propose at concert?

loveboatcaptain10
loveboatcaptain10 Posts: 36
edited April 2010 in The Porch
Okay, need opinions.
Going to KC and St Louis shows w/ love of my life. I have the ring and am just waiting for the right time.
would a Pearl Jam concert be a good choice? Has anyone ever seen anything like this done at a PJ concert?
Maybe during Just Breathe? I dont want to do it and annoy people (especially the 6 on stage) by trying to steal the show.... but I could combine two of the most memorable moments in my life into one, big, heart pounding moment. We should have decent seats thanks to the 10 club... so, what does everyone think?
great idea or too cheesy?
thanks everyone, see some of you in early May!
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  • Paul Andrews
    Paul Andrews Posts: 2,489
    edited April 2010
    Just keep this in mind...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZvdZJvmAfws

    and

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JraEYwvW-s

    and

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bJS5tUsZYOg

    or..

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LH9K74IFX80

    even...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WgATRMoEVTY

    starting to cringe now...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cJm0BPU33vY

    it's getting painful...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_OR_3jKjOHk

    Maybe a nice private place is better :o
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  • DeetroitBaasketball
    DeetroitBaasketball Posts: 379
    No.
  • Ms. Wes C.addle
    Ms. Wes C.addle Posts: 2,559
    Even if she is a crazy pj fanatic, you should still make it more about you both as a couple or her individually- her likes, memories that the two of you share, a dream, or just completely simple yet meaningful....
    I think proposing at a concert/sporting event is so horribly dumb- even if she is a #1 fan.
    IMO, make it special to her, for the both of you........ and please spare the rest of us in the crowd. :?
  • klusterfuk
    klusterfuk Posts: 1,411
    dont ruin a couple killer shows. do it after the second one.
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  • snipes824
    snipes824 Posts: 870
    cheese to the max.
  • CAVSTARR313
    CAVSTARR313 Posts: 8,756
    Keep the ring on you most of the time, and when you two are having a particularly good day, and you are alone, spring it on her.. Over planning can be really bad
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  • loveboatcaptain10
    loveboatcaptain10 Posts: 36
    ms. wes c.addle wrote:
    Even if she is a crazy pj fanatic, you should still make it more about you both as a couple or her individually- her likes, memories that the two of you share, a dream, or just completely simple yet meaningful....
    I think proposing at a concert/sporting event is so horribly dumb- even if she is a #1 fan.
    IMO, make it special to her, for the both of you........ and please spare the rest of us in the crowd. :?

    really, really glad I ran it by you guys..... saved me a potential regret for not making it more private.
    thank you all!
  • PJStatTracker
    PJStatTracker Posts: 2,400
    ms. wes c.addle wrote:
    Even if she is a crazy pj fanatic, you should still make it more about you both as a couple or her individually- her likes, memories that the two of you share, a dream, or just completely simple yet meaningful....
    I think proposing at a concert/sporting event is so horribly dumb- even if she is a #1 fan.
    IMO, make it special to her, for the both of you........ and please spare the rest of us in the crowd. :?

    I agree with all of this. the act itself is a big enough moment...
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  • LloydXmas
    LloydXmas Posts: 7,539
    Don't do it. Maybe do it before you leave or right when you get there or even after. Don't be that guy
  • Paul Andrews
    Paul Andrews Posts: 2,489
    BabaBooey1979 wrote:
    Don't do it. Maybe do it before you leave or right when you get there or even after. Don't be that guy

    oh oh. 'that guy' strikes again :lol:
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  • Hitch-Hiker
    Hitch-Hiker Posts: 2,873
    Cavstarr313 wrote:
    Keep the ring on you most of the time, and when you two are having a particularly good day, and you are alone, spring it on her.. Over planning can be really bad
    I agree with this plan. Concert proposals are lame.
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  • BeerBaron
    BeerBaron Toronto-ish Posts: 4,100
    Don't do it. There are better times and places.

    @ Paul Andrews: The baseball video is just terrible. You can totally feel the guy's pain...
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  • High Fidelity 2000
    High Fidelity 2000 New Mexico USA Posts: 4,439
    Believe it or not, I was considering the same thing a few years ago. My now-wife said she would hate a big public proposal with a bunch of people around. I had the ring too, so I took it with me on our trip to Vegas for the 2006 show, and was scared to death of losing it, carrying it around for a couple days etc... I took her advice and proposed BEFORE we went to the show, and she was happy. She said she stared at the ring during the songs she has heard enough times before. :)
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  • Paul Andrews
    Paul Andrews Posts: 2,489
    BeerBaron wrote:
    Don't do it. There are better times and places.

    @ Paul Andrews: The baseball video is just terrible. You can totally feel the guy's pain...

    They're terrible. While waiting in line for some of the Aussie GA shows in 2009 we were discussing proposals and the overwhelming concensus from the girls in the discussion was that they'd hate it and would say no if asked at a show. And this came from hardcore fans who were willing to sleep out or at least line up all day for good spots in the GA area.

    Hey BB are you going to the MSG shows?
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  • jg1988
    jg1988 Posts: 181
    do it!! look what might happen...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QGvaXLH1 ... re=related
  • Brock Samson
    Brock Samson Posts: 328
    just because i like going against the grain, i say do it. make it a big production. nobody is going to say shit to you if you do, don't let all these people say you're going to be ruining a show for others. c'mon, you've been planning on doing it for a while now, otherwise you wouldn't have brought it up here. don't pussy out.....DO IT!
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  • jimed14
    jimed14 Posts: 9,488
    My fiance and I are huge concert goers and enormous lovers of music ...

    We met at a concert ... Broken Social Scene/Bloc Party

    We had our first date at a concert ... Wolf Parade

    We went to Seattle last fall for the two Pearl Jam shows and ...........


    ...


    ...


    ...


    ... I was smart enough to propose to her on vacation in Cabo a month later.

    DO NOT PROPOSE AT A CONCERT!
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  • vedderfan10
    vedderfan10 Posts: 2,497
    The ultimate in lameosity, dude...

    Really, was at SLC and found that to be rather a drag and was more for the guy than it was for her...Sorry to the folks involved, but it was very very LAME and attention-seeking... :P

    Take it from a married person - private and surprise is the best...hubby woke me out of a deep deep sleep and asked me - had to make him ask me again to make sure that he wasn't just sleep-proposing! :D
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  • saveyou22
    saveyou22 Posts: 154
    do it before the shows, that way you can enjoy the moment of proposing then partying it up at the concert.
  • saveyou22
    saveyou22 Posts: 154
    btw, hey moe.ron. its nice to see some moe. fans around here. Are you going to msg?

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