The time I took a Government "Handout"

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  • Cosmo
    Cosmo Posts: 12,225
    We (the USA) are a wealthy country with the means to take care of the vulnerable. Those who want to take these benefits away are borderline barbaric.

    Yes, there is a lot of fraud, but clearly there is actual legitimate need in many more cases.
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    Thank you, Johnny.
    I always thought part of being American was the base principle of the strong, helping the weak... the haves, helping the have nots.
    When did all of that change?
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  • comebackgirl
    comebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    Most of the people I know who have had to access SSI or welfare or unemployment at some point do not come to that decision easily. It's hard enough being in a position to need government support, not to mention the stigma and hit to the pride that comes with it. I really wish that this was not one more obstacle they have to face when their lives are already overwhelmed with so many others.
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  • RW81233
    RW81233 Posts: 2,393
    Jason P wrote:
    I agree that we can't put everyone into the same basket as well. It seems like opinions are treated like light-switches in these threads. On or off.

    It's time to see that people with an opposing opinion may have dimmer switch installed. :)
    not specifically you but some on the other side of the fence from me would say we were "the good poor" because we used assistance to get somewhere...kinda like good "negroes" and "fags" and "chicks" :roll: ...again this isn't directed at you specifically but that's how students have characterized my family as if we were one of the few who tried our asses of. we were one of the few that tried and got lucky as shit is more like it.
  • Cosmo
    Cosmo Posts: 12,225
    hedonist wrote:
    See, I agree with this, Cosmo. I guess I get frustrated when it's inferred that because I (anyone) may think the system has some serious flaws that need to be fixed NOW, I become labelled as looking down on those who need that temporary help - not that anyone's opinion of me really matters in the end, but you know what I mean.

    None of us are immune from needing a handup from time to time. Fuck knows I'm not, and have been there myself.

    It'd be wonderful - rainbows & unicorns, actually :P - if the lumping would ease up on all sides.
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    I think we both feel the same on this... we are willing to pull a guy up from the gutter to get him back up on his feet. We are not going to be his sole support and we don't believe he should take advantage of the kindness of others.
    And yes... the system has flaws... the basic flaw being trust. It trusts that the people receiving the charity are the ones who truely need it. I don't blame the system as much as the people... the flaw in the system is people, namely, the greed within people.
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  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    this is a long read but i think it fits in this thread

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  • BinauralJam
    BinauralJam Posts: 14,158
    The problem, as i see it, are the lifers. I worked with a women who was on section 8 for 25 years (passed away last year), had two kids and raised them and never got married so she could keep section 8 apartment, a 3 bedroom that cost around 400.00 a month when she started and only went up to 650.00 over that time. Her baby's father lived there the entire time and had a good job, not great but good. So now her daughter inherits the apartment ( dont ask me how that works) she's 23 and has two kids and isn't married to the baby's father either and never will be, why would she, she would lose these benefits. But it's not just beating the system, it teaching how to, to the next generation and so on and so on. The person in the system who decides who get what usually lives in those same neighborhood's, so guess who their going to look out for? Their own.

    After saying all this i still have no problem with the government helping people out, even these people, i have a problem with how much we piss away to make a better gun or bomb, i don't see anyone invading the U.S.A. anytime, EVER. Perhaps we could cut the military funds and spend them on our country for a little while?

    But that's just my opinion.
  • Go Beavers
    Go Beavers Posts: 9,618
    inlet13 wrote:
    Why does the government do charity work best? In my mind, they aren't very good at even balancing a checkbook. They are very good at spending money on nonsense - like slug races. How in the world do you rationalize that they aren't wasting a lot of the money that's meant to be directed to these programs? Moreover, how do they provide checks to ensure there aren't "free riders"? Does anyone like paying for those free riders - the people who aren't looking for employment? How exactly are these gov't programs teaching people so they don't end up back with the same problem? Does the government have as much of an incentive to get them a job and off the books as a private enterprise would? Why can't one choose how they'd prefer to donate? Why does it need to be forced via taxes to do it the one way?

    Moreover, why do some here equate ALL people who disagree with "government" forms of welfare, as people who hate the poor? For all you know, they contribute a hell of a lot more (as a percentage of their wealth) than you do - both in taxes and in charitable donations, they'd just prefer to the charitable donations because they know the tax money goes to slug races, running up more debt, hiring more useless gov't positions and printing money to hide it all.

    You have to look at it stepping outside your mind. You said somewhere else the blanket statement that the private sector is more efficient than the government. I think that's one of those phrases where it's often repeated, so eventually it's believed by many. But dig into that statement more. How do you measure efficiency? What services have been provided by the government but then handed over to the private sector only to see the company fail at executing it? Why do some areas of government get the trust of the public and others don't?

    Look at food stamps. Administrative costs are kept low, where do you identify inefficiency in how it's run?

    When you made the statement "providing checks", maybe you're referring to people who receive TANF, or cash welfare. The expectations of the recipient vary from state to state, but things were tightened up in the 90's and state's are raising the bar with expectations of the recipient. There are exemptions, but there is a work requirement when receiving tanf (again will vary state to state). Caseworkers also make home visits to follow up on what's being reported with the expectation. Remember that any program to develop skills and also trying to stop fraud is expensive in itself.

