Age gaps....

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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    I didn't get her number but a few of my friends have her on facebook, they know her more than me.
    Do I add her?
    I dunno when I will see her again but I see she is attending a community event at a nightclub on Sunday night (not into clubbing).
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • pjfan31
    pjfan31 Posts: 7,335
    Thats tough man... Add her sure, but I wouldn't go to a night club... You would just look like a sleaze hanging around an 18 yr old girl, plus her friends will most likely be annoying...

    Having said that, could be a good venue for a bit of dutch courage... Speaking of which I could do with some myself...
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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    pjfan31 wrote:
    Thats tough man... Add her sure, but I wouldn't go to a night club... You would just look like a sleaze hanging around an 18 yr old girl, plus her friends will most likely be annoying...

    Having said that, could be a good venue for a bit of dutch courage... Speaking of which I could do with some myself...

    True that, and yes I need a strong hit of dutch courage.
    Why they call it dutch? lol
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • threefish10
    threefish10 Posts: 7,392
    Did someone say Dutch rudder?
    condescending and sarcastic since 1980
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    I was about to send a friend request, not sure about it.
    Could appear creepy? Stalking like? or obvious.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • pjfan31
    pjfan31 Posts: 7,335
    Don't know why. Same reason they call a dutch oven a dutch oven...

    THose dutch are crazy...
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  • pjfan31
    pjfan31 Posts: 7,335
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    I was about to send a friend request, not sure about it.
    Could appear creepy? Stalking like? or obvious.


    Have you got mutual friends? If you had to search for her it might be a bit creepy. If not you can say 'you came up on a you might know' thing...
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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    pjfan31 wrote:
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    I was about to send a friend request, not sure about it.
    Could appear creepy? Stalking like? or obvious.


    Have you got mutual friends? If you had to search for her it might be a bit creepy. If not you can say 'you came up on a you might know' thing...

    Yeah she is mutual friends with 9 of my friends, about half of them became her FB friends since the 21st last weekend.
    Yeah I could say something like that.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • threefish10
    threefish10 Posts: 7,392
    Maybe just add a personal message with the friends request, they give you the option to.

    You know just say you enjoyed meeting her and chatting or whatever and you thought maybe sometime it would be good if you could fuck.


    Ok maybe not that last bit.
    condescending and sarcastic since 1980
  • stargirl69
    stargirl69 Posts: 6,387
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    My age is scaring me now.

    At 26 :o Man I'm as well locking myself away now then,single again at 41 sucks,where the hell do I go? I don't club and rarely go to bars as I don't drink anymore.Gig's are out as I am there for the music not to case the joint cougar style :lol:


    I say go for it,what is the harm,get in contact facebook whatever,once alone you'll work out if the age difference is an issue.
    My dad was 9 years older than mum,they were married 53 years.
    Just don't over think and do something
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  • pjfan31
    pjfan31 Posts: 7,335
    stargirl69 wrote:
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    My age is scaring me now.

    At 26 :o Man I'm as well locking myself away now then,single again at 41 sucks,where the hell do I go? I don't club and rarely go to bars as I don't drink anymore.Gig's are out as I am there for the music not to case the joint cougar style :lol:


    I say go for it,what is the harm,get in contact facebook whatever,once alone you'll work out if the age difference is an issue.
    My dad was 9 years older than mum,they were married 53 years.
    Just don't over think and do something


    Hardware stores...
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  • stargirl69
    stargirl69 Posts: 6,387
    pjfan31 wrote:
    stargirl69 wrote:
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    My age is scaring me now.

    At 26 :o Man I'm as well locking myself away now then,single again at 41 sucks,where the hell do I go? I don't club and rarely go to bars as I don't drink anymore.Gig's are out as I am there for the music not to case the joint cougar style :lol:


    I say go for it,what is the harm,get in contact facebook whatever,once alone you'll work out if the age difference is an issue.
    My dad was 9 years older than mum,they were married 53 years.
    Just don't over think and do something


    Hardware stores...

    :lol: Went there to stock up on industrial rope,gaffer tape,grease and plastic sheeting but noone seemed interested in what I was purchasing ... Too much maybe :? ?
    “There should be a place where only the things you want to happen, happen”
  • pjfan31
    pjfan31 Posts: 7,335
    stargirl69 wrote:
    :lol: Went there to stock up on industrial rope,gaffer tape,grease and plastic sheeting but noone seemed interested in what I was purchasing ... Too much maybe :? ?


    geez who are you? this guy?

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    Next time try fluffy handcuffs... A lot less aggresive, same result...
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  • stargirl69
    stargirl69 Posts: 6,387
    pjfan31 wrote:
    Next time try fluffy handcuffs... A lot less aggresive, same result...


    :lol::D:lol: :roll: Too much ? Could this be the reason I'm single :think: :lol:
    “There should be a place where only the things you want to happen, happen”

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