no obligation to move, and no one thought she was unreasonable for not.mickeyrat said:
Soul, she WAS asked if she would. By staff.PJ_Soul said:
I guess. If the flight attendant had suggested that the woman move, then I'd be all over this incident. But since they didn't, and the woman actually wasn't put out at all, except for letting an Orthodox Jew offend her (and I would be offended too if it happened to me, although I wouldn't really want to sit next to someone from this faith myself, so wouldn't mind that much. I was on a flight once where there was an Orthodox Jew sitting across the isle from me, and even then it got a little annoying, because he kept having to get up and pray and do his leather strip wrapped around his arm thing and bob up and down and stuff in the aisle. It was distracting and annoying to have him doing that in such close quarters... but of course I didn't complain to him or anything. I figure he was just doing what he felt he had to do).PJfanwillneverleave1 said:
I guess we see things differently.PJ_Soul said:
But the airline never even considered moving this woman to accommodate a person's religious beliefs, did they?? I don't think there is any chipping away happening here at all.PJfanwillneverleave1 said:^^^
I am only stating that because of their interpersonal beliefs it is eroding away secular beliefs at a miniscule level (chipping away).
Soon there will be rules on airline pamphlets stating - In accordance with our airline policy if you are asked to change seats to accommodate a persons religious beliefs you must or may be subject to fines and removal from aircraft at your expense.
cheers
From the article
em.
"I said, 'This man is refusing to sit next to me because I am a woman.' At that point, another man behind ... offered to switch with me and the airline attendant said, 'Would you be willing to move? and I said, 'Absolutely not. This is ridiculous,'" she said. "I was without words."
Anyway, I'm not defending the idea behind it. I'm just not finding the story rage inducing either, because the woman didn't have to move, said no and everyone agreed... i don't feel like her rights were stomped on and I don't feel like she was treated unfairly. Some dude was a jerk and it sounds like everyone found a resolution pretty quickly and diplomatically (whihc is ideal when you're on a plane). End of this particular story.
But yeah, if this conversation were about the status of women and attitude of men in the Orthodox Jewish faith, I would be telling you that these fuckers make me sick to my stomach and so does their religious doctrine.
Here is a story that is really about something, since we're on the topic of these bigoted extremist Orthodox Jews and their fucked up ideas in the name of God (i'd also have a word about their fucking criminal justice system, letting this man out so he could go back and repeat his hate crime):
http://time.com/3979215/jerusalem-gay-pride-parade-stabbing/Post edited by PJ_Soul onWith all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata0 -
Obviously, he cannot resist stabbing gay people.PJ_Soul said:
Sorry, I meant asked as in, "please get put of your seat so this man can sit here. Thank you." Not "uhhh, are you willing to?? No? Kay." In other words, sje was under no obligation to move, and no one thought she was unreasonable for not.mickeyrat said:
Soul, she WAS asked if she would. By staff.PJ_Soul said:
I guess. If the flight attendant had suggested that the woman move, then I'd be all over this incident. But since they didn't, and the woman actually wasn't put out at all, except for letting an Orthodox Jew offend her (and I would be offended too if it happened to me, although I wouldn't really want to sit next to someone from this faith myself, so wouldn't mind that much. I was on a flight once where there was an Orthodox Jew sitting across the isle from me, and even then it got a little annoying, because he kept having to get up and pray and do his leather strip wrapped around his arm thing and bob up and down and stuff in the aisle. It was distracting and annoying to have him doing that in such close quarters... but of course I didn't complain to him or anything. I figure he was just doing what he felt he had to do).PJfanwillneverleave1 said:
I guess we see things differently.PJ_Soul said:
But the airline never even considered moving this woman to accommodate a person's religious beliefs, did they?? I don't think there is any chipping away happening here at all.PJfanwillneverleave1 said:^^^
I am only stating that because of their interpersonal beliefs it is eroding away secular beliefs at a miniscule level (chipping away).
Soon there will be rules on airline pamphlets stating - In accordance with our airline policy if you are asked to change seats to accommodate a persons religious beliefs you must or may be subject to fines and removal from aircraft at your expense.
cheers
From the article
em.
"I said, 'This man is refusing to sit next to me because I am a woman.' At that point, another man behind ... offered to switch with me and the airline attendant said, 'Would you be willing to move? and I said, 'Absolutely not. This is ridiculous,'" she said. "I was without words."
Anyway, I'm not defending the idea behind it. I'm just not finding the story rage inducing either, because the woman didn't have to move, said no and everyone agreed... i don't feel like her rights were stomped on and I don't feel like she was treated unfairly. Some dude was a jerk and it sounds like everyone found a resolution pretty quickly and diplomatically (whihc is ideal when you're on a plane). End of this particular story.
But yeah, if this conversation were about the status of women and attitude of men in the Orthodox Jewish faith, I would be telling you that these fuckers make me sick to my stomach and so does their religious doctrine.
Here is a story that is really about something, since we're on the topic of these bigoted extremist Orthodox Jews and their fucked up ideas in the name of God (i'd also have a word about their fucking criminal justice system, letting this man out so he could go back and repeat his hate crime):
http://time.com/3979215/jerusalem-gay-pride-parade-stabbing/
Lock him up for good (I actually prefer something different... but to remain on point I'll go with this).
Maybe give him a mirror too... so he can look in it and say to himself, "Holy Christ. I never realized I looked like such a dork. What's wrong with me?""My brain's a good brain!"0 -
I doubt he would say "holy Christ" though.

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