    One can donate, but often the conservative argument relies on the notion that if taxes that went to public assistance was somehow given back to the individual, that an equal contribution to charitable organizations would occur. This doesn't play out in reality. When people get a tax kicker or 'stimulus' or whatever, they spend it on paying down some personal debt, saving some of it, and also buying crap made in China.
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    i have had a job outside the home since i was 10 years old. sure it wasn't taxed when i was that young; i cut grass, washed windows, and vaccumed hallways at a condo. i always have had a job of some kind. my dad and mom instilled a hard work ethic into us kids.

    now when mom & dad got divorced some of the time we lived with mom and some of the time we lived with the ol' man. when living with mom i worked after school at a mexican restuarant washing dishes and making tacos, burritos & enchaladas. not to difficult of stuff to prepare. my mom got my checks come payday. this burnt my frickin ass something fierce but i knew it had to happen. she worked 2 part time jobs and attended college fulltime and we were poor as fuck. this went on for years.

    i have always gave my mom money. drug money or clean... as long as our family was eating i was at ease. yes i sold pot as a teenager to help feed my younger brothers, mom and myself plus i worked. mom got food stamps and it was the farthest thing from a good time.

    my friends always asked, "but chad, where's your money? you just got paid?" fact is mom got most of my money. i might of had 10 bucks or some shit to buy a small sack. life is a hash & cold fucking place.

    yes dad paid child support. the fact is it costs a shit load of money to raise 3 kids and when you aren't employeed with a great or almost great job, you're fucked!
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  • MotoDC
    MotoDC Posts: 947
    Go Beavers wrote:
    One can donate, but often the conservative argument relies on the notion that if taxes that went to public assistance was somehow given back to the individual, that an equal contribution to charitable organizations would occur. This doesn't play out in reality. When people get a tax kicker or 'stimulus' or whatever, they spend it on paying down some personal debt, saving some of it, and also buying crap made in China.
    To me this is almost a separate issue. Specifically, how one-time tax kickbacks are useless and arguably counterproductive. At the end of the day, those kinds of approaches don't change expectations and thus they don't change behaviors. Whether the purpose is charitable donations or boosting the economy, if I have no reason to believe that a notable paradigm shift has occurred in tax policy, my general habit patterns related to spending, giving, and saving aren't really going to change very much.
  • unsung
    unsung I stopped by on March 7 2024. First time in many years, had to update payment info. Hope all is well. Politicians suck. Bye. Posts: 9,487
    Nothing wrong with a bit of help to get you back on your feet. It's those that get it cradle-to-grave that are the problem.
  • Go Beavers
    Go Beavers Posts: 9,618
    unsung wrote:
    Nothing wrong with a bit of help to get you back on your feet. It's those that get it cradle-to-grave that are the problem.

    How many get it cradle to grave? I guess you mean those that could work but abuse the system in some way. I think people over estimate how often this happens and then use that as the basis for their argument that the country is being destroyed be all these people with a sense of entitlement and that no one has a work ethic anymore. Then spending on public assistance programs is made into the villain rather then other areas of spending.
  • usamamasan1
    usamamasan1 Posts: 4,695
    edited August 2012
    What is the % of USA population on govt assistance again?
    A joke it is.
    We need stronger family units for starters.

    Oh SNAP
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  • RW81233
    RW81233 Posts: 2,393
    What is the % of USA population on govt assistance again?
    A joke it is.
    We need stronger family units for starters.
    how can we have stronger family units when both parents have to work because of a decimation of the middle class? the logic of some conservatives makes little sense take away assitance, then beg for stronger families. outsource jobs, but get pissed about joblessness. make it harder for families to be families then ask for more family values. how can this work?
  • usamamasan1
    usamamasan1 Posts: 4,695
    I don't see what the big deal is.
  • usamamasan1
    usamamasan1 Posts: 4,695
    Equal opportunities NOT equal outcomes
  • RW81233
    RW81233 Posts: 2,393
    I'm all for equal opportunities but can you truly argue that taking away government assistance aids in making more equal opportunities? i'm not advocating some sort of communist lifestyle (that's as pie in the sky as truly free markets), but can you clearly demonstrate how taking away government assistance actually helps make more equal opportunity in america?
  • usamamasan1
    usamamasan1 Posts: 4,695
    Nope
    Just take away the abuse, fraud, lazy mother bitches and it's all good.

    Rainbows n unicorns if that could happen.
  • RW81233
    RW81233 Posts: 2,393
    only if we do the same at the top with 20 million dollar payouts to failing ceo's, and businesses getting tax abatements and kickbacks...unicorns and rainbows.
  • RW81233
    RW81233 Posts: 2,393
    here's a quick read on welfare fraud... http://spritzophrenia.wordpress.com/201 ... n-the-usa/
  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    I know that just about anyone can suddenly find themselves unable to make it without help.

    Bob Dylan wrote a song about that in 1965. Though I suspect not everyone was listening.