I am looking for a fan

I am looking to see if this fan posts here - my best friend took me to my first full concert friday night - san diego - cox arena - and that is when i first saw this fan - he was on the floor - mikey's side and got a tambourine.....the next time was on the 1st la show - he was on the floor and everyone knew him......and the 3rd time...was the 2nd night and this is what made my friend and i want to get to know him.......before the show started you walked an elderly woman to her seat..........that was awesome!!!!! ........ he has dark hair to his shoulders and a beard/mustache i think and weres dark glasses - do you post here?????? does anyone know him???????