What would you say ladies?
Yellow Ledbelly
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My best friend in the world who happens to be a very beautiful young lady works for a guy who has a less than sterling reputation for his treatment of women. He's kinda looked at as a pervert all around.
So, my friend is taking a couple of college courses at night and she had the last meeting for one of them last night. When she got to my house afterwards she was laughing about her instructor not remembering her name when he did remember everyone else's name. She tells that story to her boss this morning and he said.....
"Well I hate to tell you but nobody cares what your name is and that's because they aren't looking at your face."
It offended her and hurt her feelings and I, for one, do not blame her at all. It actually makes me quite angry because I knew the guy long before she did and I work with his wife. Both are huge pains in the ass.
So, ladies, if your boss said that or something similar to you, what would you say/feel?
So, my friend is taking a couple of college courses at night and she had the last meeting for one of them last night. When she got to my house afterwards she was laughing about her instructor not remembering her name when he did remember everyone else's name. She tells that story to her boss this morning and he said.....
"Well I hate to tell you but nobody cares what your name is and that's because they aren't looking at your face."
It offended her and hurt her feelings and I, for one, do not blame her at all. It actually makes me quite angry because I knew the guy long before she did and I work with his wife. Both are huge pains in the ass.
So, ladies, if your boss said that or something similar to you, what would you say/feel?
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Zero tolerance for that in the work place.
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That would suck if the boss had an accident on his way in to work one day- Someone running into him with a scalding hot cup of coffee that happens to spill all over hits nuts.
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I feel bad in a way because I'm really the reason she ended up working there. She lost her job suddenly one Thursday, I mentioned it to the guy's wife friday morning and she said her husband was looking for somebody, so she started working there the following Monday. Already having more than enough ill will towards the guy for having heard lots of stuff about him and knowing he's a jackass, I was hesitant to even tell her about that opportunity but at the time I felt it was more important for her sanity to get a job as quickly as possible because she was freaking out. I was worried from day one this kind of shit would happen.
I'm still fucking mad about it. Yet another reason to despise that bastard. What's worse is I know her better than I do anybody in the world and I could tell it really hurt her feelings when we talked about it face to face.
Piece of shit scumbag
They say every sin is deadly but I believe they may be wrong...I'm guilty of all seven and I don't feel too bad at all
And scalding coffee on his nuts would be a good start but just the beginning of what he deserves in my book
They say every sin is deadly but I believe they may be wrong...I'm guilty of all seven and I don't feel too bad at all
might be time to say something to the guy. obviously you know the guy well enough to know what he is like. i wouldn't make a huge deal in front of anyone about it but might want to approach him and tell him you've seen his act and he needs to fucking cool it. no need to mention specific incidences or people necessarily so your friend doesn't get caught in the middle, but a good harsh reminder of decent behavior might be in order. you might want to throw in there how he would feel if someone make similar remarks about his wife daugther or mother.
She even said to me that maybe she was just overreacting and it wasn't meant to sound like it did. I said well I don't know how else you could take that...if he was trying to be funny he failed miserably
They say every sin is deadly but I believe they may be wrong...I'm guilty of all seven and I don't feel too bad at all
no offense pjhawks, but I would absolutely NOT do this. Professionally, this is none of yellow ledbelly's business. I don't know how big this office is, but if it has an HR department, she needs to report this immediately, or this guy's immediate superior. It will NEVER stop and WILL get worse unless it is nipped, NOW. Having a friend or co-worker confront this loser will only make things worse for this girl and possibly him as well. And if in fact it does get worse, involving other people will hurt her standing in the argument later on down the line.
If this guy has a history of this crap in this same office, he'll get the boot before you know it. Most corporations don't fire people becuase they can't; all they hear is gossip and never anything official gets reported. Most places WISH people would report this stuff so they have reason to get rid of scum like this. Please, urge her to report him. It will help her and most likely other women down the road.
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Paul David....you're right, I really shouldn't say anything to him and I know that as badly as I would love to tell him off (punch him in the throat). Bottom line, the guy knows the nature of our relationship and how close we are and it wouldn't be good for me to say anything at all. It's her place to decide what, if anything, to say about it because it is her job and her livelihood.
By the way, he lost his corporate office last year, but has kept the office open independently under his name. My friend and one other girl are the only ones who work there. The other girl is quite homely and stupid to boot though
They say every sin is deadly but I believe they may be wrong...I'm guilty of all seven and I don't feel too bad at all