Pearl Jam Dating Service

STAYSEA wrote:

Dr. Delight wrote:

Who, idream and I, idream and Staysea, or Staysea and I?

:nono: :nono: :nono:

Me plus some forum member that has never posted on this thread. We make a happy couple.

Not what you (most)people think. OMG! :fp: Get your mind out of the gutter.


btw.. Cancun...

PJ_Soul wrote:

gimmesometruth27 wrote:

whispering hands wrote:

Are you going to Chicago or London?? If so, come hang out.. Get to know people..

yeah i am going to chicago. staying with friends that are not in 10c though. so i am not sure if i am gonna hang with them or go to the 10c stuff.

Bring them to the parties.

yeah i thought about that. i thought they were 10c only or something....i am more of a spontaneous person so i usually decide to go places on a whim.

small town beck wrote:

Something against biters? :P

nope, not at all...

:P

gimmesometruth27 wrote:

whispering hands wrote:

Take them with you to the gatherings! I googled the place where the Wishlist people are having their ore party, and the place that Mamasan23 is throwing their get together. Both look pretty cool. But that Sluggers place looks hella fun! SKEE BALL!! Anyhow, hope to get to run into ya out there!
And some good advice for. ANYONE trying to find love, start out as friends first.. Get to know someone.. I guess that's why I'm still single.. No one wants to get to know who I am or what I'm about..
And I will never be a slut.. So I guess I'm just SOL. Anyhow see ya in Chicago maybe!

i haven't been paying attention...didn't realize that there was more than one pre-party...i was thinking it was gonna be like the one at PJ20... :fp:

this is all anecdotal, but i have to disagree with you about the being friends first part though. i have always had a lot of friends. lots of female friends, that neither of us are sexually attracted to each other, and they have all been my friends for years and years. i have never ever once had a friendship relationship blossom into anything more. if i were looking for that to happen, i would have gone into it with the intent of being more than just friends. there was always this mutual fear that introducing romance into those relationships would possibly ruin the friendships. and nobody wants that to happen. ya know? then again, that is possibly why i am still single

I agree with you. I have and have had lots of male friends, and in a few cases they have tried to take it to another level (or even been in love with me) and it just inevitably fucked everything up (and really, they weren't just friends with me first - they were attracted to me the whole time and kept it to themselves so I just thought it was completely platonic). So yeah, I have NEVER had a real friendship blossom into a relationship - at least not without disastrous results. And you're right... I figure that, especially for a man, if he's going to be sexually interested in a woman, he's going to feel that way from the start, or will never feel that way. And as a woman I'm the same. Either I'm interested in him romantically from the start, or I never am. I've tried to force my feelings to go that way once or twice, and it didn't work at all.

PJ_Soul wrote:

I agree with you. I have and have had lots of male friends, and in a few cases they have tried to take it to another level (or even been in love with me) and it just inevitably fucked everything up (and really, they weren't just friends with me first - they were attracted to me the whole time and kept it to themselves so I just thought it was completely platonic). So yeah, I have NEVER had a real friendship blossom into a relationship - at least not without disastrous results. And you're right... I figure that, especially for a man, if he's going to be sexually interested in a woman, he's going to feel that way from the start, or will never feel that way. And as a woman I'm the same. Either I'm interested in him romantically from the start, or I never am. I've tried to force my feelings to go that way once or twice, and it didn't work at all.

oh yeah, unrequited love does fuck everything up between 2 people. it happens all the time, and that has inspired some of the great art. as a guy i can freely admit to at one time being sexually attracted to a couple of my girl friends, but i knew that it wasn't mutual, and i was perfectly fine with that. i am still a very good friend to them, mostly, all attraction aside, because i really do care about them. as a guy i can speak with a certain level of authority that most likely, any time you meet a new guy, there is probably some sort of attraction that inspired them to approach you. and yeah, you can't force those feelings. that ends up in disaster 100% of the time.

gimmesometruth27 wrote:

PJ_Soul wrote:

I agree with you. I have and have had lots of male friends, and in a few cases they have tried to take it to another level (or even been in love with me) and it just inevitably fucked everything up (and really, they weren't just friends with me first - they were attracted to me the whole time and kept it to themselves so I just thought it was completely platonic). So yeah, I have NEVER had a real friendship blossom into a relationship - at least not without disastrous results. And you're right... I figure that, especially for a man, if he's going to be sexually interested in a woman, he's going to feel that way from the start, or will never feel that way. And as a woman I'm the same. Either I'm interested in him romantically from the start, or I never am. I've tried to force my feelings to go that way once or twice, and it didn't work at all.

oh yeah, unrequited love does fuck everything up between 2 people. it happens all the time, and that has inspired some of the great art. as a guy i can freely admit to at one time being sexually attracted to a couple of my girl friends, but i knew that it wasn't mutual, and i was perfectly fine with that. i am still a very good friend to them, mostly, all attraction aside, because i really do care about them. as a guy i can speak with a certain level of authority that most likely, any time you meet a new guy, there is probably some sort of attraction that inspired them to approach you. and yeah, you can't force those feelings. that ends up in disaster 100% of the time.

Wait, all guys are attracted to all women they meet and get along with?? What about the ones they personally find unattractive but fun and interesting?? Or guys with spouses?

dimitrispearljam wrote:

i know a cute girl today......she cant stop smilling..

is she still smiling???

if you are in this thread, are you still smiling??