Why Do People Have to be Haters??

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  • lcusick
    lcusick Posts: 310
    I am not a hater of my sister. I was pointing out that when we exercise to her music, I don't say a word even though I do not like it. So, she should respect me enough to be quiet when a Pearl Jam song comes on. She knows how much I like the band and that I have gone to many of their concerts. She could just tolerate it. She just really hurt my feelings the night I posted the comment because she wouldn't let up through all of "Black" about what a horrible singer Eddie is. I do not "hate" my sister- she is just causing my workout to suck. I realize different people have different tastes in music, but if you care about someone, you do not rip their taste apart, that's all.
  • AlbertaGirl70_
    AlbertaGirl70_ Posts: 1,738
    lcusick wrote:
    I am not a hater of my sister. I was pointing out that when we exercise to her music, I don't say a word even though I do not like it. So, she should respect me enough to be quiet when a Pearl Jam song comes on. She knows how much I like the band and that I have gone to many of their concerts. She could just tolerate it. She just really hurt my feelings the night I posted the comment because she wouldn't let up through all of "Black" about what a horrible singer Eddie is. I do not "hate" my sister- she is just causing my workout to suck. I realize different people have different tastes in music, but if you care about someone, you do not rip their taste apart, that's all.

    I totally agree with what your saying here,and just wanted to say that if your doing 50/50 on the music,and she's hating on it like that then she's just being a bitch! No offence :lol:
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  • London Bridge
    London Bridge USA Posts: 4,733
    I hate this thread.
    It's such a tragedy :roll:
  • JaneNY
    JaneNY Posts: 4,438
    lcusick wrote:
    I am not a hater of my sister. I was pointing out that when we exercise to her music, I don't say a word even though I do not like it. So, she should respect me enough to be quiet when a Pearl Jam song comes on. She knows how much I like the band and that I have gone to many of their concerts. She could just tolerate it. She just really hurt my feelings the night I posted the comment because she wouldn't let up through all of "Black" about what a horrible singer Eddie is. I do not "hate" my sister- she is just causing my workout to suck. I realize different people have different tastes in music, but if you care about someone, you do not rip their taste apart, that's all.

    Why don't you tell her exactly what you told us? While not everyone has to like Pearl Jam, I don't see why it is necessary to put them down; I don't think you are putting down what she likes....Tell her how you feel but in a way so she doesn't get defensive.
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  • helplessdancer
    helplessdancer Posts: 5,293
    having a genuine respect for someone else's differing opinion is a hard thing to accept

    haters will always hate. it's a fact of life.
  • PKTrekGirl
    PKTrekGirl Posts: 747
    I know that you want to work out to music...but in this case, it might be necessary to work out without tunes, just to keep the peace. Workout music is just not worth this level of frustration.

    Just go running after your workout, and take your iPod full of PJ along. I have been running to PJ tunes for 20 years and never get tired of it.
  • pandora
    pandora Posts: 21,855
    I think any music is good to work out to...
    gets ya going!

    Can't imagine being fueled without it
  • javis el errante
    javis el errante Buenos Aires Posts: 6,147
    don't share the ipod... even more, why do you care?
    ... I am not in the business of being liked anymore ...

  • boyo79
    boyo79 Warrington, UK Posts: 6,525
    javis el errante wrote:
    don't share the ipod... even more, why do you care?
    iOnlyownMymind wrote:
    Why don't you each just listen to your own ipods then if it bothers you both so much? :?


    Also, I would imagine she says those things because she knows how you'll react and its easy to wind you up. At the end of the day, its just a band. No need to be upset because someone doesn't like your favourite band
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  • javis el errante
    javis el errante Buenos Aires Posts: 6,147
    boyo79 wrote:
    javis el errante wrote:
    don't share the ipod... even more, why do you care?
    iOnlyownMymind wrote:
    Why don't you each just listen to your own ipods then if it bothers you both so much? :?


    Also, I would imagine she says those things because she knows how you'll react and its easy to wind you up. At the end of the day, its just a band. No need to be upset because someone doesn't like your favourite band

    That,if your sis don't like PJ, she is the one who misses it, and even though we get happy one new 10C members appear here, specially if they are young, in a way we are glad that we aren't that many, otherwise, goods will be sold out even faster...
    ... I am not in the business of being liked anymore ...

  • boyo79
    boyo79 Warrington, UK Posts: 6,525
    Just sounds like sibling rivalry to me. She don't like Pearl Jam, he don't like Lady Gaga.
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